Zamkati
- Chitani: Limbikitsani chidaliro kudzera pakulankhulana
- OSAKHALA: Khalani Amantha kukambirana nkhani zofunika
- Chitani: Tcherani khutu kuzinthu zopanda mawu
- Osachita: Kambiranani zinthu zofunika pazolemba
- Chitani: Dziwani momwe mungakangane
- Osachita: Iwalani kumvetsera
- CHITANI: Khalani otsimikiza
- Osachita: Kunama
- Chitani: Yesetsani kulumikizana kulikonse
Anthu ambiri amadziwa kuti kulumikizana mozama ndichinthu chofunikira kwambiri paubwenzi uliwonse, koma sikuti aliyense amatenga nthawi kuti aphunzire zomwe wokondedwa wawo akufuna m'maganizo ndi mwathupi. Kusamvetsetsa mnzanuyo ndikubisirana zinthu kumatha kubweretsa mkwiyo komanso kusowa chimwemwe muubwenzi wanu. Ichi ndichifukwa chake kuphunzira kuwerengerana ndikofunikira kwambiri posunga mgwirizano wachimwemwe, wathanzi.
Kuyankhulana kolimba kumakhudza maziko onse: chitetezo cham'maganizo, kulankhulana pakamwa komanso mosagwiritsa ntchito mawu, komanso kukondana. Izi zonse ndizofunikira kuti banja likhale lolimba. Nayi zinthu zomwe simuyenera kuchita kuti mupange kulumikizana ndi mnzanu komanso zifukwa zomwe kumvetserana kungakupindulitsireni mtsogolo.
Chitani: Limbikitsani chidaliro kudzera pakulankhulana
Kudalira ndichimodzi mwazinthu zofunikira kwambiri paubwenzi. Zimakhala zokhulupirika ndipo zimapangitsa mnzanu kukhala njira yodalirika yothandizira. Njira imodzi yomwe mungalimbikitsire chidaliro ndikulankhulana pafupipafupi.
Ngati simufunsapo, simudziwa. Gwiritsani ntchito mwambiwu kudzikumbutsa kuti muwerenge ndi mnzanu zakukhosi kwawo, nkhawa zawo, ndi momwe akumvera zaubwenzi. Kuyankhulana ndi wokondedwa wanu za mavuto, malingaliro, mantha, ndi zokhumba zidzakupatsani mwayi wolandila ndi kulimbikitsana komwe kumalimbikitsa kukhulupirirana ndi chitetezo. Mukamaliza kukambirana zonse ndi mnzanu, kulumikizana kwanu kudzakhala kolimba ndi munthuyo. Chifukwa chake, yankhulani!
OSAKHALA: Khalani Amantha kukambirana nkhani zofunika
Kuyankhulana molimba mu ubale kumatanthauza kukhala omasuka ndi owona mtima pa moyo wanu wogonana. Kugonana ndi gawo lalikulu laubwenzi uliwonse, ndipo kunyalanyaza mutuwo kumatha kusokoneza maukwati ambiri. Mabanja ambiri amaona kuti zimathandiza kukambirana moona mtima za nthawi yomwe angakonde kukhala limodzi, komanso zomwe zimawapangitsa kukhala osangalala kwa iwo. Simuyenera kuchita manyazi kukambirana nkhani zina zofunika ndi mnzanu, monga mapulani amtsogolo oyambira banja kapena mavuto azachuma.
Chitani: Tcherani khutu kuzinthu zopanda mawu
Kulankhulana bwino ndi mnzanu kumatanthauza zambiri osati kungocheza. Zimatanthawuza kutchera khutu kuzinthu zosalankhula komanso zolankhula. Fufuzani zizindikilo monga mtunda wamaganizidwe, mikono yopindidwa, kusayang'anizana ndi maso, kupsinjika konse, kapena mawu okwiya ndi manja. Zitha kutenga nthawi kuti muphunzire zomwe mnzanu sakufuna kunena, koma mukamalumikiza kwambiri zimakhala zosavuta kuzizindikira komanso kuthekera kwanu kulumikizana bwino.
Osachita: Kambiranani zinthu zofunika pazolemba
Kuyankhulana ndi chida chachikulu chokhala ndi ubale wabwino, koma muyenera kutero moyenera. Mwachitsanzo, kutumizirana mameseji ndi njira yabwino yodziwira zomwe nonse mumamva ngati mumadya kapena kanema yemwe mungatenge Lachisanu usiku, koma sayenera kukhala njira yoti mukambirane zovuta zazikulu. Izi zikuyenera kuchitidwa panokha.
