Zamkati
- 1. Kukopa Kwamuyaya ndi kosavuta
- 2. Kulemekezana
- 3. Kuzindikira
- 4. Chifundo
- 5. Kudalira
- 6. Kusintha
- 7. Mgwirizano
- 8. Ubwenzi
Munthu aliyense padziko lino lapansi amakhala ndi malingaliro osiyana pamakhalidwe achikondi chenicheni.
Anthu ochepa amachipeza mumaineti a Shakespearean. Ena a iwo amazipeza mu nthano ndi m'mabuku. Ena amaganiza kuti kulibe zenizeni.
Chowonadi ndichakuti, chikondi chenicheni chimangowonjezera umunthu wathu komanso njira yathu yobwezera zinthu.
Momwemonso, tidzakopeka ndi kukopeka ndi anthu omwe amafanana ndi umunthu wathu.
Zowonadi, ngakhale titawona winawake, timakonda anthu omwe ali owonekera komanso otambasula matupi athu enieni.
Izi ndi zina mwa njira zomwe mungadziwire chikondi chenicheni
1. Kukopa Kwamuyaya ndi kosavuta
Tikakhala kuti timakondana ndi winawake, timawona kuti ndiabwino ndipo timawakonda m'njira iliyonse. Sitiyenera konse "kuyesera" kuti tizimangirira zinthu. Chilichonse chimawoneka chosangalatsa komanso chosavuta momwe zilili.
Sitifunikira kuyesetsa mwapadera kuti tim'khutiritse munthuyo.
Sitifunikira kudzifunsa tokha kuti, "Kodi chikondi chenicheni chilipo?" nthawi ndi nthawi. Chikondi chimapezeka muzinthu zazing'ono zomwe timachitira limodzi. Palibe chifukwa chomveka chokakamizira wina ndi mnzake.
2. Kulemekezana
Kusamalirana ndi chinthu chofunikira kwambiri kuchirikiza chikondi chenicheni.
Chimodzimodzinso ndi chikondi chenicheni. Zimachokera pakupatsana malo okwanira kudzizindikira komanso osapita patali kwambiri, mosasamala kanthu. Ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri za chikondi chenicheni.
3. Kuzindikira
Tikamaganizira momwe chikondi chimagwirira ntchito, nthawi zambiri timazindikira munthuyo chifukwa cha zomwe amachita.
Kumagawo oyamba, munthu aliyense samachita mantha ndi zolakwika za mnzake. Zimatsegula malingaliro athu, ndipo timawona ndikuphunzira zinthu zomwe sitikadakhala nazo.
Chikondi chenicheni chimatisintha komanso momwe timaganizira. Zimaphatikiza kusiyanasiyana konse. Palibe chiweruzo, ndipo timakhala otseguka pamaganizidwe ndikuwonetsa kulolerana.
4. Chifundo
Tikuyembekeza ichi ngati chimodzi mwazofunikira za chikondi.
Kuti tipeze chikondi, tiyenera kupereka chikondi. Sizimangirizidwa ndi kukhutiritsa zosowa zathu zokha. Koma, zokhudzana ndikufikira gawo limodzi.
Zimalumikizana ndi kudzipereka komanso kuganizira zosowa za anzathu monganso za ife. Apa ndipomwe tanthauzo lenileni la chikondi limatitsogolera; kusamalira kulingalira, kupatulika, ndi kufunikira kwa ubalewo.
5. Kudalira
Kudalirana ndichofunikira kwambiri pachikondi chenicheni.
Ngakhale ndikofunikira kukhulupirira munthu amene tili naye, ndikofunikanso kudzidalira. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe chikondi chenicheni chimatipangitsa kumva bwino osachita mantha kapena kuponderezedwa.
Anthu awiri akamakhala mwachikondi komanso mogwirizana, saopa kukhumudwa. Mgwirizano, chikondi chimakula ndikulimba ndi nthawi. Ndi umodzi mwamakhalidwe achikondi omwe amawupangitsa kukhala otengeka opanda malire komanso mantha.
6. Kusintha
Chikondi chimachepetsa ndikuchotsa mantha. Zimakhala ndi chitetezo.
Kwa akazi, ichi ndi chimodzi mwazizindikiro za chikondi chenicheni kuchokera kwa abambo, nawonso. Timakhala okonzeka komanso omasuka ndi anzathu komanso abale, kulikonse komwe tingakhale.
7. Mgwirizano
Yankho lina funso, mungadziwe bwanji ngati chikondi chake chenicheni, ndikuwona ngati pali mgwirizano.
Chikondi chenicheni chimabwera ndi mgwirizano.
Kuzindikira nthawi yolamulira komanso nthawi yobwerera ndikudalira mnzanu kuti atengepo, ndi mgwirizano.
Anthu awiri akakhala moyo umodzi, amalumikizana m'njira zonse ndikugwirira ntchito limodzi.
Amazindikira nthawi yoti akhale chete komanso nthawi yolankhula mawu oyenera kunenedwa. Pamodzi, amagwira ntchito limodzi, mwanjira yawo yapadera yomwe imagwirizana bwino lomwe.
8. Ubwenzi
Monga anthu, timayang'ana ubale ndi anthu ena.
Ponena za izi, timafunafuna winawake yemwe adzatithandizire pamavuto onse, zovuta, zachisoni, komanso chisangalalo.
Tonsefe timafunikira winawake yemwe titha kugawana naye mbali zonse za moyo. Chimenenso chimakwanira monga chimodzi mwazofunikira kwambiri za chikondi chenicheni.
Wina yemwe tingapite naye limodzi, kugawana nzeru zathu, kukambirana zakale, kusokonekera, ndikukalamba.
Makhalidwe achikondi amakupangitsani kuti muziyang'ana pa omwe mumakonda. Chikondi chilipo kuti ndikupangitseni kusangalala pazochitika zazikulu ndikulira m'malo owopsa, limodzi.
Mutha kusokonezeka kwakutali kwambiri ndipo mutha kukhala choncho ngati simukuzindikira zachikondi chenicheni posachedwa. Amakuthandizani kukonza njira yanu yonse yamaganizidwe komanso yakuthupi kulowera komwe mukufuna kulandira chikondi chachikulu.