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Kupanga malonjezo aukwati omwe mungasankhe nokha kumatha kukhala kovuta ngati simumasuka kulemba ndikugawana zakukhosi kwanu. Zachisoni kuti izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kwa okwatirana omwe 'amuna' awo amatha kupsinjika malingaliro awo. Mukamayesetsa kuti mugwire ntchitoyi, mwina mungachite mantha kuposa momwe mungalimbikitsire udindowo. Osadandaula, nkhaniyi ikuthandizani kuti muthane nayo mwina ndikupangitsani kuti musangalale nayo.
Zingakhale zovuta kuchita "kuti mnzanu akuchitireni inu," ndipo siziyenera kukhala choncho. Kuyika lonjezo pamodzi kuyenera kukhala udindo wanu.
Ngati mutakhala ndi udindo wopanga malonjezo achikondi kwa iye, zotsatira zake zitha kukhala zomwe mumanyadira nazo ndikusangalala kuchita patsiku la mwambowo.
Ndiyambira bwanji?
Mvetsetsani, choyamba, kuti kulemba nthawi zonse kumachitika.
Simungakhale pansi ndikutenga mphindi 20 kuti mulembe lumbiro labwino laukwati. Muyenera kuti muganizire za izi kwakanthawi ndikupita kumaulemerero ambiri komanso kulingalira. Komabe, kungokhala pa nthawi yayitali kumabweretsa nkhawa. M'malo mwake, dzilonjezeni kuti muzigwira ntchitoyo kwa mphindi 10 kapena 15 patsiku. Ndizokwanira kuti china chake chichitike komanso chachifupi mokwanira kuti tipewe zokhumudwitsa.
Patulani nthawi yokwaniritsira malonjezo anu achikondi mphindi zochepa patsiku ndikuyamba miyezi ingapo mtsogolo.
Kodi ndikuphatikizapo chiyani?
Zikafika pazomwe zimapanga malonjezo achikondi kwa iye, ndichinthu chamwini kwathunthu. Pomwe muyenera kuwunikiranso zomwe mnzanu - kapena bwenzi lapamtima, banja la mkwatibwi, kapena ngakhale munthu amene akuchita ukwatiwo - zisankho zomaliza ziyenera kukhala zanu. Imeneyo ndiye mfundo yakusinthira. Ena mwa 'malamulo oyambira' atha kukhala zinthu zomwe mungafune kuti mugwire ntchito ndi bwenzi lanu kuti chilichonse chiwoneke ngati chikukonzekera bwino.
Chimodzi mwazinthu zoyambirira zomwe muyenera kupanga ndi kutalika komwe mukufuna. Kuperewera kwambiri kumatha kupangitsa kuti ziwoneke ngati chinthu chonsecho ndichovuta; Kutenga nthawi yayitali kumatha kukhala kotopetsa ndikusintha nthawiyo kuchokera pachikondi mpaka chosangalatsa. Ngati ndinu munthu amene simunazolowere kuyankhula pagulu, mungafune kuti zizikhala zazifupi.
Liwiro lowerenga bwino limakhala pafupifupi mawu 120 pamphindi, kapena pafupifupi mawu awiri pamphindi.
Malonjezo omwe amatenga pafupifupi mphindi imodzi pachipani chilichonse, ndipo pafupifupi theka la malonjezowo amatengedwa ndi omwe akuchita mwambowo. Pogwiritsa ntchito izi ngati chitsogozo, mungafune kuyankhula kwa masekondi 30 mpaka 60 kapena mawu 60 mpaka 120. Awa ndi malingaliro chabe. Omvera adzayembekezera kuti mwambowu uyenera kutenga nthawi yayitali bwanji, ndipo kumamatira kuzomwe zingawalepheretse kukhala opanda chiyembekezo.
Mukadziwa kutalika kwake, zimakhala zosavuta kumaliza ntchito yolemba lonjezo lanu.
