Zamkati
- Ntchito zapakhomo zidakalipobe pamndandanda wankhondo
- 1. Kusagwirizana pogawa ntchito zapakhomo
- 2. Kusayamika khama
- 3. Matanthauzo osiyanasiyana a "kuyeretsa"
- 4. Kusatenga udindo woyeretsa mozama
- 5. Masomphenya otsutsana ndi maudindo a amuna ndi akazi
Sikovuta kumanga ndikusamalira nyumba yamaloto anu, koma ndi munthu woyenera wokhala nanu, zonse zimawoneka zotheka. Pali vuto limodzi lokha ... Mutha kuzindikira kuti simukumvetsetsa bwino momwe mungaphatikizire ntchito zapakhomo ndi ubale.
Kusunga nyumbayo ndi yaukhondo ndi ntchito yotopetsa komanso yovuta kubanja lililonse, zomwe zitha kuyika zovuta ngakhale pachibwenzi cholimba.
Kuyesana limodzi komanso kunyengerera, kuyenera kukhala moyo wosangalala limodzi. Momwe zimakhalira, sizovuta kukwaniritsa chisangalalo komanso kusamala.
Ntchito zapakhomo zidakalipobe pamndandanda wankhondo
Mwachiwonekere, kuthana ndi ntchito zapakhomo kumatha kukhalabe koyenera ngati imodzi mwamakani omwe mabanja amakumana nawo.
Chodetsa nkhawa ndichakuti ili ndi vuto lomwe lingakhudze banja lililonse, mosasamala kanthu za gawo laubwenzi.
Kuphatikiza kwa ntchito zapakhomo ndi ubale zitha kuwoneka ngati vuto laling'ono koma zimakhala zenizeni zikapanda kulipidwa.
Kuperewera kwa kulumikizana ndiye komwe kumayambitsa chifukwa cha mavuto omwe akukwera komanso zovuta zina pankhaniyi. Komabe, vutoli limatha kuzika mizu mu zinthu monga kuleredwa kosiyana kapena kulephera kunyengerera.
Zokambirana zofala kwambiri zapakhomo ndi momwe mungazigwirire
1. Kusagwirizana pogawa ntchito zapakhomo
Ndizotheka kunena izi Moyo wamasiku ano ndiwosintha modabwitsa. Udindo ndi ziyembekezo zitha kukuwonongerani inu komanso thupi lanu.
Chifukwa chake, si zachilendo kuwona wokondedwa wanu ngati munthu amene mungamugawireko nkhawa. Ngati izi sizikuchitika momwe mukuyembekezera, malingaliro a kutopa ndi kukhumudwa kumayamba kukulira musanadziwe.
Ponena za kukonza nyumba, lingaliro logawa 50/50 likuwoneka ngati yankho lokhalo loyenera. Ngakhale, iyi siyomwe ili yothandiza kwambiri.
Pulogalamu ya Vuto lagona pa ntchito zapakhomo. Kutaya zinyalala sikokwanira kuphika, sichoncho? Osanenapo kuti mutha kutaya tsiku mosavuta kutsutsana kuti ndi ntchito iti yofunika komanso yovuta kuchita.
Chinthu chabwino kuchita, ndikutero onetsetsani zowona zanu ndi zinthu zomwe mumadzidalira.
Tonse tili ndi ntchito zina zomwe timanyansidwa nazo, koma sizitanthauza kuti wokondedwa wathu amawawona chimodzimodzi. Chifukwa chake, bwanji kambiranani momasuka zomwe zili zovomerezeka ndi zovomerezeka banja lanu?
Ngati wokondedwa wanu amakonda ntchito zomwe simukuzikonda kwenikweni, musazengereze kusinthanitsa ndi zomwe akuwona kuti sizingatheke.
Mwanjira imeneyi nonse mumva bwino za lingaliro la ntchito zapakhomo, ndipo mutha ngakhale onjezerani zokolola zanu.
Kuti muwone bwino njira yatsopanoyi, mutha pangani mndandanda wazotsuka m'nyumba kapena tchati chantchito yabanja ndikuwonetsetsa kuti mukugwira bwino ntchito. Unikani zotsatira zake patadutsa mwezi umodzi kapena iwiri.
2. Kusayamika khama
Kuyamika kumatha kubwera m'njira zosiyanasiyana, koma chinthu chimodzi ndichotsimikizika, tonse timachifuna ndipo timachifuna pachibwenzi.
Kusawona kuti ndi vuto lalikulu, lomwe siliyenera kunyalanyazidwa, chifukwa lingayambitse mkangano wopitilira kamodzi. Zingapangitse kuti muganizirenso za kudzipereka kwanu ndipo mutha kuzimaliza panthawi ina.
Komabe, izi zitha kupewedwa mosavuta ndi kuthana ndi vutoli mwachangu ndikukhala otseguka ku mayankho ena.
Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti mutha kukhala ndi ubale wabwino komanso wathanzi mwachidule kuyika ntchito zapakhomo kwa wina.
Izi sizitanthauza kuti mukuzengereza, zikutanthauza kuti mumalemekeza nthawi yanu yaulere ndipo mukufuna kuyigwiritsa ntchito ndi iwo omwe ali ofunika kwambiri.
