Zamkati
- Cholinga cha banja ndichani
- Uphungu wachikwati wachikhristu
- Chikhulupiriro nthawi zonse ndichinsinsi
- Chitirani zinthu limodzi
- Tumikirani mnzanu
- Zifukwa zopezera upangiri wa maukwati achikhristu
Cholinga cha banja ndichani
Kodi mukudabwa kuti cholinga chaukwati ndi chiyani? Kodi ukwati mu baibulo ndi chiyani? Kapena Kodi baibulo likuti chani za banja?
Cholinga chaukwati ndikutumikira monga maziko omwe adapangidwa kuti akwaniritse zofunikira zina monga kuyanjana, kuteteza, ndi kusangalala. Kudzera muukwati, mwamuna ndi mkazi amakhazikitsa mgwirizano pakati pawo, zomwe pakapita nthawi zimatha kubereka ana.
Tanthauzo laukwati idapangidwa ngati mgwirizano wamoyo wonse wamwamuna ndi wamkazi wokhazikitsidwa kapena wokhazikitsidwa pamaso pa Mulungu. Ngakhale maukwati a m'Baibulo samakhala ndi tanthauzo.
Timawona kuti ukwati molingana ndi baibulo ndi ubale wosasunthika pomwe mwamuna ndi mkazi amalowa m'banja limodzi ndipo amawerengedwa kuti ndi ofanana pamaso pa Mulungu.
Uphungu wachikwati wachikhristu
Malangizo abwino kwambiri okwatirana omwe ndingapereke kwa banja lililonse ndikuti Mulungu akhale woyamba pakati pa banja. Popereka Malangizo achikwati achikhristu kwa banja, ndimawalimbikitsa kuti aphunzire malembo, kupemphera, ndi kulingalira momwe Mulungu adzakhalire gawo lofunikira mgwirizanowu.
Upangiri waukwati, womwe umadziwikanso kuti upangiri wa maukwati achikhristu, maukwati achikhristu, kapena upangiri wa maukwati achikhristu, ungapezeke kwa aphungu omwe ali ndi zilolezo ndi atsogoleri achipembedzo.
Akatswiri osamalawa atha kupatsa maanja upangiri wamaukwati achikhristu komanso mavuto am'banja kuti azitha kukhululukirana, maupangiri abwino kapena othandiza, kapena kuwapatsa malamulo achikhristu kuphatikiza kukonda kwambiri mnansi, kupemphera, komanso kumvetsera mwachidwi.
Wathanzi Malangizo achikwati achikhristu maanja amatha kupezeka pamtengo wotsika komanso m'malo angapo. Mlangizi kutchalitchi kapena bungwe lolemekezedwa limapereka malo achisomo kwa othandizana nawo kuthana ndi mavuto, nkhawa, ndi zowawa.
Pamodzi ndi zokumana nazo zazitali, komanso maluso akuya, alangizi achikhristu odziwa zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito njira zosiyanasiyana kuthandiza anthu ndi mabanja kuti afufuze malingaliro, machitidwe, ndi machitidwe omwe amachititsa kupsinjika ndi kusokonezeka.
Uphungu ungapangire njira kwa inu ngati palibe chomwe chikuwoneka choyenera m'banja lanu. Ikhoza kukupatsani mawonekedwe atsopano, kuthekera kowona zinthu mwanjira yatsopano. Koma, kuti uphungu wachikhristu ukhale wopambana, chinthu chimodzi chofunikira ndikuti mukhale ndi chikhulupiriro.
Chikhulupiriro nthawi zonse ndichinsinsi
Njira zachikhulupiriro zomwe alangizi achikhristu amatsimikizira zimati Mulungu amatipangitsa kukhala olimba munthawi yamavuto athu. Mtima ukhoza kuchira. Poganizira za uthenga wabwino uwu, alangizi amalimbikitsa maanja kupanga zisankho zoyenera, zotheka, ndi zokhulupirika.
Pamodzi ndi chitsogozo cha Mulungu, maanja ndi alangizi amasankha maphunziro ndikusankha njira zomwe zingadzetse tsogolo labwino.
Chitirani zinthu limodzi
Ukwati umafunikira khama, nthawi, komanso kudekha mtima ngati mutsata Mkhristu wina kapena mfundo zaukwati za m'Baibulo mutha kupanga njira yomangira maziko olimba kukhala yosavuta.