Kudziwa kuchuluka kwamawu siyankho, koma ndi chiyambi. Kudzoza kumatha kubwera kuchokera kumagwero osiyanasiyana. Nayi mndandanda waufupi, pansipa:
- Yang'anani malumbiro achikhalidwe omwe alipo ndikuwona zomwe akunena.
- Yang'anani "malonjezo aukwati omwe mwakukonda kwanu" pa intaneti.
- Onani nyimbo zomwe mumakonda kwambiri.
- Tcherani khutu pamasewera achikondi usiku ndi zisangalalo.
- Tawonani zinthu zing'onozing'ono zomwe zimamupangitsa kuti azisangalala.
- Ganizirani nthawi zabwino zomwe mwakhala nazo mpaka pano muubwenzi wanu.
- Kumbukirani momwe mudakumana, kupsompsonana koyamba, komanso momwe mudakhalira okwatirana.
- Ganizirani za masiku omwe mudakumana ndi mabanja a wina ndi mnzake komanso zomwe mumaganizira.
Mukamachita izi, lembani zinthu zomwe zimawoneka ngati zapadera, ndi mawu omwe amakukumbutsani zaubwenzi wanu ndi mnzanu. Zilembeni kapena lembani / kuziyika pamakalata a Mawu ndikupitilira mpaka mutadzimva kuti mwatolera malingaliro okwanira. Mawu mazana asanu atha kukhala okwanira kuyamba gawo lotsatira.
Onani komwe kudzoza ndikutolera mawu osachepera 500.
Ndi zonse zomwe zasonkhanitsidwa, mudzawona zochuluka zomwe muyenera kupita. Mawu anu onse 500 amatha kukupangitsani kuti muwerenge pafupifupi mphindi zisanu. Tsopano mukufuna kuyamba kudula. Yambani kutulutsa zinthu zomwe zimawoneka ngati zazing'ono. Mukuyang'ana kuti muchotse limodzi mwa mawu anayi aliwonse, chifukwa chake gundani kiyi yochotsa kwambiri.
Yang'anani kusunga izi mumalonjezo anu achikondi kwa iye, zomwe mukudziwa kuti ndizapadera kwa wokondedwa wanu ndipo ziziwonetsera momwe mumamvera za iye. Ngati pazifukwa zina mumachepetsa zonse, mutha kuyambiranso. Kuyesera komwe kumabweretsa zomwe simukukondwera nako inali mwayi wophunzira kuchokera pazomwe mudachita ndikukhala bwino nthawi yachiwiri.
Ndikudziwa bwanji kuti zatha?
Lonjezo lanu limatsirizidwa mukamaliza kulichita pamwambowu.
Mpaka nthawiyo pali mpata wosintha. Khalani ndi dongosolo loyenga ndi kufupika, ndipo musawope kuyambiranso kangapo. Ino ndi nthawi imodzi mmoyo wanu yomwe mudzachite izi, chifukwa chake tengani mwayi wopereka zonse mu mphindi 15 zokha patsiku.
Mukamva kuti mukuyandikira, kambiranani ndi bwenzi lapamtima la mnzanu, amayi, abambo, kapena wina aliyense amene amamudziwa bwino. Ngati simukufuna zinsinsi zilizonse, gawanani mwachindunji ndi mnzanu. Kugawana kumeneku kumatha kukhala kukumana kwapadera kwambiri, ndipo atha kukhala ndi malingaliro kapena kupereka ndemanga zomwe zingakulimbikitseni kuti musinthe. Sayenera kutopa ndi zomwe mumanena zakukonda iye.
Mukamva kuti mwatsala pang'ono kumaliza, werengani lumboli mokweza, nthawi zambiri.
Ingoganizirani kuti mukuwerenga kwa amayi ake, kwa abambo ake, kwa iye, kenako pagulu la anthu mu tchalitchi - si onse omwe mudzawadziwa. Kutsatira kuphunzira mawu ndikudziwa tanthauzo lake ndikunena kudzakuthandizani tsiku lomwe mudzayime pamaso pake - ndi ena onse - ndikulengeza za chikondi chanu chamuyaya kwa iye.