Zamkati
- 1. Momwe mungasangalatse mkazi wanu?
- 2. Chonde musasinthe amuna anu!
- 3. Mkazi wako asintha
- 4. Siyani kuwerenga mabuku achikondi amenewo
- 5. Sungani maso anu pansi
- 6. Momwe mungadziwire nthawi
Panali mnyamata zaka zambiri zapitazo yemwe adafunsa mtsikana kuti amukwatire. Mtsikanayo anati ayi, ndipo mnyamatayo anali ndi moyo wautali, wokondwa. Amatha kugona akafuna, palibe amene amasamalira chimbudzi sanasungunuke, amasewera FIFA tsiku lonse, amamwa mowa ndipo amakhala ndi moyo wodabwitsa. Musakhale ovuta kwambiri; tikungoseka!
Malangizo abwino kwambiri osangalatsa muukwati ndikusamalira theka lanu ngati mwana. Izi zitha kumveka ndikuwoneka zolakwika koma ndikhulupirireni kuti zimagwira ntchito. Nthawi zonse mnzanu akamakhala wokhumudwitsa komanso wovuta, muthane naye momwe mungakwaniritsire zaka zisanu. Zimakhala zovuta kuti mnzanuyo akusangalatseni mukakhala ndi ntchito zingapo zomwe sanachite zomwe akumudikirira. Chifukwa chake, njira yabwino ndiyo kuwaona ngati mwana! Tikhulupirireni tikanena mawu oseketsawa kuti banja likhale losangalala limagwira ntchito!
Ukwati ndi wovuta komabe ndi gawo labwino kwambiri pamoyo. Sikuti tizingoletsana kapena kulamulirana koma za kulola wina ndi mnzake kuchita zinthu zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala openga. Ndikofunika kusiya zinthu. Ndikofunika kusiya kupanga mapiri kuchokera kuzinthu zazitali. Ndipo ndikofunikira kupanga malo olakwitsa, kukhululuka ndi kuseka kambiri. Simungakonzekere wina ndi mnzake, chifukwa chake chinthu chabwino kwambiri kuchita ndi kuwasiya akhale osakonzeka ndikukwanitsabe kukonda!
Tili ndi maupangiri oseketsa kwambiri aukwati wachimwemwe, tiyeni tiwapeze!
1. Momwe mungasangalatse mkazi wanu?
Izi zitha kukhala malingaliro abwino kwambiri osangalatsa muukwati wosangalala: simungathe. Pomwe mumavomereza izi, ndibwino. Mgwirizano wathunthu waukwati umatheka kokha pamene mnyamatayo azindikira kuti nthawi zonse amakhala atathetsa mkangano. Mkazi wako azakhala wolondola nthawi zonse. Ziribe kanthu.
2. Chonde musasinthe amuna anu!
Ichi ndi chinthu choyamba mtsikana amene angokwatirana kumene akuyamba kuchita. Chonde imani. Mudamukwatira momwe alili ndiye bwanji osayesa kukhala nawo. Izi zitha kuonedwa ngati nthabwala yoseketsa m'banja koma ndichofunikira kwambiri. Mukayesa kusintha mamuna yemwe mwakwatirana naye amayamba kuthawa ndipo simukufuna.
3. Mkazi wako asintha
Pepani kukutulutsirani koma nayi malangizo ena oseketsa oti mukhale ndi banja losangalala. Inde, ndizowona kuti akazi anu asintha. Sangokhala mtsikana wosasamala, wamtchire yemwe mudakondana naye. Adzakhwima ndipo ayamba kupanga zisankho zomveka. Kwa iye, padzakhala nthawi yoyenera pachilichonse, ndipo mwina simungakonde izi nthawi zina. Khalani nawo chifukwa palibe chomwe mungachite!
4. Siyani kuwerenga mabuku achikondi amenewo
Sadzakhala Nowa kuchokera mu kope lolembera komanso Heathcliff wochokera ku Wuthering Heights, chifukwa chake palibe chifukwa cholota ndikukhumba za izi. Ili ndiye nsonga yothandiza kwambiri pakusangalala m'banja. Nonse mukukhala m'dziko lenileni lomwe liri ndi mavuto ena enieni. Buku lachikondi silisintha kapena kukonza izi.
5. Sungani maso anu pansi
Nthawi yofufuza akazi ena yatha ngati mkazi wanu sali bwino nazo. Titha kukutsimikizirani kuti sizikhala bwino ndi izi. Palibe azimayi kunja uko amene angakhale bwino ngati amuna awo akuyendera atsikana ena. Chifukwa chake dzipulumutsireni inu mavuto ochulukirapo ndikuyang'anitsitsa!
6. Momwe mungadziwire nthawi
Chabwino, lingaliro lina loseketsa laukwati wachimwemwe ndikudziwa kudziwa nthawi. Ngati mkazi wanu akukufunsani nthawi yomwe mukuyenera kuchoka nthawi zonse muuzeni ola limodzi nthawi isanakwane. Tikhulupirireni tikanena izi. Tsatirani izi, ndipo mudzakhala omasuka. Mtsikana samakhala wokonzeka nthawi, chifukwa chake muyenera kumupatsa mphindi makumi asanu ndi limodzi kuti mumve bwino. Ndipo akakuwuzani, adzakhala atafika kunyumba nthawi ya 11 koloko usiku wa anyamata basi kuti apange 1 koloko m'mawa. Mukakhala kunja ndi anyamata mwachilengedwe kuti musanyalanyaze nthawi.
Kukulunga
Awa ndi ena mwa malangizo abwino kwambiri osangalatsa banja. Yesetsani kuzigwiritsa ntchito yanu, ndipo adzakuthandizani. Banja lililonse ndiukwati uliwonse ndizosiyana paokha, ndipo mothandizidwa pang'ono, zitha kupita kutali!