Zamkati
- 1. Ndalama ndizofunika m'banja
- 2. Nsanje ndi kukaikira
- 3. Mvetsetsani mbiri yawo
- 4. Nenani za mavuto
- 5. Sungani mgwirizano wapabanja
- Ukwati wopanda kukangana kapena mikuntho uyenera kutha
Palibe ubale womwe umawala ndi dzuwa, koma anthu awiri amatha kugawana ambulera ndikupulumuka mkuntho limodzi.
Mwambiwu umachitika makamaka m’banja.
Mosasamala kanthu kuti mwakwatirana ndi munthu amene mwakhala naye pachibwenzi kwanthawi yayitali kapena muukwati wokhazikika womwe umakhala wachikhalidwe chakum'mawa, kukhala ndi munthu wazikhulupiriro ndi zizolowezi zosiyana kumatha kukhala ntchito yovuta.
Ukwati umafunikira kumvetsetsa kwambiri kwa onse okwatirana komanso zovuta zina. Muyenera kukhala ndi zokonda, zosakondeka, ndi moyo wa mnzanu pomwe mukuyembekezera kuti abwezera. Mwamwayi, pali njira zosiyanasiyana, zoyesedwa nthawi komanso zotsimikizika zolimbitsa banja lanu ku mikuntho ya moyo.
Apa tikuwona njira zisanu zabwino zomwe zingathandizire kulimbikitsa banja lanu, mosatengera chikhalidwe kapena malo omwe muli.
Njira zisanu zolimbitsira banja lanu
Zambiri zanenedwa zakulimbitsa banja lanu pokhulupirira mulungu kapena mphamvu yayikulu komanso uzimu.
Koma apa, tikuwona zinthu zomwe zimayambitsa zisokonezo zomwe zingapewereke muukwati uliwonse.
1. Ndalama ndizofunika m'banja
Ndalama zimakhala ngati mdani woyamba paukwati wokhazikika.
The State of Finances in the American Household, kafukufuku wopangidwa ndi kafukufuku wa Ramsey ndi akulu 1,072 akuwulula, zifukwa zambiri pakati pa okwatirana zimachitika chifukwa cha ngongole. Kafukufukuyu akuwonetsanso kuti gawo limodzi mwa atatu mwa mabanja onse ku US amayamba ndi ngongole.
Izi sizachilendo ku US.
Padziko lonse lapansi, kukangana pakati pa okwatirana pazinthu za ndalama akuti ndiwomwe amathandizira kwambiri mikuntho m'mabanja.
Chifukwa chomwe maanja ali ochenjera pakukambirana nkhani zachuma ndi maanja awo. Choyipa chachikulu ndi chakuti, ena amabisa ndalama kuchokera kwa mnzawo momwe alipo enanso, omwe amapeza mayesero ochulukirapo kuti azilamulira mnzake yemwe salandira kapena alibe ndalama zochepa.
Mutha kulimbitsa banja lanu ku mikuntho ya moyo yomwe imachitika chifukwa cha nkhani zokhudzana ndi ndalama pokhala owonetsetsa komanso owonamtima kwathunthu kwa wokondedwa wanu pazachuma chamabanja.
2. Nsanje ndi kukaikira
Nsanje ndi kukayikira za wokondedwa wanu zingayambitse mphepo yamkuntho mbanja.
Izi zimachitika chifukwa wokwatirana wamkazi kapena wamwamuna akhoza kukhala wokayikira kapena wopambanitsa. Amayi ndi abambo oterewa amakhulupilira kuti abwenzi awo akuchita zachinyengo ndipo amakhala ndi zibwenzi zina zapabanja. Ena amaganiza kuti amuna kapena akazi awo akupitilizabe kulumikizana ndi wakale. Izi zitha kuyambitsa mphepo yamkuntho mbanja mwanu.
M'pomveka kuti anthu ena amakopeka ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu. Izi zimachitika makamaka chifukwa chaubwenzi wawo komanso kucheza kwawo komwe kumakopa anthu kuti ayambe kucheza nawo. Anthu otere samayang'ana zogonana ndi mnzanu. Zikaiko zambiri ndi nsanje pa wokwatirana naye zilibe maziko ndipo zilibe zifukwa zomveka.
Ngati inu kapena mnzanu muli ndi nsanje kapena kukayikira, njira yabwino kwambiri yolimbitsira banja lanu kulimbana ndi namondwe ndi kukhala omasuka kucheza nawo. Tsimikizirani mnzanu kuti mulibe cholinga chochita zibwenzi kapena mukukopa wina kuti mugonane naye.
Izi zimafuna kuyesetsa koma zidzakhala zopindulitsa kuti mulimbitse banja lanu.
3. Mvetsetsani mbiri yawo
Ma TV, mawebusayiti ochezera, komanso maulendo ochepera akunja akuchititsa kuchuluka kwa maukwati amitundu padziko lonse lapansi.
