Zamkati
- Zizindikiro zobwereza zomwe zikusonyeza kuti ndizosavomerezeka
- Kodi ubale wapabanja umatenga nthawi yayitali bwanji?
- Kubwereranso kwaubwenzi
Kodi ubale wapabanja ndi chiyani?
Kumvetsetsa kwa ubale wobwereranso ndi pamene munthuyo alowa mwatsopano mwatcheru kutsatira kutha kwaubwenzi wakale.
Amaganiziridwa kuti ndimomwe zimayambira kutha kwa banja, osati ubale wowona, wopanga mwaufulu potengera kupezeka kwamalingaliro.
Komabe, pali maubwenzi obwereza omwe amakhala okhazikika, olimba, komanso okhalitsa. Ndikofunikira kuzindikira chifukwa chomwe mukuyanjanirana kuti muwonetsetse kuti simumadzipweteka nokha kapena munthu wina.
Ngati chibwenzi chanu changotha kumene, ndipo mukuyesedwa kuti mubwererenso, mungafune kudzifunsa kuti mukuyang'ana chiyani pachibwenzicho.
Zizindikiro zobwereza zomwe zikusonyeza kuti ndizosavomerezeka
Kaya mukufuna kudziwa za zomwe mkazi wanu wakale ali pachibwenzi kapena mukuganiza zosankha chibwenzi pambuyo pa chisudzulo kapena kutha koyipa, ndibwino kudziwa izi zisonyezo zakubwerera.
Zizindikiro za ubale wobwerera
- Mumathamangira ku chibwenzi popanda kulumikizana.
- Mumagwa mwamphamvu komanso mwachangu kuti mukhale mnzake.
- Mukugwiritsabe manambala a foni, zojambulajambula, ndi zikumbukiro zina zaubwenzi wakale.
- Mukuyang'ana mnzanu watsopano yemwe akuyenera kuyesetsa kwambiri m'banjamo.
- Mumafikira kukhumudwa ndikubwerera kudziko lanu muli osangalala, chifukwa chokomera nkhawa.
Komanso, nayi mafunso ena okuthandizani kuti mumvetsetse ngati ubale wobwereranso ndikusunthira bwino kwa inu.
- Kodi mukuchita izi kuti muzidzimva kuti ndinu okongola ndikuti mnzako wakale analakwitsa kukusiya? Kodi mukugwiritsa ntchito munthu watsopanoyu kuti muiwale wokondedwa wanu wakale?
- Kodi mukuwongolera kuti mupweteke mnzanu wakale? Kodi mukugwiritsa ntchito malo ochezera a pa Intaneti kuwonetsetsa kuti akusangalalani ndi munthu watsopanoyu? Kodi mukuyikapo dala chithunzi pambuyo panu chithunzi cha iwo ndi iwo, mukuzungulirana, kutsekana mukupsompsonana, kupita kokasangalala nthawi zonse? Kodi mukugwiritsa ntchito ubale watsopanowu ngati kubwezera wakale?
Kodi simuli wokhulupirika mu bwenzi latsopano? Kodi mukuwagwiritsa ntchito kudzaza malo opanda kanthu omwe abwenzi anu akale adasiya? Kodi ndizokhudza kugonana, kapena kupewa kusungulumwa? Kodi mumagwiritsa ntchito wokondedwa wanu ngati njira yotonthoza mtima wanu, m'malo mozilankhulira nokha? Sikoyenera kapena chilungamo kugwiritsa ntchito winawake, kuthana ndi zowawa zakusokonekera.
Kodi ubale wapabanja umatenga nthawi yayitali bwanji?
Kulankhula zakubwerera pachibwenzi, ambiri mwa milungu yapitayi mpaka miyezi ingapo. Komabe, si onse omwe awonongeke kutha, koma zimatengera zinthu zambiri monga kupezeka kwamalingaliro a onse awiri, kukongola, ndi kufanana komwe kumawamanga.
Muubwenzi wosavomerezeka, pali zotayika zotsalira monga nkhawa, kukhumudwa, ndi chisoni kuchokera kumaubwenzi am'mbuyomu kupita ku chatsopano machiritso achilengedwe asanachitike atalekana.
