Zamkati
- Nkhani zopsa mtima
- Ulesi ndi zosokoneza
- Kupanda chithandizo
- Ziribe kanthu zomwe mungachite, sizokwanira kuwakondweretsa
- Wonyenga wakale
- Kuyendetsa kotsika
Nthawi zambiri tikaganiza za munthu woyenera yemwe tikanafuna kukhala naye pachibwenzi nthawi zonse timakonda kutchula zabwino ndi zabwino zomwe timafuna mwa iwo, koma nanga bwanji za omwe sitikufuna, omwe akuchita malondawa? Ngakhale mukukondana kwambiri, nthawi zina mumayenera kunena kuti "Ayi, sindikuganiza kuti zigwira ntchito" kwa anthu ena. Mapeto ake, zoyipa zimapambanitsa zabwino.
Ambiri mwa maubwenzi omwe amachita maubwenzi nthawi zambiri samapweteketsa pachiyambi cha chibwenzicho, amakonda kukhala kwakanthawi kwakanthawi ndikuwononga nthawi yayitali. Titha kunena za maanja ambiri padziko lapansi omwe akumanapo ndi ubale wawo mwamgwirizano wolimba komanso wachinsinsi ndi anzawo, koma popita nthawi, adazindikira kuti sangapirire mikhalidwe ina panonso.
Pa kafukufuku yemwe wachitika pa anthu opitilira 6 500, zidapezeka kuti pakati pa omwe akuthetsa ubale ndi omwe akusowa nthabwala, kusadzidalira, kudzidalira, kukonda kugonana kwambiri, osankhika kapena osowa kwambiri.
Ngakhale maubwenzi amtundu waubwenzi amasiyana mosiyanasiyana pakati pa abambo ndi amai, titha kuchepetsa mndandanda mpaka ena mwa omwe ali pachibwenzi omwe angagwiritsidwe ntchito kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Nkhani zopsa mtima
Izi nthawi zonse zimakhala zotsutsana, zivute zitani. Ngati mnzanuyo akuwonetsa kale zamakani, amadzayamba kuzunza anzawo mtsogolo mukamayanjana nawo.
Nkhani zopsa mtima osapita pakapita nthawi, amakhala akuipiraipira, ndipo pamapeto pake izi zimabweretsa ubale woopsa.
Ulesi ndi zosokoneza
Izi zimagwirira ntchito limodzi ngati zikhalidwe zoyipa zomwe mungakhale nazo mwa mnzanu, ndipo zitha kuonedwa ngati maubale amgwirizano pachibwenzi.
Palibe amene amafuna kuti m'manja mwawo mukhale osokoneza bongo omwe sangadzisamalire okha, osatinso zaubwenzi, chifukwa omwe amakhala osokoneza bongo nthawi zambiri sangathe kudzipereka kwathunthu.
Kupanda chithandizo
Muubwenzi, kuti zonse zichitike, wokondedwa aliyense akuyenera kuyika gawo lawo lolimbikira. Ngati sichimasewera pagulu, ndiye kuti sichingagwire ntchito.
Ngati zoyambilira zayamba kusintha, ndipo mnzanu sakugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yofanana ndi mphamvu muubwenzi ndi inu, mutha kukhala nawo pagome ndikukambirana zakukonzanso zomwe akufuna, kapena kuzidula ubale ndi iwo, ngati mukuwona kuti palibe chomwe chidzasinthe.
Kuperewera kwa chithandizo muubwenzi kumapangitsa kuti zisapite kulikonse, chifukwa chake palibe chifukwa choti mupitirire nazo ngati izi zikupitilizabe kuchitika.
Ziribe kanthu zomwe mungachite, sizokwanira kuwakondweretsa
Ngati zilizonse zomwe munganene kapena zomwe mukuchita sizokwanira, ndiye kuti tikuganiza kuti nthawi ili ndi nthawi yoti muyitane.Mwinanso mungakhale mukuchita ndi wankhanza, womwe ndiwosokonekera chifukwa cha ubale.
Wonyenga wakale
Mawu oti "Wobera wina nthawi zonse, wonyenga nthawi zonse" sangakhale owona. Ngati muli pachibwenzi ndi munthu yemwe mukudziwa kuti adabisalira m'mbuyomu mwa m'modzi mwa omwe anali naye pachibwenzi, khalani okonzeka kuchitiridwa chimodzimodzi momwe amachitiranso. Sitikunena kuti ichi ndiye chowonadi chenicheni chifukwa ochimwa ena atha kukhala kuti adaphunzirapo kanthu ndikulapa njira zawo zolakwika koma nthawi zambiri, anthu ambiri samaphunzira ndipo tsoka limadzibwereza iwo mobwerezabwereza.
Kuyendetsa kotsika
Ngati zinthu sizikuyenda bwino pabedi, ndiye kuti sakugwiranso ntchito muubwenzi wonse womwe muli nawo ndi mnzanuyo. Muyenera kuyamba kudzifunsa nokha chifukwa chake mnzanu akukuchitirani zozizira. Kuperewera kwa kulumikizana kwapakati pa inu ndi iwo ndichizindikiro chodetsa nkhawa kwambiri chomwe muyenera kuganizira ndikuthana nacho.
Wosokoneza maubwenzi nthawi zina amatha kuonedwa ngati wopanga ubale wapawiri, chifukwa zitha kuwonetsa kuti mnzanu akubera.