Zamkati
Ubale siosavuta konse.
Ndi mgwirizano wosanenedwa pomwe anthu awiri, omwe amakondana kwambiri, amasankha kukhala limodzi moyo wawo wonse. Vuto lomwe onse akukumana nalo ndiloti azolowere limodzi.
Kunyengerera pachibwenzi sikungapeweke.
Onse awiri ayenera kudzisintha pang'ono ngati akufuna kukhala ndiubwenzi wolimba, wokhalitsa. Funso lomwe likubwera apa ndiloti tingasokoneze bwanji komanso zomwe tingasokoneze.
Tiyeni tiwone mafunso awa ndi mafunso pansipa.
Limbani
Tiyeni tivomereze kuti padzakhala ndewu ndi mikangano pakati pa anthu awiri akakhala limodzi pansi pa denga limodzi.
Ndiwowoneka bwino ndipo sitingapewe konse. Pomwe wokondedwa m'modzi angafune kuyimitsa pambali mkanganowo pakapita kanthawi, wina angafune kufikira pamapeto pake zivute zitani. Kusiyanasiyana kwa malingaliro kapena njira yothetsera mkangano kumasintha ubalewo kwakanthawi.
Chifukwa chake, pezani njira yopewa kupewa.
Zindikirani momwe nonse mungafunire kuti nkhondo ithe. Zachidziwikire, osachikoka kwakanthawi apo ayi zinthu sizingakhale bwino pakati panu kuti. Mwachidziwikire, simuyenera kukangana pabedi koma muziyang'ana njira yomwe ikugwirizane nonse.
Nthawi iliyonse mukamenyana, tsatirani zomwe mwagwirizana. Mwanjira imeneyi, zinthu zidzakhala bwino, ndipo simuyenera kulimbana ndi mavuto ambiri.
Kugonana
Inde, kugonana nkofunika mu chibwenzi. Pali maudindo osiyanasiyana komanso njira zogonana. Chifukwa chake, kuti mupewe mikangano iliyonse, ndibwino kuti muchepetse malo abwino. Musayembekezere mnzanu kutsatira malangizo anu pabedi. Sigwira ntchito, ndipo pamapeto pake, zinthu zidzagwa.
Kambiranani maudindo omwe nonse muli omasuka nawo ndikupanga mtendere nawo.
Kumbukirani, kugonana ndi njira ina yosonyezera chikondi kwa wokondedwa wanu. Simukufuna kukhumudwitsa kapena kupangitsa mnzanu kukhala womasuka powafunsa kuti atsatire zomwe mumakonda. Mukamagonjera izi mwachangu mudzakhala ndi moyo wabwino.
Zachuma
Ndalama zitha kukhala zovuta m'banja, khulupirirani kapena ayi.
Ngati onse awiri akulandila, ndiye kuti nthawi zambiri malingaliro akuti 'Ndikulipirira kuposa inu', amabwera pachithunzichi ndikuwononga ubale wabwino. Ngati ndi munthu m'modzi yekha amene amalandila ndiye kuti 'Ine ndiye wopezera banja zosowa' zingasokoneze ubalewo.
Ngati nonse mukuphatikiza ndalama zanu, ndiye kuti ndalama zikupita kuti zibwere pakati pa nonse awiri.
Tikulangizidwa kuti mufike pamalingaliro amomwe mungagwiritsire ntchito ndalama.
Ikakhala akaunti yakubanki yolumikizana, onetsetsani kuti ndalamazo zagwiritsidwa ntchito pabanja. Musanatenge ndalama muakaunti yakubanki yolumikizana kuti musangalale, lankhulani ndi mnzanu.
Kusagwirizana kwachuma pachibwenzi ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe siziyenera kunyalanyazidwa konse.
Zosangalatsa
Monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, nonse ndinu anthu awiri osiyana omwe avomera kukhala limodzi mchipinda chimodzi popeza mumakondana kwambiri.
Chifukwa chake, mumakhala ndi zofanana ndi zina. Ngakhale zizolowezi zomwe zimapanga kusinthasintha kwamalingaliro anu zitha kuwononga kwathunthu.
Chimodzi mwazinthu zotere ndi zosangalatsa.
Ngati muli panja ndipo mnzanu ndiwambiri m'nyumba, sipangakhale mikangano. Zachidziwikire, nonse mungakhale okhazikika pazomwe mumakonda. Nonse muyenera kukambirana pa izi.
Bwerani kumapeto komwe kumapeto kwa sabata limodzi mumachita zinthu zakunja, ndipo kumapeto kwa sabata limodzi mumakhala kunyumba. Mwanjira imeneyi, nonse ndinu osangalala, ndipo zinthu zidzakhala bwino pakati panu.
Kulera ana
Ndizachidziwikire kuti nonse muli ndi njira zosiyanasiyana zochitira zinthu.
Ngakhale wina akhoza kukhala wankhanza pazochitika zina, ena amakhala odekha komanso odekha. Nthawi zambiri maanja amakhala ndi njira zosiyanasiyana zolerera ndipo amakangana pa njira yabwino.
Ngati tiyang'anitsitsa, izi zimakhudza mwanayo ndipo pamapeto pake mumakhala kholo loipa.
Pofuna kupewa zovuta zilizonse, sankhani amene atenga vutolo komanso liti. Khalani ngati 'Good Cop Bad Cop'. Ngati wina ali wokhwimitsa, wina ayenera kukhala wofewa kwa ana. Zambiri mwazinthuzi ndizoyipa polera mwana.
Nthawi
Kodi ndinu munthu wam'mawa kapena kadzidzi wa usiku?
Kodi mnzanuyo ali ndi chizolowezi chofanana ndi chanu? Ndizokayikitsa kwambiri kuti mungapeze munthu wokhala ndi chizolowezi chofanana. Ena amasunga nthawi pomwe ena amalephera. Ena amakhulupirira kudzuka m'mawa pomwe ena amakonda kugona mpaka usiku.
Anthu osankha mopitilira muyaya akabwera pamodzi, amayenera kupanga zokambirana zina mu chibwenzi. Ngati sichoncho, ndiye kuti kudzakhala kovuta kukhala limodzi. Lemekezani zosankha za wina ndi mnzake. Umu ndi momwe ubale ulili. Chifukwa chake, kambiranani ndi kuvomerezana pomwe pamakhala zopambana.