Malonjezo a Mulungu okhudza banja amadalira chikhulupiriro chanu mwa Yesu Khristu ndikudzipereka kuti banja lanu liziyenda bwino. Mukhwimitsa ukwati wanu potsatira zolinga zina za ubale wachikhristu.
Lingaliro lazolinga izi ndikupeza njira zophatikizira moyo wanu ndi za anzanu ndikuchita zinthu limodzi. Nazi zina zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuti mukhale ndi banja lolimba komanso loopa Mulungu:
- Limbikitsani banja lanu ndi ubale wanu popemphera limodzi. Sikuti izi zidzangokuyandikitsani pafupi ndi Mulungu komanso zidzakuthandizani kuyandikira pafupi ndi wokondedwa wanu. Mphamvu ya pemphero imagwira ntchito modabwitsa kuti ikulimbitseni inu nokha komanso pamodzi ngati banja.
- Limbikitsani banja lanu powerenga limodzi Baibulo. Tengani nthawi yakukhala pamodzi ndikudzipereka kuziphunzitso za baibulo. Baibulo ndi njira yamphamvu yosinthira inu ndi ubale wanu. Sungani nthawi yofunikayi sabata iliyonse ngati sichoncho tsiku lililonse.
- Khazikitsani njira zotetezera popita kutchalitchi limodzi. Kupita kutchalitchichi kumakufikitsani pafupi ndi anthu ena omwe alola kuti Mulungu akhale m'mitima yawo, m'maganizo mwawo, ndi m'miyoyo yawo. Zimalimbikitsa inu ndi mnzanu kuti mukhalebe okhulupirika kwa Khristu komanso kwa wina ndi mnzake.
- Pangani kulemekezana ndi kudalirana podzipereka kupanga zisankho zofunikira limodzi. Izi zikuthandizaninso kuti ubale wanu uziwonekerana.
Tumikirani mnzanu
Malangizo achikhristu awa pa ukwati ndi chinsinsi cholimbikitsira komanso kupulumutsa banja kapena ubale. Kulimbana kwa moyo wathu watsiku ndi tsiku kumatha kuyambitsa kusiyana pakati pa inu ndi mnzanu.
Komabe, kulimbana kumeneku kungatithandizenso kumvetsetsa momwe tingalimbikitsire banja lathu. Kukwatirana kokha kufunafuna chikondi kapena chisangalalo sikungakhale kokwanira poti nthawi yomwe chikondi ndi chisangalalo zitatha sitingayamikire mnzathu.
Malangizo achikhristu paukwati akutipempha kuti tikwatirane mu nzeru ndi ulemerero wa Mulungu popeza kudzipereka kwake ndi chikondi chake kwa ife sichidzasokonekera. Ziphunzitso za Khristu ndi baibulo zimaonetsa kuti tiyenera kupempherera anzathu ndikuwatsimikizira powalimbikitsa osati kuwadzudzula.
Zifukwa zopezera upangiri wa maukwati achikhristu
Kusokonezeka, kupsinjika, kuda nkhawa, mantha, kukhumudwa. Nthawi zina moyo umawoneka ngati ukutipambana. Nthawi zina timachoka panjira yabwino, ndikudzipeza tokha, kutali ndi komwe tikufuna.
Nthawi zina, zomwe zinali kugwira ntchito sizikugwiranso ntchito, kwa anthu, okwatirana, ndi ukwati. Ngati izi zikumveka bwino ku mgwirizano wanu, ndi nthawi yoti mupeze thandizo kwa akatswiri.
Osazengereza kufunafuna Malangizo achikwati achikhristu chifukwa cha mgwirizanowu. Pamene maphwando onse ali okonzeka kukambirana nkhaniyi, machiritso amatha.
Kufunafuna upangiri wachikwati wachikhristu kudzatsogolera njira yochira. Kuleza mtima ndichinsinsi chaukwati ndipo kukhala ndi chikhulupiriro ndichinthu chomwe chingakuthandizeni inu ndi mnzanu kupyola munthawi yamavuto. Aphungu achikhristu angakulimbikitseni kukhala ndi chikhulupiriro komanso kuleza mtima kuti muthane ndi mavuto m'banja mwanu.