Zamkati
- Mulibe nthawi yodziwira zochitika pano za chibwenzi
- Muyenera kupewa zinthu zosokoneza
- Zinthu zofunika kwambiri
- Kudumpha kulowa chatsopano
- Simukufuna kunyamula tsiku lanu ndi madandaulo osafunikira
- Zingakhudze kukhazikika kwanu
- Ikhoza kukwiyitsa wokondedwa wanu:
Chisudzulo chimakhala chosokoneza pamoyo wamunthu. Pali maloya omwe akuyang'ana njira yosavuta yolekanitsira inu ndi mnzanu, ndipo pamakhala zokambirana pazokhudza katundu ndi alimony. Zinthu izi zimakutulutsani mumtima, m'maganizo komanso mwakuthupi. Pakati pazonsezi, mwina ndizosangalatsa kukhala ndi chibwenzi ndi munthu yemwe angakulimbikitseni, chomwe mumalakalaka.
Komabe, muyenera kudzifunsa funso lovomerezeka: Kodi ungakhale ndi chibwenzi wina mutasudzulana?
Ngakhale lingaliro losangalatsa kapena lotsitsimula lingakhale labwino bwanji, koma sizololedwa konse. Mukuthetsa chibwenzi, chikhoza kukhala chachidule kapena chanthawi yayitali, koma muli ndi zinthu zambiri zofunika kuzisamalira.
Kukhala pachibwenzi ndi munthu wina kumatha kukhala ngati mafuta okuwotcherani panopo zomwe zingabwerenso patangopita nthawi yochepa. Mukuganiza bwanji?
Nazi zifukwa zina zomwe muyenera kusiya lingaliro la chibwenzi pomwe mukusudzulana nthawi yomweyo.
Mulibe nthawi yodziwira zochitika pano za chibwenzi
Zibwenzi zimasinthika pafupifupi tsiku lililonse. Chifukwa cha ukadaulo. Mapulogalamu atsopano adayambitsidwa pamsika zomwe zimakhudza kwambiri chibwenzi. Popeza mudali pachibwenzi, mutha kuvutika kuti mumvetsetse zomwe zikuchitika.
Kuthana ndi zochitika zapabanja zam'badwo uno, kuzigwiritsitsa ndikupita patsogolo mwachisangalalo kungafune nthawi yanu yambiri ndi nyonga.
Ndikofunika kuti mukhale kutali kwakanthawi ndikuyang'ana kutuluka bwino pachibwenzi chanu. Mukamaliza ndi chisudzulo chanu, mudzakhala ndi nthawi yokwanira kuti mubwererenso, bwino.
Muyenera kupewa zinthu zosokoneza
Kusudzulana sikophweka, ngakhale tikufuna kuti akhale. Pali mkangano pakati pa mnzanu ndi inu. Zikatere, cholinga chanu chizikhala kutuluka munthawi iyi mwachangu osakhala ndi zovuta zambiri zamaganizidwe ndi malingaliro.
Pakati pa zakale zoipa ndi tsogolo labwino, mukayamba chibwenzi ndi munthu wina, zosintha zimasintha.
Simumatha kulandila wina watsopano m'moyo wanu phazi lanu likadali lakale.
Zikatere, kukhala pachibwenzi ndi munthu wina kumatha kuvutitsa mkhalidwewo, osati china chilichonse.
Zinthu zofunika kwambiri
Kusudzulana kuyenera kukhala patsogolo panu pakadali pano, osakhala pachibwenzi ndi wina, kunena zowona. Nthawi zambiri anthu amakhala m'malo otetezedwa komanso osapiririka chifukwa amalephera kuika moyo wawo patsogolo.
Mwa kuyamba chibwenzi pomwe mukulekana mwalamulo ndi mnzanu, mukugawana mosagawika chidwi chanu pakati pa zomwe zikufunika ndi zomwe mungayembekezere.
Izi zitha kuwonjezera zovuta munjira zosudzulana, zomwe simukufuna kukhala nazo.
Kudumpha kulowa chatsopano
Zimamveka kuti mukufuna kuyambiranso moyo wanu, koma kuyiyambitsa musanathetse ubale womwe ulipo sikulangizidwa. Zawonetsedwa kuti anthu amalowa mu chibwenzi atangotuluka kumene, kapena akutuluka. Izi, kwakanthawi kochepa, zimabweretsa mavuto ndipo amamva chisoni ndi chisankho chawo.
Musanayambe mwatsopano, pumulani ndikupatula nthawi yocheza ndi inuyo ndi anzanu apamtima.
Tengani nthawi kuti muunike zolakwa zomwe mudachita pachibwenzi chanu choyambirira, kuti mudzazipewe mtsogolo. M'malo modumpha mu ubale watsopano, tengani nthawi yanu kuti mutsitsimutse kuyambira wakale.
Simukufuna kunyamula tsiku lanu ndi madandaulo osafunikira
Mukamaliza chibwenzi choipa, mukunyamula katundu. Mukufuna wina amene angamvetsere kwa inu komanso amene angakulimbikitseni moyenera. Zikatere, abwenzi ndi abale ndiwo njira zabwino koposa, osati tsiku lanu lotsatira.
Mosadziwa, mutha kumangodandaula zaubwenzi wanu wapano wosweka, womwe pamapeto pake ungakhudze tsiku lanu.
Simukufuna kudziwika kuti ndinu munthu wokwiya komanso wodandaula, sichoncho? Chifukwa chake musanapange chisankho chilichonse, dzifunseni kuti, kodi mungakhale ndi chibwenzi ndi munthu wina musudzulo musanapume? Mudzapeza yankho la funso lanu.
Zingakhudze kukhazikika kwanu
Nthawi yakusudzulana, oyimira milandu amatha kupita kulikonse, osazengereza. Mutha kukhala kuti simuli pachibwenzi, m'maganizo, koma pamapepala, mukadali ndi mnzanu. Zikatere, kukhala pachibwenzi ndi munthu ndikovuta kwambiri.
Woyimira mlandu atha kuyesera kutsimikizira kuti ndinu wosakhulupirika, zomwe zadzetsa kupatukana.
Zidzakhudza kuthetsa komaliza kwa chisudzulo ndipo mutha kukumana ndi zovuta, ngakhale sizoyipa kwenikweni. Chifukwa chake, zisunge nokha mpaka zinthu zitakhazikika.
Ikhoza kukwiyitsa wokondedwa wanu:
Sitingakhale ndi cholinga chothetsa chibwenzi, koma nthawi ikafika, timafuna tichite mwamtendere, popanda sewero.
Kwa inu, kukhala pachibwenzi kumawoneka ngati kulondola chifukwa mukuchita kale, koma mukakumana ndi ena mutha kusintha zinthu.
Wokondedwa wanu sangakondwere ndi zomwe mwachita ndipo atha kupanga zopinga zosafunikira pakusudzulana. Zomaliza zomwe mungayembekezere ndi ndewu ndi mikangano pakati pa njira zosudzulana.
Pali zinthu zochepa zomwe zingawoneke ngati zolondola m'maso mwathu koma ena atha kutsutsana nazo. 'Ungakhale ndi chibwenzi ndi munthu wina pamene ukusudzulana?' ndi funso limodzi lomwe lili pomwepo pakati pa chabwino ndi choipa. Kwa inu, zitha kukhala zowona koma omwe mudzakhale nawo posachedwa angaganize mwanjira ina. Njira yokhayo yopulumukira pamavuto aliwonse ndikudikirira kuti zitheke musanakwatirane ndi munthu wina.