Zamkati
- Kodi munthu wokongola yemwe wamira amakhudzana bwanji ndi chilichonse?
- Zonse zili bwino koma kenako ...
- Kodi tanthauzo la wamisili ndi chiyani?
- Zoyenera kuchita? Apa ndi pomwe mungayambire:
- NPD imatha kuchiritsidwa
- Kodi mtundu umodzi wa chithandizo cha NPD ndi uti?
- Kodi akatswiri amati chiyani
- Ndiye ndingatani kuti ndikhale ndi chisoni kwa wina yemwe ali ndi NPD?
- Kodi mankhwala ena a NPD ndi ati?
Pakati penipeni pa nthawi, mawuwo amveka mosazolowereka. Kufufuza ... kufufuza .... Narcissus? Kodi maluwa amenewa sakhala ngati daffodil? Inde, koma uwu ndi mkhalidwe waumunthu, kotero sizomwezo. Narcissus ... Ah, inde ... chochita ndi kalasi lachi England latsopanoli kalekale. M'modzi mwa otchulidwa m'buku lakuda. Kodi Narcissus sanali m'modzi mwa anthu a mu Greek kapena nthano zachiroma? Dikirani miniti ... ayamba kuyang'ana ... Inde! Izi ndizo: Narcissus anali munthu wotentha yemwe adayamba kukonda momwe amadzionetsera akudziyang'ana dziwe. Inde, ndi zomwezo! Koma dikirani. Kodi munthu ameneyo ndiye adagwa m'dziwe ndikufa? Bingo !!!
Kodi munthu wokongola yemwe wamira amakhudzana bwanji ndi chilichonse?
Funso labwino.
Tiyeni tiganizire za izi. Tonsefe tadziwa (ndipo mwina takhala pachibwenzi) winawake amene amaganiza kuti ndi mphatso ya Mulungu kwa dziko lapansi.
Poyamba, mawonekedwe awo abwino komanso kudzidalira mwina ndi chifukwa chake tidakopeka nawo poyambirira. Ndipo tivomerezeni, tinali oseketsa mwamseri pomwe anzathu pagulu lathu ankanena zinthu monga, "Ndiwotentha kwambiri," kapena "Zovala zake! Nthawi zonse amakhala olondola.! ”
Mayankho amtunduwu adatipatsa kudzitsimikizira. Tidakonda kuti munthu uyu amawoneka wamphamvu kwambiri, wangwiro.
Zonse zili bwino koma kenako ...
Mwakhala mukuwona munthu wokongola uyu yemwe akuwoneka kuti samakhudzidwa kwambiri, komabe, zabwino za munthuyu zimaposa zoyipa ... pang'onopang'ono ngakhale kuti kusintha kumasintha. Mumadzuka m'mawa m'mawa ndikupeza kuti mukuchita nawo, kuchita nawo kapena kukwatiwa ndi zomwe mwapeza kuti ndi wankhanza. Zoyenera kuchita?
Kodi wolemba nkhani amatha kusintha kapena kusintha, kapena nthawi ina amakhala wamisili, nthawi zonse amakhala wankhanza?
Kodi tanthauzo la wamisili ndi chiyani?
Malinga ndi chipatala chotchuka cha Mayo Clinic, wolemba zamankhwala ndi munthu yemwe wapezeka kuti ali ndi Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), yomwe "ndimavuto amisala momwe anthu amadzikweza ndi kufunika kwawo, kufunikira kosamalitsa kwambiri kutamandidwa, kusokonezeka kwa maubwenzi, komanso kusamvera ena chisoni. ” Kuti mumve zambiri, mutha kuwerenga apa.
Ndipo ndi ziti zina zomwe ndiyenera kudziwa za NPD?
- Amakonda kwambiri amuna kuposa akazi.
- Zomwe zimayambitsa sizikudziwika koma asayansi amaganiza kuti mizu yake idachokera ku chibadwa ndipo mwinanso zimayambitsidwa ndi chilengedwe.
- Nthawi zambiri zimayambira muunyamata kapena msinkhu wokula msinkhu, ngakhale mokulira, ana amapezeka kuti ali ndi NPD.
- Popeza zomwe zimayambitsa sizikudziwika, palibe njira yodziwikiratu yopewera kukula kwake.
- Pulofesa wa Harvard, Dr. David Malkin, amakhulupirira kuti pali mliri wa narcissism. Ngati mukufuna kudziwa zambiri za izi komanso kafukufuku wina mderali, mudzafunika kuti muwone buku lake.
