Zamkati
- Momwe mungafunse mafunso oyenera
- Nawa maubwenzi ochepa ocheza nawo
- Mafunso akuya pachibale kuti akubweretseni pafupi
- Mafunso oyenera amachepetsa kusamvana
- Mankhwalawa angathandize
- Funsanani wina ndi mnzake mafunso okondana
- Lankhulani ndi cholinga
Zomwe zimayambitsa kusokonekera kwa kulumikizana muubwenzi ndimafunso am'banja lomaliza.
Mafunso onga otopetsa kwamuyaya, "Linali bwanji tsiku lako?" pafupifupi konse kumatsogolera kuzokambirana zilizonse zomwe muyenera kukhala nazo. Mabanja ochepa kwambiri anganene kuti apeza chidziwitso chatsopano pofunsa wokondedwa wawo za tsiku lawo.
Kufunsa chilichonse kwakanthawi ndikwabwino ndipo kumawonetsa kuti mumasamala koma kugwiritsa ntchito mafunso am'banja lomaliza kuyenera kuchepetsedwa.
Pakakhala mavuto m'banjamo, makamaka okhudzana ndi kulumikizana, sinthani kuti mufunse mafunso oyanjana m'malo mongoyendayenda mumdima.
Momwe mungafunse mafunso oyenera
Kufunsa mafunso oyenera ndi luso lopindulitsa kwambiri lomwe lingateteze ubale wanu.
Izi sizikugwira ntchito paubwenzi wanu ndi mnzanu wokha komanso ana anu komanso abale ena.
Kukhala okumbukira zambiri kungakuthandizeni kudziwa bwino omwe muli nawo pafupi mwa kulowa m'mitima ndi m'mitima yawo.
Kuti muyesere, pewani mafunso wamba omwe samapereka yankho logwira mtima ndipo yang'anani pamafunso ena omwe amafunikira yankho kupitilira, "chabwino".
Ndikofunikira kusankha mafunso abwenzi abwino kapena mafunso okhudzana ndiubwenzi kuti mufunse wina wanu wofunika kuti achoke. Onetsetsani kuti simutha kuchita kufunsa bwenzi lanu kapena bwenzi lanu.
Mafunso okhudzana ndi maubwenzi amakuthandizani kuwunika komwe mumakhala ngati banja ndikuwunikanso kwambiri maubale kuti mupeze zomwe muyenera kuyang'ana.
Nawa maubwenzi ochepa ocheza nawo
- "Zachitika bwanji kumsonkhanowu lero?",
- "Munachita chiyani za (lembani mawuwo)?"
- “Unapita kuti ndi anzako dzulo?”
- "Ndani wapambana masewerawa usiku watha?" (kunena zamasewera)
- “Kodi ndingakuthandizepo china chilichonse lero?”
Mafunso akuya pachibale kuti akubweretseni pafupi
Nawa ochepa mafunso okhudzana ndi ubale kuti mulumikizenso ndi ena anu munjira yopindulitsa.
- Zomwe zimayenera kukhala chinyengo paubwenzi kwa inu?
- Pa tsiku loipa, mungafune kuti ndikuthandizireni?
- Apo chizolowezi chomwe ndiyenera kusintha chifukwa zimakukwiyitsani kwambiri?
- Kodi fayilo ya upangiri wabwino kwambiri waubwenzi womwe mungafune kutsatira kukulitsa kumvana kwathu?
- Kodi ndinu kulumikizana ndi anzanu onse akale?
- Kodi fayilo ya -womalizira kwambiri muubwenzi wathu?
- Kodi mukuganiza kuti tingasamalire bwanji ndalama zathu? Mungasankhe chiyani pakati pa kukhala payekha pazachuma kapena kuphatikiza ndalama?
Mafunso ofunikira ngati awa kufunsa bwenzi lanu kapena bwenzi lanu amapereka zidziwitso zofunikira kukuthandizani kukonza chibwenzi chanu.
Zonsezi zili pamwambapa zimangofunika kuyankha mawu amodzi ndipo onse amawonetsa chidwi pa moyo wa wokondedwa. Mfundo ina yothandiza pamafunso omwe mungafunse muubwenzi ndikupanga kuyesera kulingalira musanapemphe. Mukakhala ndi funso m'malingaliro, sinthani mwachangu pamutu mwanu kuti likhale lothandiza kwambiri.
