Zamkati
- Moyo pambuyo paukwati - Nkhani ya Tom ndi Lori
- Zinthu zosintha mukadzakwatirana
- Osangoganizira zolakwa za mnzanu
- Werengani madalitso anu
- Lekani kuyerekezera musanakwatirane kapena mutakwatirana
Kusintha kwaukwati sikungapeweke. Ngakhale mutamudziwa bwino mnzanuyo, ubale wanu mukadzakwatirana udzakhala wosiyana ndi kale. Zosintha zina m'banja ndi zabwino ndipo zina zingakupangitseni kudabwa kuti bwanji anthu amakwatirana!
Popeza moyo pambuyo paukwati uyenera kusintha, tonsefe tiyenera kuyesetsa kulandira zosintha titakwatirana mokoma mtima ndikukhala omasuka kulandira anzathu ndi zododometsa zawo.
Pamene tikukamba za, momwe banja limakusinthireni, Kuwala kwa Lachisanu usiku kungakhale chithunzi cholimbikitsa kwambiri chaukwati kuwonekera posachedwa pa TV.
Munthawi yama sabata, zokonda zimayang'ana paubwenzi wapakati pa wophunzitsa tawuni yasekondale ndi mkazi wake yemwe amamuthandiza ngakhale akumutsutsa m'njira zambiri.
M'malo mochita ziwonetsero zamakanema okwatirana monga upandu, kuledzera, kapena zinsinsi, Kuwala kwa Lachisanu usiku kumayang'aniridwa ndi mayendedwe enieni aubwenzi.
Banjali limakumana ndewu zazing'ono, kupepesa kosavuta komanso zolakwitsa ndi mayanjanitsidwe omwe ali chikondi chomwe chimakhalapo.
Veneene wa vinyo ndi maluwa amapereka njira ku zinthu zenizeni za banja atangonena kuti "Ine Ndachita".
Moyo pambuyo paukwati - Nkhani ya Tom ndi Lori
Tom ndi Lori akakhala pachibwenzi, amatuluka mchipindamo "kukapatsira mafuta". Adalankhula za chizolowezi chake tsiku lina madzulo, ndipo Lori adaseka ntchitoyi kuti asapite patsogolo pake. Adamuwuza kuti mawu ake akuwoneka osamveka komanso osazindikira.
Ukwati umadzaza ndi zenizeni. Munthu yemwe mudakhala maola ambiri patsogolo pagalasi, pakadali pano, amakuwonani muli ndi ziti, amadziwa kuti muli ndi mpweya wam'mawa, ndi zizolowezi zina zobisika.
Maukwati ambiri amadya mosasinthasintha. Kukwera komanso kutsika kudzasokoneza chizolowezi.
Mafilimu amalankhula za zochitika zomwe nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta m'banja. Amazichita m'nyumba zopanda manyazi pomwe tsitsi lawo limakhala labwino nthawi zonse, ndipo kucheza kumadzaza ndi zingwe zamatsenga. Makanema amapeza zinthu zina molondola:
1) machitidwe abwino
2) mgwirizano wamakolo
3) kusagwirizana kosasangalatsa
Ichi ndi ukwati weniweni. Khadi limodzi lochokera kubwalo lokwatirana nthawi zambiri silimawonetsa zenizeni. Masabata, miyezi - ndipo nthawi zina zaka - amakhala ndi zowawa komanso chidwi pomwe ena satero.
Nthawi zina mumalakalaka china chilichonse kupatula chizolowezi. Kenako, chisangalalo chimawonekera, ndipo mumakupeza kuti mukumva kuti mulibe chiyembekezo chazomwe mumachita.
Lori ali ndi banja "lokwera" tsopano - koma pazifukwa zosayembekezereka.
Zaka zitatu zapitazi zadzaza ndi zovuta. Zaka zitatu za sukulu yamalamulo, kuchepa kwa ndalama, kuyenda zambiri, ndi mwana watsopano.
Zomwe zidachitikazo zidayesa zomwe amawona ngati mgwirizano wolimba. Lori ndi Tim adakwanitsa. Nthawi zambiri gawo labwino kwambiri laukwati limakhala lovuta.
Munthu amapeza kuti atha kukhala muukwati ndikudzizindikirabe. Amakondana kudzera mukusintha komanso kukula.
