Zamkati
- 1. Pangani ulemu ndi kudzidalira
- 2. Pangani mnzanu wapamtima komanso wowalangiza
- 3. Mverani ndi kuvomereza
- 4. Khalani tcheru, osadziteteza
- 5. Pangani gawo loyamba kuti musinthe
Aliyense amadziwa kuti ngakhale maluwa, mwina maluwa okondeka kwambiri padziko lapansi, amakula ndi nthula ndipo amapita kuchimbudzi nthawi ndi nthawi. Ngakhale zitakhala zotani, pankhani yolumikizana, sitimayembekezera china chilichonse kupatula cholakwika chachikulu kuchokera kwa anzathu. Zilakolako zosavomerezeka zimapangitsa gawo lovuta kulumikizana. Ambiri mwa mabanja omwe apulumuka ndikuchita bwino kwazaka zopitilira 30 limodzi avomereza kuti moyo umabweretsa zovuta. Ndi zovuta pamakhala mayeso omwe amatsimikizira ndikupanga mgwirizano wina.
Awa ndi malangizo ndi upangiri kwa omwe angokwatirana kumene kuti banja lawo likhale lolimba komanso losangalala
1. Pangani ulemu ndi kudzidalira
Kupanga ulemu, ndi kudzidalira kwanu pazomwe mumawonjezera pakupanga ubale wolimba ndi mnzanu. Nthawi zina, timalemekezedwa ndi anzathu omwe ali ndi kudzidalira ndipo angatithandizire kukulitsa khalidweli mkati mwathu. M'mikhalidwe yosiyana, timayenera kuwona pang'ono kuti tipeze zomwe timadzipangira tokha. Mnzanu wabwino adzatithandiza kupeza mawonekedwe athu ndikupanga chidaliro chathu. Awa ndi upangiri wofunikira kwa omwe angokwatirana kumene.
2. Pangani mnzanu wapamtima komanso wowalangiza
Upangiri wina kwa omwe angokwatirana kumene ndikuti okwatirana athu akhoza kukhala okhawo oona mtima omwe tili nawo tikakhala ndi zinyalala pankhope zathu. Pomwe ena atinyalanyaza kapena kutichoka, anzathu adzati, "Wokondedwa, yeretsa nkhope yako." Mnzathu nthawi zambiri amakhala munthu amene amatidziwa bwino kuposa munthu wina aliyense ndipo tikamatsutsa; atha kutithandizira kuti tidzipangire kukhala anthu abwinoko.
3. Mverani ndi kuvomereza
Chimodzi mwazinthu zazikulu kuwona wina ndikusowa kwamakalata okakamiza. Pomwe, maanja ambiri amalumikizana nthawi zonse kudzera pamavuto olowera, kufuula, kudzudzula ndikung'ung'udza, makalata amtunduwu ndiowopsa. Kuyankhulana kwakukulu kumatanthauza kukonzekereratu kwa mnzanu. Mofananamo, tikhoza kumvetsera kwa mnzathu wapamtima. Tikhala pansi ndikumamvetsera modekha komanso mobwerezabwereza tibwezera zina mwa zomwe anena, kuwauza kuti tamva komanso kumvetsetsa. Mnzanu wina anganene kuti: “Ndimaona ngati sukuganizira kwenikweni. Kubwereza, "Ndikumvetsetsa kuti simukumva ngati ndikuyang'ana," ikhoza kukhala njira yabwino yolumikizirana ndikusunthira kumvetsetsa kwakukulu. Komabe, izi ziyenera kumalizidwa ndi changu ndi mtima.
4. Khalani tcheru, osadziteteza
Wina Upangiri kwa omwe angokwatirana kumene ndichakuti sichinthu chovuta kuvuta kuzinthu zazing'ono pomwe magulu awiriwo amayamba kuneneza anzawo momwe akuchitira. Yesetsani kuchoka pa izi, mutenge udindo wanu pazinthuzo ndikupita kumalo ochepetsetsa, otseguka m'malo mopita kumalo otetezedwa komwe chilankhulocho chitha kusokonekera. Mwa kubwerera mmbuyo pang'ono pokha ndikuchotsa kudzikonda pamasewera, malire olumikizana ndi anthu enieni amagwa, ndipo njira yolumikizirana ndi mtima wonse imatseguka.
5. Pangani gawo loyamba kuti musinthe
Upangiri womaliza kwa omwe angokwatirana kumene ndikuti ngati mukufuna kusintha wokondedwa wanu, koma mnzanu sali wokonzeka, pamenepo musayime. Ingopita patsogolo ndikupititsa patsogolo dongosolo lanu. Konzani ndi kuvomereza. Kumbukirani; siyani kudzudzula ndikukhala ndi zolinga zazikulu komanso zoganizira za mnzanu komanso anzanu. Mwa kukhazikitsa kusintha kwanu komanso zochita zanu ndi malingaliro anu, dziko lonse lapansi lidzasinthanso.
Mapeto
Pomwe, njirayo mwina siyingakhale yopanda maluwa, kukhala ndi malingaliro abwino, okhalitsa kudzakupatsani njira yolondola. Pakati penipeni, theka la maukwati amatha kupatukana ndipo pafupifupi 63% yamaukwati achiwiri amakumana ndi zoterezi. Mavuto omwe amakhala osatsimikizika muukwati waukulu abwerera mobwerezabwereza mpaka atakhazikika ndikugwira ntchito mkati mwathu. Mfundo yofunika Upangiri kwa omwe angokwatirana kumene ndikuyesera kuthana ndi mavutowa ndikuyamikira kukoma kwa maluwa akuyenda.