Popeza munthu amene akufunafuna chibwenzi chobwezera sanathenso kuthana ndi mavuto ndi nkhawa, atha kubweretsa mkwiyo komanso kusakhazikika pachibwenzi chatsopanocho.
Ndicho chifukwa chake kutalika kwa maubwenzi obwereranso sikudutsa miyezi ingapo yoyambirira.
Pafupifupi, 90% yamaubwenzi obwereranso amalephera mkati mwa miyezi itatu yoyambirira, ngati tikambirana za nthawi yobwereranso yaubwenzi.
Onaninso:
Kubwereranso kwaubwenzi
Nthawi yolumikizirana nthawi zambiri imakhala ndimagawo anayi.
- Gawo 1: Zimayamba ndikupeza wina yemwe ndi wosiyana kwambiri ndi chidwi chanu cham'mbuyomu. Zitha kukhala zoopsa kwambiri, chifukwa nthawi zonse mumapanikizika kufunafuna wina yemwe ndi wotsutsana ndi mnzake wakale. Mutu wanu, mumadziuza nokha nkhani yaubwenzi wosangalala ndi munthu yemwe alibe mikhalidwe yofanana ndi wakale wanu motero ali wangwiro.
- Gawo 2: Pakadali pano, muli mumkhalidwe wachisangalalo wokana kuti pali kuthekera konse kwamavuto abwenzi popeza mwasankha mwanzeru mnzanu yemwe ali wotsutsana kotheratu ndi uja wapitawo. Koma gawo lokonzekera tchuthi lino silikhala lalitali, chifukwa, pakapita nthawi, mumayamba kuyesa chidwi chanu chatsopanocho ndi mindandanda, kuwopa kufanana kulikonse. Mumayamba kuyesa wokondedwa wanu wosayembekezeka.
- Gawo 3: Pakadali pano zovuta zaubwenzi ndi zovuta za mnzanu zimayamba kukukwiyitsani, koma zachisoni mumazisunga, akugwiritsitsabe ubale wapamtima. Simukufuna kukhala nokha, chifukwa chake m'malo momalankhula momasuka komanso moona mtima, mumayang'ana kwa iwo, ngakhale mukuyesetsa kwambiri.
- Gawo 4: Gawo lomaliza, laukwati wobwereza kapena ubale, limaphatikizira kumapeto. Mukudziwa kuti mwabweretsa nkhani zaubwenzi wanu wakale mu iyi, ndipo mosazindikira, zidamupangitsa munthuyu kukhala wobwezera. Tsoka ilo, mnzake yemwe sanayenerere kubwereranso amazindikira kuti anali ngalande kuti muthetse bwino chibwenzi chanu chakale.
Ngati mwapeza kutseka ndi kuzindikira pazifukwa zenizeni zomwe zinthu zimathera ndi mnzanu wakale, mutha kukhala ndi chiyembekezo chotsalira kuti muyambirenso pachibwenzichi popanda kubweza.
Ndipo, ngati mukufunadi kuyesetsa kukhala omasuka komanso olankhula, atha kukhala ofunitsitsa kuyesanso ngati banja lenileni.
Komabe, ngati anganene kuti zikutha nanu, tengani nthawi kuti muwone. Osathamangira kupeza yemwe angakwaniritse chidwi chanu chomaliza, fufuzani munthu yemwe akugwirizana ndi yemwe inu muli komanso zomwe mukufuna.
Chifukwa chake, ubale wobwereranso umatha?
Palibe amene angayankhe izi motsimikizika, ngakhale kuti kuthekera kwake kuli kotsika. Pali zosiyana popeza munthu amene akumulakwayo atha kusankha kuchita chibwenzi momasuka komanso momveka bwino.
Ngati munthu akuchita zibwenzi zobwezera kuti abwerere kwa yemwe anali mnzake wakale kapena kuti adzisokoneze okha pakumva chisoni, ndiye kuti izi zimatha kutha mosayembekezereka.