Zamkati
Nthawi zonse pamakhala chiwopsezo chochuluka mukasiya chibwenzi, chomwe chimakulitsa kwambiri ana akakhala nawo. Kwa ena, kusiya owazunza kumatha kuzunza. Kwa iwo omwe amagawana ana limodzi, ndi nkhani ina.
M'mayiko ambiri, lingaliro lomwe limakhalapo pakakhala nthawi yolerera ana ndikusankha zochita kwa makolo omwe angaganize zopatukana ndikuti makolo onse amakhala pafupi ndi nthawi yofanana yakulera komanso kuti makolo onse amagawana zochita mofananamo.
Udindo wakulera umaphatikizapo zinthu monga komwe mwana amapita kusukulu, njira zamankhwala zomwe amachitidwa komanso ndi ndani, mwana amaphunzitsidwa chipembedzo chiti, komanso zochitika zina zakunja zomwe mwana amachita.
Mwachidziwitso, zosankha zamtunduwu zimawoneka kuti zimapindulitsa mwanayo, kulola makolo onse kugawana nawo gawo pakulera ana awo. Pomwe nkhanza zapabanja zakhala zikupezeka m'banja la makolo, zisankho ngati izi zimalola kuti nkhanza zizipitilira.
Kodi nkhanza za m'banja zimakhala chiyani?
Nkhanza za m'banja sizimangophatikizapo kuchitira nkhanza okondedwa wawo, koma zimaphatikizaponso mbali zina zaubwenzi, momwe mphamvu ndi kuwongolera zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kupangira ndi kusunga mphamvu pa bwenzi limodzi.
Njira zina zowazunzira ndikugwiritsa ntchito anawo kuti azitha kuwongolera, monga kuwopseza kutenga ana kapena kugwiritsa ntchito anawo kutumiza mauthenga kwa kholo linalo; kugwiritsa ntchito nkhanza zachuma monga kusalola wokondedwa wanu kudziwa za kapena kukhala ndi mwayi wopeza ndalama zabanja kapena kupereka cholowa ndikuyembekeza ma risiti pazogula zonse; kugwiritsa ntchito nkhanza monga kulekerera wokondedwa wawo, kuwapangitsa kukhala amisala kapena kuwapangitsa kudziona ngati olakwa chifukwa cha zosayenera za anzawo; kugwiritsa ntchito kuwaopseza ndikukakamiza mnzake kuti achotse milandu kapena achite zosemphana ndi malamulo.
Kutengera ndi njira zosiyanasiyana zomwe wina angathe kukhala ndi mphamvu pawubwenzi, awiriwo sayenera kukhala limodzi kuti achitilane nkhanza. Kuti bwenzi lochitiridwa nkhanza likambirane za momwe angalerere bwino ana awo ndi omwe amamuzunza zimamutsegulira kuti apitiliridwe nkhanza.
Mwaulemu kwambiri, mnzake wozunzidwayo atha kutsutsana ndi zomwe mwana ayenera kupita kusukulu ndikugwiritsa ntchito chisankhochi kupusitsa kholo linalo kuti lipereke china chake chomwe angafune; masiku enieni olerera, kusintha kwa omwe amapereka mayendedwe kwa omwe, ndi zina zambiri.
Wovutitsidwayo angawalole mwanayo kuti alandire chithandizo chamankhwala amisala kapena upangiri (ngati pangakhale chisankho chogwirizana, othandizira amafunika kuti apeze chilolezo kuchokera kwa makolo onsewo) kuti zidziwitso zawo zosavomerezeka zisaperekedwe kwa othandizira.
Nthawi zambiri, ngakhale nkhanza zapabanja sizikupezeka, makolo amagwiritsa ntchito ana awo kutumiza mauthenga kuchokera kwa kholo limodzi kupita kwa linzake kapena kunyoza za kholo lina pamaso pa ana awo.
Nkhanza za m'banja zikakhalapo, mnzake wozunza amatha kuchita mopitirira muyeso, kunamizira ana awo za kholo linalo, kuwapangitsa anawo kukhulupirira kuti kholo linalo ndiopenga, ndipo nthawi zambiri kumayambitsa matenda otalikirana ndi makolo.
Kuwerenga Kofanana: Zotsatira Zachiwawa Pabanja Kwa Ana
Chifukwa chiyani sizimatha?
Chifukwa chake, ali ndi chidziwitso chonsechi, chifukwa chiyani makolo omwe ali ndi mbiri yakuzunza mabanja amapatsidwa udindo wopanga zisankho 50-50? Ngakhale, pali malamulo omwe amalola oweruza kuti azitha kupitilira 50-50, nthawi zambiri oweruza amafuna kuti aweruzidwe mwankhanza kuti agwiritse ntchito lamulolo popanga zisankho.
Apanso, mwachidziwikire izi ndizomveka. Mwachizolowezi, potengera zomwe timadziwa za nkhanza za m'banja, sizingateteze iwo omwe akufunika kutetezedwa kwambiri. Omwe akuchitiridwa nkhanza m'banja sawuza apolisi kapena kutsata ndikulemba milandu pazifukwa zambiri.
Aopsezedwa ndikuwopsezedwa mobwerezabwereza, ndipo akukhulupirira kuti ngati anene zomwe zikuwachitikira, nkhanza zitha kukulirakulira (zomwe zimachitika nthawi zambiri).
Anauzidwanso kuti palibe amene angawakhulupirire, ndipo ozunzidwa ambiri amakumana ndi mafunso komanso osakhulupilira ndi apolisi ndipo amafunsidwa funso lovuta, "Bwanji osangochoka?" Chifukwa chake, pali milandu yambiri kukhothi la mabanja, komwe nkhanza za m'banja zilipo, mwina zanenedwa, koma sizimaganiziridwa popanga nthawi yakulera ndi zisankho zina zofunika. Ndipo kotero, kuzunzidwaku kukupitilizabe.
Zothetsera
Ngati mukuvutikira kukhala kholo limodzi ndi omwe akukuzunzani, chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe mungachite ndikusunga malire anu, kumanga nthandizi yanu, kusunga zonse, ndikusunga zosowa za ana anu patsogolo.
Pali mabungwe omwe adadzipereka kuti athandizire omwe achitiridwa nkhanza m'banja, ena omwe atha kukhala ndi thandizo lalamulo pakafunika kutero.
Pitani kwa wothandizira ngati zinthu zikukuvutani kuthana nazo kapena ngati simungakwanitse kusunga malire omwe akhazikitsidwa kukhothi. Ngakhale iyi ndi njira yovuta kuyenda, simuyenera kuyendamo nokha.