Kupeza woyang'anira nyumba wodziwa bwino komanso wodalirika sikungokhala kutenga kukakamizidwa kwa ntchito zapakhomo kuchoka pa iwe. Idzakupatsirani nthawi yoyenera kuti mukalumikizanenso ndi omwe mumawakonda ndikupeza zochitika zosangalatsa pabanja.
Chofunika apa ndikuti simuyenera kuchita mantha fotokozani zokhumudwitsa zanu m'malo moziyika m'mabotolo kungophulika pambuyo pake.
Kumbukirani kuti mnzanuyo si mdani pano, koma munthu amene sakudziwa zisonyezo zanu komanso malingaliro amkati pankhaniyi.
3. Matanthauzo osiyanasiyana a "kuyeretsa"
Zingakhale zosavuta bwanji ngati tonse tiziwona zinthu chimodzimodzi? Tsoka ilo, izi sizichitika kawirikawiri pankhani ya kuyeretsa.
Zomwe zimachitika ndi zoti mnzake azigwira ntchito yayikulu yoyeretsera nyumbayo molimba mtima kuti agwire ntchito yabwinoko. Izi siziyenera kukhala chowiringula, komabe, kuti winayo asadumphe ntchito yonse.
Choonadi chiyenera kunenedwa, ngakhale kukhala wopanda chodetsa kapena munthu wosokonekera ndibwino. Koma pamene anthu onsewa amakhala pansi pa denga limodzi, mulingo wina wonyengerera ndiyofunika.
Pongoyambira, pangani winayo kuti amvetsetse kuti simukuyembekezera kuti zozizwitsa zichitika. Sizinthu zonse zamunthu zomwe zingasinthidwe, koma kuyesayesa kofunikira ndikofunikira.
Ngati zovala zobalalika pansi kapena mbale zodetsa m'nyumba zikukhumudwitsa wokondedwa wanu, kuzipatula zonse m'chipinda chimodzi ndikungosintha.
Mutha kuvomereza kukhala ndi malo anuanu komwe mungakhale nokha ndipo winayo sangakhumudwe nazo.
Ponena za okonza ndikuwongolera, kutsutsa si njira yabwino kwambiri. Sizothandiza kwenikweni, makamaka zikagwiridwa pomwe kutengeka kumatha komanso kuganiza mwanzeru kulibe.
Bwinani yesetsani kulongosola kosavuta chifukwa chake izi ndizofunikira kwa inu, kuphatikiza ndi malingaliro otseguka amalingaliro ena ndi yankho lokhutiritsa chimodzimodzi.
4. Kusatenga udindo woyeretsa mozama
Kulimbana chimodzimodzi mobwerezabwereza kumakhala kovuta. Maudindo okwatirana sayenera kuonedwa mopepuka ndi kusunga nyumba ndi zaudongo ndichimodzi mwazinthu izi. Nanga ndichifukwa chiyani m'modzi yekha mwa anthu omwe akukhudzidwawo amadzipereka kwa iwo?
Chifukwa chachikulu chikhoza kukhala chitetezo kuti pali wina wowachita zivute zitani. Banja lililonse limakhala ndi malamulo ake momwe zinthu ziyenera kukhalira, nthawi zina zimakhazikika popanda inu kuzindikira.
Ngati mupatsa mnzanu lingaliro loti mutha kulowererapo ndikuchita zonsezi mosatengera momwe zinthu ziliri, ndiye kuti mumapanga choyambirira.
Ndizotheka kupereka chithunzi kuti simukufuna kapena mukufuna thandizo lililonse pomwe, ndizosiyana.
Kusintha zizolowezi zakale kumakhala kovuta nthawi zonset ndipo ndichifukwa chake zili choncho ndibwino kukambirana zonse zapakhomo ndi wapadera wanu koyambirira, kuti mukhale omveka. Musaope kufotokoza zomwe mukuyembekezera.
5. Masomphenya otsutsana ndi maudindo a amuna ndi akazi
Tonsefe timamvetsetsa za momwe banja liyenera kusamalidwira ndipo ichi ndichinthu chofunitsitsa kuti tigwiritsitse.
Kukula, dongosolo lamkati lamabanja lathu limakhala chitsanzo, zomwe zimakhudza momwe timawonera momwe zinthu ziyenera kukhalira muubwenzi.
Chilichonse chosiyana chitha kuwoneka chosavomerezeka ndipo tisanadziwe, tikhoza kukangana ndi wokondedwa wathu pa chabwino ndi choipa.
Nthawi zambiri, ichi ndi chinthu chophunziridwa pachiyambi cha chibwenzi, komabe nkutheka kuti chidzaululika mtsogolo.
Ngakhale zitha kuwoneka ngati kusiyana kwamaganizidwe, zitha kukhala zowopsa. Ichi ndichifukwa chake mawu sangakhale okwanira kuthana ndi vutoli.
Ngati mbali inayo siyokonda kulingalira malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu, ndiye kuti mwina chitsanzo chenicheni chingasinthe.
Kuwona nokha momwe zinthu zimayendera m'banja mwanu komanso chifukwa chake, kumatha kubweretsa mawonekedwe ena. Zachidziwikire, zitha kukhala zachilungamo kubwezera, koma izi zithandizira kuthetsa kusamvana kwanu, komanso kumvetsetsa bwenzi lanu.