Kutumiza malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu kumawoneka ngati kosawopa pamalemba chifukwa siamunthu. Koma powerenga mawu pazenera mumataya kamvekedwe ndi nkhani pazokambirana zina. Izi zitha kubweretsa kusamvana ndi mikangano yomwe ikadapewedwa ndikungoyimbirana foni kapena kuyankhulana pamasom'pamaso.
Chitani: Dziwani momwe mungakangane
Kukhala ndi mikangano kumatha kukhala kwabwino kwa anthu okwatirana, bola ngati muli ndi malingaliro oyenera za iwo. Kuyankhulana kwakukulu mu ubale kumatanthauza kudziwa momwe, ndi liti, kukangana. Kudziwa nthawi yokangana kumatanthauza kutenga nthawi yokhala panokha pomwe onse awiri ali ndi nthawi yokwanira yothetsera nkhani yomwe ili pafupi.
Kudziwa momwe mungatsutsane kumatanthauza kuti musamachite zaphokoso. Kukangana sikuyenera kukhala pankhani yoti mumukhumudwitse mnzanu, komanso musamachite masewera. M'malo molimbana, bwerani kukangana ndi cholinga chothetsera mavuto. Nthawi zonse muziyesetsa kuthana ndi vutolo ndipo fotokozani mwaulemu malingaliro anu osakalipira kapena kuwombera mnzanuyo.
Osachita: Iwalani kumvetsera
Palibe amene amakonda kumverera ngati malingaliro ndi nkhawa zawo sizikumveka. Gawo limodzi lofunikira pakulankhulana mwamphamvu muubale ndikuphunzira nthawi yolankhula komanso nthawi yakumvera. Mverani nkhawa za mnzanuyo kuti mumve malingaliro awo pamitu ndi zisankho musanathamange kukaweruza. Khalani ndi nthawi yomvetsera, izi zithandiza kupewa kusamvana kapena kuyika mawu mkamwa mwa mnzanu.
CHITANI: Khalani otsimikiza
Kuyankhulana kumalimbikitsidwa pamene abwenzi akuyandikira mitu, yayikulu kapena yopanda tanthauzo, ndi malingaliro abwino. Kumbukirani kuti ngakhale banja losangalala kwambiri limakumana ndi zovuta zawo. Ubale uli ngati ma co-roller: nthawi zina amakhala owopsa, nthawi zina amakhala osangalatsa.
Sungani ubale wanu kuti ukhale wabwino pokhala nthabwala, kuwonetsa chisomo ndikuyamikira wokondedwa wanu, kusangalala ndi zomwe wina akuchita, komanso kulimbikitsana ngati kuli kotheka.
Osachita: Kunama
Khalani owona mtima kwa wina ndi mnzake. Popanda kuwona mtima, kulumikizana sikungathandize m'mayanjano. Kukhala woona mtima kumatanthauza kukhala wodalirika, wodalirika, ndikuvomereza kunena zoona pazomwe zikuchitika komanso zomwe sizili pachibwenzi. Zachidziwikire, kuwona mtima kumatha kupweteketsa nthawi zina, koma mukamayankhula momasuka pazokayika zilizonse zomwe zikuchitika muubwenzowu, mutha kuyesetsa kukonza vutolo.
Kuwona mtima nthawi zonse kumakhala njira yabwino kwambiri. Pokhala owona mtima kwa wina ndi mnzake mumawonetsa kuti mutha kuwerengedwa kuti mungachite zabwino.
Chitani: Yesetsani kulumikizana kulikonse
Kulankhulana kumatanthauza zambiri kuposa kungokhala ndi zokambirana mlungu uliwonse limodzi. Zimatanthauza kugawana moyo wanu wina ndi mzake m'mawu komanso mwanjira ina. Tekinoloje imakulolani kuti muzilumikizana nthawi zonse tsiku lonse. Onetsani mnzanu amene mumamukonda potumiza meseji yokoma kapena yoseketsa, FaceTime, kapena imelo.
Musaiwale kuti zochita zimalankhula mokweza kuposa mawu. Nthawi zina kulumikizana kolimbitsa maubale kumatanthauza kukhala okondana. Lumikizanani mwakuthupi pochita zachiwerewere mkati ndi kunja kwa chipinda chogona. Kugwirana manja, kukumbatirana, ndi kupsompsonana ndi njira zabwino kwambiri zolimbikitsira kulumikizana kwanu kopanda mawu.