Zamkati
- Zomwe zimayambitsa kulera okha:
- Zoyambitsa zochepa zomwe zimalepheretsa kulera kholo limodzi
- 1. Ana aamuna akulera ana
- 2. Agogo akulera ana
- 3. Makolo olera okha ana
- 4. Kumwerekera
- 5. Nkhani zamaganizidwe
- 6. Nkhani zathanzi
- 7. Ndende
- 8. Kuthamangitsa
Ngakhale pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe mungadzipezere nokha mwayi wokhala kholo limodzi kwa mwana wanu, palinso zifukwa zina zochepa zomwe sizidziwika bwino. Ngati tingathe kumvetsetsa zomwe mabanja ena akuchita ndikuwathandiza momwe tingathere, titha kuthandiza kuti dziko lino likhale malo abwinoko - ngakhale titangomwetulira mwachidwi kapena kuyitanira kholo limodzi kuti likamamwe khofi.
Ena angaganize kuti zomwe zimayambitsa kulera kholo limodzi chifukwa zina zitha kukhala zosakhalitsa, koma tisaiwale kuti ngakhale kholo limodzi lokhala ndi makolo amakhalanso limodzi kwa kanthawi kochepa.
Chifukwa chake tisanakambirane pazifukwa zazing'ono zomwe zimalepheretsa kukhala ndi kholo limodzi nazi mndandanda wazomwe zimadziwika kwambiri. Tikaganizira lingaliro la 'zoyambitsa kulera m'modzi' tikutanthauza lingaliro loti munthu yekhayo amene ali ndi udindo wopanga chisankho, kukhala bwino ndikusamalira mwana kapena ana kwanthawi yayitali. Zokwanira kukumana ndi mavuto, komanso kusintha moyo wamwana.
Zomwe zimayambitsa kulera okha:
- Kusudzulana
- Imfa
- Achinyamata kapena kutenga msanga
- Kukhazikitsidwa Kwa Kholo Limodzi
- Kuperekanso Chithandizo
Zoyambitsa zochepa zomwe zimalepheretsa kulera kholo limodzi
1. Ana aamuna akulera ana
Mwina chifukwa cha kumwalira kwa kholo, ndipo osakhudzidwa ndi kholo linalo, kapena imfa ya makolo onse, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, nthawi yakundende, kapena matenda amisala kapena athupi, abale ena amangodzipereka kukweza abale awo ang'onoang'ono.
Ino ndi nthawi yovuta kwa iwo; Akukumana ndi kutayika kwakukulu komanso udindo waukulu panthawi yomwe amakhala osakonzekera kapena osakonzeka.
Nthawi zambiri pamavutowa, sipakhala achibale ena omwe angathandize, choncho chotsalira chimasiyidwa kwa m'bale wamkulu kapena wamkulu. Ndiwo ngwazi zosadziwika zomwe nthawi zambiri zimayang'anira ndi chithandizo chochepa kwambiri.
2. Agogo akulera ana
Nthawi zina, pazifukwa zambiri agogo amatenga udindo wolera ana.
Mwina ndichifukwa choti mwana wawo ndi wosakhazikika, wokonda kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, wovutika maganizo kapena matenda amisala kapena kuthandiza chifukwa kholo limayenera kugwira ntchito kapena kugwira ntchito.
Ichi ndi chifukwa china chomwe chimanyalanyazidwa chokhala kholo limodzi lomwe limachitidwa ndi ngwazi zambiri zosadziwika m'moyo.
3. Makolo olera okha ana
Anthu ena osakwatira amasankha kupanga zinthu padziko lapansi polimbikitsa - ndi ntchito yopindulitsa komanso kusankha moyo kwa iwo amene amakonda ana ndipo akufuna kuthandiza iwo omwe alibe zitsanzo zabwino kuti akhale okhazikika.
Makolo olera akhoza kukhala othandiza kuthana ndi zovuta zomwe makolo akale sanachite bwino kuti athe kukonzekera mwana kuti adzapeze nyumba yokhazikika mtsogolo mtsogolo.
4. Kumwerekera
Ngati kholo limodzi likulimbana ndi mavuto osokoneza bongo monga kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena mowa ungakhale wotsimikiza kuti kholo linalo limangolera okha ana.
Mnzakeyo amathandizanso kuthana ndi mavuto omwe mwamuna kapena mkazi wake akukumana nawo m'banja. Ino ndi nthawi yamavuto komanso yovuta kwa kholo limodzi ndipo ndichimodzi mwazifukwa zakulera m'modzi komwe nthawi zambiri anthu samanyalanyaza.
5. Nkhani zamaganizidwe
Mwanjira zina, zovuta zomwe kholo lokhala lokha lomwe limakumana ndi zovuta zimafanana ndi zomwe zikuchitika ndi mnzawo kapena mnzawoyo yemwe ali ndi matenda amisala - makamaka ngati ali ovuta.
Mavuto azaumoyo amatha kupangitsa kholo limodzi kukhala kutali ndi banja lawo kuti lizitha kuchira.
Koma zikutanthauzanso kuti sangakhale ndi mwayi wopanga zisankho zanzeru kapena kuwongolera ana awo pamene ali osakhazikika m'maganizo. Izi zitha kukhala zazakanthawi kapena zomaliza pamoyo wawo wonse, kusiya wokwatirana wolimba ntchito zambiri kuti athe kuthana nawo yekha.
6. Nkhani zathanzi
Ngati kholo limodzi likudwala kwakanthawi kwakanthawi komwe kumabweretsa nthawi kuchipatala kapena iwo kudwala kwambiri kuti athe kukhala ndi mphamvu zothandiza ana.
Zikhala kwa kholo linalo kuti lizisamalira banja, kulera ana, kusamalira ndalama komanso kusamalira wokondedwa wawo amene akudwala.
Ichi ndi chifukwa china chodziwikiratu chokhala ndi kholo limodzi chomwe chingapangitse kholo limodzi kufunafuna thandizo ndi kuthandizidwa ndi omwe ali nawo pafupi.
7. Ndende
Ngati kholo lamangidwa, amasiya mabanja awo. Tsopano zitha kukhala zovuta kumvera chisoni banja lomwe lili ndi kholo limodzi m'ndende, koma ana ndi mnzake sanachite mlanduwu chifukwa nawonso sayenera kulangidwa.
Zisankho zonse zakusamalira ndi kusamalira ana tsopano zagwera kholo limodzi lomwe, kutengera kutalika kwa nthawi yomwe mnzawo akuyenera kugwira nthawi zina, kumabweretsa banja la kholo limodzi lokha.
8. Kuthamangitsa
Izi ndizofotokozera bwino ngati pali banja lomwe kholo limodzi lachotsedwa kudziko kholo lomwe latsala limasamalira ana. Ndipo nthawi zambiri zimakhala zokha zokha.