Ukwati ukhoza kutulutsa zabwino kwambiri - komanso zoyipa kwambiri. Zimatengera kutsimikiza, kugwira ntchito; nthawi zina ukwati umakhala wosavuta.
Ukwati umapatsa munthu mnzako kwa nthawi yayitali. Zonsezi ndizokhudza kusintha kosasintha komanso kosayembekezereka. Ndimagonana, kudzipatula, zokhumudwitsa, komanso zopindulitsa.
Zomwe zimasintha mukamakwatira
Ndizowonekeratu kuti mukakwatirana, zinthu zambiri zimasintha muubwenzi. Zomwe mumakonda kale za mnzanu zitha kukuyendetsani mtedza ndipo zitha kukhala zowona ndi mnzanuyo.
Koma, funsoli likupezekabe kuti zomwe zimachitika mukalowa m'banja ndi zomwe zimasintha mukadzakwatirana. Komanso, ngati okwatirana akhala pachibwenzi kwa nthawi yayitali, ambiri aiwo adanenanso zakusintha atakwatirana.
Ukwati umalukirana miyoyo iwiri m'njira yoti 'munthu payekha' akakamizike kukhala pampando wakumbuyo.
Ngati kukhala payekha ndikofunikira kwambiri kwa inu, ndiye kuti muyenera kulingaliranso zokwatirana.
Mukamakhalira limodzi musanakwatirane, mutha kuteteza umunthu wanu. Ngakhale mukukondana, simukuyenera kugawana ndalama zanu ndikukhala oyankha pazinthu zazing'ono zilizonse.
Koma, muukwati, awiriwa ayenera kugawana ndalama, nyumba, zizolowezi, zomwe amakonda ndi zomwe sakonda kupatula kugawana bedi kumene.
Komanso ukwati ndi chitsimikizo chobisika kuti anthu awiriwa ayenera kukhala limodzi wina ndi mnzake moyo wawo wonse, ngakhale izi, chisudzulo sichinthu chachilendo.
Kudzimva kotereku kungakupangitseni kuti musamayang'anitse mnzanu. Ndipo mosazindikira, mumasiya kuyesetsa kuti ubale wanu ukhale wogwira ntchito. Ichi ndichifukwa chake banja limasintha banja.
Zinthu zosintha mukadzakwatirana
Tsopano, popeza tadziwa chifukwa chake komanso momwe zinthu zimasinthira pambuyo pa banja, tiyeni tisinthe cholinga chathu ndikukonza maubwenzi pambuyo paukwati.
Osangoganizira zolakwa za mnzanu
Mabanja ambiri amadandaula kuti mwamunayo amasintha atakwatirana kapena thupi lachikazi likusintha atakwatirana.
Monga tikudziwa kuti chokhazikika pa moyo ndi 'kusintha', choncho musatengeke ndi mawonekedwe akunja. Thupi la munthu limatha kuwonongeka ndipo limatha kusintha kwakanthawi. Landirani mwachisomo ndi mwachikondi!
Werengani madalitso anu
M'malo mongowerenga zinthu zomwe zimasintha mukamakwatirana, bwanji osawerengera madalitso omwe takwatirana?
Nthawi zonse yesetsani kuyang'ana pazabwino za mnzanu. Zachidziwikire, sizophweka koma ndizotheka ngati mumayesetsa kukhala ndi chiyembekezo nthawi zonse.
Lekani kuyerekezera musanakwatirane kapena mutakwatirana
Ganizirani gawo lirilonse la moyo wanu ngati mutu wodziyimira pawokha. Kuti mupite patsogolo m'moyo ndikukonzekera zokumana nazo zatsopano, muyenera kupita pamutu wotsatira, ndikulola mutu wakale m'moyo wanu.
Ndi mutu watsopano, pakubwera zokumana nazo zatsopano. Ndipo kuti musangalale nawo kwathunthu, muyenera kusiya kuyerekezera zakale ndi zamakono. Onsewa sangakhale ofanana.
Chifukwa chake, yambitsani kutsutsana kolimbikitsa kwa 'amuna asanakwatirane komanso atakwatirana' ndi 'akazi asanakwane komanso pambuyo paukwati'. Tiyenera kuphunzira kuyang'anitsitsa chithunzi chachikulu.
Ngati titachita khama, titha kupeza mbali zambiri zaubwenzi wathu zomwe tingasangalale nazo ndikupulumutsa banja lathu poyang'ana pazabwino ndikusintha tokha kukhala abwino.