Zamkati
Mzimayi akaganiza zogonana koyamba, atha kugwiritsa ntchito njira zoyamba zogonana kwa azimayi kuti azimasuka momwe angathere.
Ngakhale kugonana kumayenera kukhala kwadzidzidzi komanso kwachilengedwe, sizitanthauza kuti simuyenera kukonzekera.
Kupereka malangizo ogonana koyamba kwa anamwali achikazi kwakhala chizolowezi m'mbiri yonse ya anthu. Chifukwa chake, musachite manyazi ndikuwerengar malangizo azakugonana koyamba azimayi kuti muwonetsetse kuti kupanga kwanu koyamba kwachikondi kudzakhala kotheka kwambiri.
Onaninso:
1. Khalani Otetezeka
Chifukwa chake, mukufuna kugonana koyamba - kudziwa chiyani? Chitetezo sichingakhale mtundu wa upangiri womwe mumatsata mukamaganiza zogonana koyamba ndi bwenzi lanu.
Mwinanso mwina mwamvapo atsikana ndi anyamata odziwa zambiri (kapena omwe amadziyesa okha) omwe amayang'ana kwambiri chitetezo amawononga zomwe zidachitikazo. Osatengera nthano imeneyo!
Malangizo omwe ndiofunika kwambiri koyamba kugonana kwa amayi akuganiza za Chitetezo ku mimba yosafunika kapena matenda opatsirana pogonana. Momwemo, mnzanu adzakumbukiranso izi.
Komabe, ngakhale atakhala kuti siinu, inu ndiye amene mukuyang'anira moyo wake. Mutha kutenga pakati kapena kutenga matenda kuyambira nthawi yoyamba.
Chifukwa chake, gwiritsani ntchito kondomu, ndipo musadandaule kuti ikhala yopha anthu. Pali chisangalalo chachikulu kwambiri, ndipo ndikupeza kuti mutagonana koyamba, mudakhala mayi woyamba nthawi zosayembekezereka.
Komanso, yesani kuti muone ngati wokondedwa wanu akukuyenererani - ngati akukangana za kondomu, muyenera kuganizira ngati ali woyenera kutaya unamwali wanu poyamba.
2. Konzekerani
Powerenga maupangiri azakugonana koyamba kwa akazi, mukukonzekera kale. Komabe, monga tikunenabe, ngakhale kugonana kumangowonetsa mwachikondi, maupangiri okonzekera kugonana koyamba aperekedwa kwa atsikana kuyambira kalekale.
Chifukwa chake, musazengereze kukumba mozama ndikuwerenga malangizo ena owonjezera ogonana koyamba. Komanso, mutha kuyankhula ndi munthu amene mumamukhulupirira kuti athe kufunsa mafunso onse ofunikira. Lankhulani ndi mnzanu za zomwe mukuopa komanso kukula ubale wanu.
Kupatula kukonzekera ndikukhala ndi zomwe zimachitika atsikana akugonana koyamba, muyeneranso kukonzekera zochitikazo.
Zinthu zofunika kwambiri kukhala ndi chiwerewere ndi inu, mnzanu, komanso chikondi chanu. Komabe, kukhala ndi malo abwino osapwetekanso.
3. Khalani omasuka
Atsikana ambiri amachita mantha ndi nthawi yawo yoyamba chifukwa amayembekezera kuwawa kopweteka komanso kutuluka magazi kwambiri. Koma chowonadi ndichakuti, zitha kukhala choncho, koma, nthawi zambiri, sizimachitika. Mwina simumva kupweteka kulikonse, ndipo mwina pangakhale kutaya magazi pang'ono.
Komabe, ngati zovuta izi sizikupangitsani kuti muzimva kuti mulibe nkhawa, pali njira zomwe mungapangire kuti nthawi yanu yoyamba isamapweteke. Mukuyenera ku khalani omasuka momwe zingathere. Gwiritsani ntchito lube; onetsetsani kuti ndi mtundu womwe ungagwiritsidwe ntchito ndi makondomu.
Tengani pang'onopang'ono. Ndipo, ngati zikupweteka kwambiri, siyani. Kenako pitilizani malangizo athu ogonana koyamba azimayi kangapo mpaka mutakhala otetezeka komanso omasuka kuyesanso.
4. Chikalata
Mukatsimikiza kuti ndinu otetezeka komanso omasuka panthawi yanu yoyamba, ndi nthawi yoti ichitenso zomwezo. Ena mwa malangizo omwe amafunidwa koyamba zogonana ndiwo malo abwino kwambiri kwa oyamba kumene.
Ndipo, nthawi zambiri mumalandira malangizo ofanana azakugonana koyamba azimayi - khalani osavuta. Iwalani za zomwe mwina mudaziwona pazowonetsa pa TV kapena zolaula. Wamishonale ndiye njira yoti mupitire.
Pali zovuta zambiri masiku ano kuti chiwerewere chiwoneke ngati chomwe mumaonera pa TV.
Komabe, chinthu chofunikira kudziwa ndikuti simuyenera kuchita zinthuzi. Anthu ambiri satero. Nthawi zonse.
Ndipo ichi ndichinthu chofunikira kudziwa musanachite zogonana koyamba pokhapokha ngati mungafune kuwononga poyesera kuti ziwoneke ngati china chomwe mwaziwona m'malo mopanga chidziwitso chapadera.
Mwachitsanzo, ngati mudawonera zolaula ndikudabwa chifukwa chomwe atsikana amalira pogonana ndipo inunso muyenera kutero - amayi ambiri samalira. Ena amatero chifukwa zimakhala zosangalatsa kutero.
Ngakhale mutalandira malangizo anu ogonana koyamba kuchokera kwa munthu yemwe si namwali, mungamve kuti simuyenera kukhala chete ndipo muyenera kudziwitsa mnzanuyo kuti mukusangalala.
Iwalani za izi! Mfundo imodzi yofunika kwambiri pakugonana koyamba ndi - chitani zomwe zimamveka bwino ndipo musachite zomwe sizichita.
Malangizo oyamba ogonana azimayi ayenera kutsindika izi nthawi zonse. Uwu ungakhale wofunika kwambiri kwa atsikana ndi amayi malinga ngati akugonana.
Pomaliza, kumbukirani kuti zofuna zogonana mwa akazi zimasiyana ndi msinkhu wawo. Chifukwa chake, mutha kulandira upangiri wambiri wakugonana kuchokera kwa azimayi ena okuzungulirani.