Zoyenera kuchita? Apa ndi pomwe mungayambire:
Kotero ndi inu pamenepo. Poyamba munachititsidwa khungu ndi zomwe mumaganiza kuti mawonekedwe akuwoneka bwino, anzeru, anzeru, chisangalalo, mawonekedwe ake, ndi zina zambiri, tsopano mukuwona kuti mnzanuyo, akuvutika ndi NPD. Munthuyu, yemwe poyamba munkamukopeka kwambiri, tsopano akuwoneka kuti ndi wamwano, wonyada, wodzitukumula komanso wodzichepetsa kwa anthu ambiri.
Amawoneka otengeka ndi udindo, kupambana kwawo, ndi chuma chakuthupi. Amawoneka ngati mwana wazithunzi wa NPD.
Koma, kwenikweni, mumakopekabe ndi munthu ameneyo choti muchite? Choyamba, lankhulani zakukhosi kwanu (mwanzeru!) Kwa mnzanu. Mungafune kuyamba apa.
NPD imatha kuchiritsidwa
Izi ndizabwino, koma anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi NPD alephera kuwona kuti pali china chilichonse cholakwika ndi iwo. Mutha kulumikizana ndi mnzanu kuti pali vuto lalikulu, koma chifukwa cha mtundu wa NPD, sangadziwe kuti pali vuto. Izi zitha kubweretsa zovuta kwambiri, koma ngati vutolo livomerezedwa, pali mankhwala othandiza.
Kodi mtundu umodzi wa chithandizo cha NPD ndi uti?
Psychotherapy (yomwe nthawi zina imadziwika kuti chithandizo chamawu) imadziwika kuti ndiyo chithandizo chabwino kwambiri cha NPD. Muyenera kufufuza musanasankhe wothandizira - musangosankha wothandizira woyamba yemwe mumamupeza pa Yelp kapena pochita nawo "NPD Therapists".
Kodi akatswiri amati chiyani
Nthawi zambiri, akatswiri awa a NPD azikhala ndi upangiri womwewo. Anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la NPD ali odzaza okha. Iwo amaganiza kuti chilichonse ndipo aliyense padziko lapansi azungulira iwo, kotero chinthu choyamba chomwe ayenera kuphunzira kuzindikira ndichakuti izi sizowona.
Ayenera kuphunzira kumvera ena chisoni - kuthekera kodziyikira okha m'mavuto a munthu wina. Chisoni chiyenera kukhazikitsidwa mwa munthu yemwe ali ndi NPD.
Kodi mungachite bwanji izi?
Wothandizira angakupatseni njira zenizeni zokulitsira kumvera ena chisoni, koma pali njira zina zomwe mungalimbikitsire kumvera ena chisoni.
Ndiye ndingatani kuti ndikhale ndi chisoni kwa wina yemwe ali ndi NPD?
Mutha kugwiritsa ntchito zomwe zimatchedwa "kumvera ena chisoni." Awa ndi mafunso okonzedwa kuti apange munthu yemwe ali ndi NPD kuti aganizire za china chake kapena wina kupatula iwo eni. Nachi chitsanzo:
“Ndimaona kuti ndiwe bwenzi lapamtima. Mukachedwa kwambiri nthawi zambiri, ndimaona kuti simukulemekeza nthawi yathu yocheza. ” Izi zimawadziwitsa kuti mumawakonda, komanso zimakusangalatsani. Mumanena kufunikira kwa munthu winayo, ndipo mumalimbikitsa munthuyo kuti aganizire za inu ndipo pamapeto pake ife.
Kodi mankhwala ena a NPD ndi ati?
Kupeza chithandizo choyenera cha matenda amisala ndizovuta kwambiri. Ndi NPD, izi zimakhala choncho chifukwa nthawi zambiri munthu amene akudwala NPD samakhulupirira kuti pali vuto lililonse. Kafukufuku wopeza chithandizo choyenera cha NPD adafotokozedwa pano.
Therapy yamagulu ndi njira inanso yomwe NPD imathandizira. Izi zitha kukhalanso zotsika mtengo kuposa mankhwala amodzi.
Ziribe kanthu mtundu wa mankhwala omwe angafunidwe, onetsetsani kuti osokoneza bongo amatha kusintha.
Onani apa kuti mumve zambiri za kukhala ndi ubale wabwino.