Mukamasankha mafunso oti mufunse wachinyamata kapena chibwenzi, ndikofunikira kuti muziyang'ana mwatsatanetsatane ndikumverera kuti muyambitse kukambirana.
Ndi ochepa okha omwe amazindikira izi koma zokambirana zilizonse zomwe mungakhale nazo ndi okwatirana, achibale kapena bwenzi zimawonjezera kuya kwa chibwenzicho. Onani nkhani iliyonse yatanthauzo ngati inchi yopitilira ndipo pitilizani kuyesetsa kuti muzilankhula zambiri.
Kukambirana ndi njira yomwe anthu amasonyezera chikondi, kuthandizira, kumvetsetsa, ndi chisamaliro. Komanso, samalani kuti mutsatire mafunso ena. Amatha kukambirana bwino.
Mafunso oyenera amachepetsa kusamvana
Kukambirana ndi momwe mavuto amathetsera.
Kufunsa mafunso oyanjana bwino kumathandiza pakakhala kusamvana. Kupyola zovuta ndi momwe mungasungire maubale anu ndikukhala bwino, kuwapangitsa kukhala olimba. Pambuyo pa kusagwirizana, funsani mafunso omwe angalimbikitse kuthetsa.
Mafunso okhudzana ndi maubwenzi oti mufunse ngati awa, "Ndi nthawi iti yomwe munasemphanapo ndipo munayamba kunyozeka?" kapena "Ndikadakhala kuti ndikadachita chiyani mosiyana?" ndi sitepe yoyenera.
Mankhwalawa angathandize
Kwa iwo omwe akuvutika kusintha zizolowezi zawo zopempha kapena samangodziwona okha akuyankhulana motere, lingalirani za chithandizo cha mabanja.
Chithandizo cha maanja chimathandiza maanja kusintha zizolowezi zawo powaphunzitsa onse awiri momwe angafunse mafunso ofunika. Izi zimachitika kudzera muzochita zingapo mkati ndi kunja kwa magawo omwe amayankha mafunso azachipembedzo omwe angafunse bwenzi lanu kapena bwenzi lanu.
Funsanani wina ndi mnzake mafunso okondana
Zochita zolimbitsa thupi ndikufunsana mafunso okondana.
M'malo mongonena kuti, “Muli bwanji?” kapena "Munali bwanji tsiku lanu?" inu ndi mnzanu mudzatsutsana ndi malire mwaumoyo. Izi zachitika ndi mafunso okondana monga, "Kodi panali nthawi sabata ino yomwe simunamvepo?" kapena "Ndingatani kuti muzimva kuthandizidwa kwambiri?"
Cholinga ndikuphunzitsira anthu kuti asiye kuyanjanitsa mafunso awo paubwenzi. Zachidziwikire, izi zikhala zachilendo poyamba ndipo ena atha kukhala ndi yankho loyambirira la, "Ugh. Zomverera ”koma mutakumana ndi zabwino zakufunsa mafunso okhudzika, nonse awiri mudzakhala omvera.
Ngati vuto lakulankhula motere likupitilira, chithandizo chitha kuzindikira zomwe zikukulepheretsani kuchita izi kuti mupititse patsogolo kulumikizana ndikukuphunzitsani momwe mungazithetsere.
Ili limatha kukhala vuto lomwe limayamba kuyambira ali mwana, china chake muubwenzi chomwe chiyenera kuthetsedwa kapena mungakhale ndi zovuta kusintha zizolowezi. Mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, chithandizo chitha kukuthandizani.
Lankhulani ndi cholinga
Mutaphunzira momwe mungafunse mafunso oyanjana oyenera, gwiritsani ntchito luso limeneli kuti mulankhulane ndi cholinga. Ndizachilendo koma maanja ndi mabanja amakhala ndi chizolowezi chocheza wina ndi mnzake.
Mafunso otere pokambirana ndi ofanana ndi nkhani yaying'ono yomwe mungakhale nayo ndi mlendo.
Mukamalankhula ndi okondedwa mutero ndi cholinga choyandikira ndikulimbitsa kulumikizana.
Ndi mafunso oyanjana oyenera kufunsa, simudzaphonya mwayi wolumikizana.
Moyo umangokhala pakupanga ubale wokhalitsa ndikusangalala ndi omwe mumakhala nawo. Kufunsa mafunso oterewa kumathandiza kuti ubale wanu ukhale wolimba!