Izi sizongokhala m'maiko otukuka okha. PEW Kafukufuku akuti 12% ya mabanja apadziko lonse lapansi mu 2013 anali osiyana mitundu. Pakutha kwa 2018, chiwerengerochi chimatha kukhala chikuzungulira 20% ya mabanja amitundu padziko lonse lapansi.
Kaya mwakwatirana ndi munthu wochokera ku fuko lina koma ndinu a fuko limodzi kapena mlendo, n'kofunika kumvetsetsa chikhalidwe, maphunziro, ndi chuma cha mnzanuyo.
Masiku ano, amayi ndi abambo ambiri amapeza okwatirana kudzera pamawebusayiti odziwika bwino. Zikatero, mkwati ndi mkwatibwi atha kukhala ochokera zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana. Izi zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zofunikira kumvetsetsa mbiri ya anzawo.
Anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana amachita mosiyanasiyana munthawi zosiyanasiyana.
Ngakhale mnzanuyo amakhala akuchita malinga ndi chikhalidwe chake kapena chikhalidwe chake, zimatha kumveka ngati kusasamala kapena kusilira, kutengera momwe zinthu ziliri. Mutha kulimbitsa banja lanu msanga ku mikuntho m'moyo yomwe imayambitsidwa ndi kusiyana chikhalidwe chifukwa chophunzira zambiri zamtundu wa mnzanu, miyambo yake, zikhalidwe zawo, chuma chake, komanso maphunziro ake.
Mwamwayi, zida zambiri zomwe zimatiphunzitsa za zikhalidwe ndi miyambo zosiyanasiyana zimapezeka pa intaneti. Fotokozerani izi kuti mumve bwino momwe mnzanu amaganizira ndi machitidwe ake.
4. Nenani za mavuto
Ambiri mwa okwatirana samakonda kulankhula za mavuto kuntchito, zovuta zomwe amakumana nazo kapena matenda kwa anzawo.
Izi zimabweretsa kuwonjezeka kwa malingaliro ndi malingaliro. Timakhulupirira zabodza kuti kukambirana nkhani izi kumapangitsa ulemu wathu kwa mnzake.
Komabe, zinthu zimagwira ntchito mosiyana.
Kulankhula momasuka zamavuto anu kapena ofesi yanu komanso momwe zinthu zilili pamoyo wanu kuli ndi maubwino othandizira. Zolankhula zoterezi zimakuthandizani kuti musavutike chifukwa chololedwa. Komanso, zimapatsa mnzanu chidaliro kuti mumawakhulupirira komanso malingaliro awo.
Nthawi zambiri, wokwatirana akhoza kukutonthozani kapena kupereka mayankho omwe simumaganizira.
Kudziuza mavuto anu ndikubweretsa nkhawa kumabweretsa mavuto m'banja.
Izi zimachitika chifukwa timakonda kufotokozera wokondedwa wathu kapena banja lathu. Kungokhala womasuka kunena za mavutowa komanso izi kumalimbitsa banja lanu ku zovuta zammoyo.
5. Sungani mgwirizano wapabanja
Okwatirana ambiri masiku ano amatengera ubale wapabanja ndi abale ndi makolo kumbuyo kwa moyo wawo. Izi zitha kukhala zowopsa, makamaka mukakumana ndi namondwe m'banja.
Inu ndi mnzanu simudzakhala ndi wina woti muzimuuza kapena kumuuza zakukhosi pakafunika kutero.
Kudzipatula kotereku kwa abale ndi makolo kumatanthauza kuti muyenera kuuza anthu omwe simukuwadziwa kapena mlangizi.
Chifukwa chake, njira yabwino kwambiri yolimbitsira banja lanu kulimbana ndi zovuta m'moyo ndi kukhala ndi ubale wolimba ndi abale apamtima a mnzanu. Pitani kukawachezera ngati zingatheke kapena kusonkhana pamodzi ndi achibale a achibale a mnzanu kapena mnzanu. Ndipo ngati izi sizingatheke, pitilizani kulumikizana pafupipafupi ndi foni ndi imelo.
Ma social media amathandizanso kulumikizana ndi abale.
Chifukwa chake, mukamakumana ndi mavuto m'banja mwanu, ndizotheka kupempha thandizo ngati kuli kofunikira kuchokera kwa abale anu ndikuwongolera zovuta zilizonse. Kuthetsa kusamvana kulikonse pakati pa mabanja powabweretsa limodzi nthawi zina.
Ukwati wopanda kukangana kapena mikuntho uyenera kutha
Pokhapokha ngati ubale ukugwira ntchito mpamene mikangano imakumana. M'malo mongowazemba kapena kuthawa zovuta ngati izi, ndibwino kuthana nawo.
Gwiritsani ntchito njira zisanu zosavuta izi kuti mulimbitsire banja lanu kunthawi yamkuntho. Kaya maukwati amapangidwa kumwamba kapena ayi sizingatheke. Koma kuwapangitsa kuti azigwira ntchito polimbana ndi mikuntho yofanana ndiukwati amafunika ku Earth ndi mayankho othandiza.
Ngakhale chipembedzo chimapereka mayankho, ena amafunikira njira yakudziko.