Zamkati
- Kufunika kwachikondi
- Malingaliro amadzulo achikondi
- 1. Pitani ku kanema woyendetsa
- 2. Chakudya chamunda wam'munda
- 3. Usiku usambira
- 4. Yendani paki
- 5. Sinthani chipinda chanu chogona
- 6. Chakudya chamakandulo
- 7. Usiku wowopsa wama kanema
- 8. Kuvina kapena kuyimba
Chakudya chamakandulo, nyimbo zokoma, ndikuyang'ana nyenyezi - inde, kukondana kungakhale chimodzi mwazinthu zokongola kwambiri zomwe ubale ungatipatse.
Ngakhale, pazaka komanso nthawi ino, kodi zachikondi zikadalipo? Kodi pali ma Romeos ena kunja uko omwe angayesetse kukhala achikondi kwa ma Juliet awo? Kodi pali azimayi ena omwe angadzipereke kuti angodabwitsa abwenzi awo kapena amuna awo?
Ngati ndinu munthu amene mungafune kuti mufufuze malingaliro osiyana achikondi ndiye kuti muli patsamba loyenera.
Kufunika kwachikondi
Tikayang'ana m'mbuyo, tonse tivomereza kuti ngati tikufuna winawake, tichita zonse zomwe tingathe kuti timusangalatse ndipo ndizomwe zachitika kale.
Ngati amakonda wokondana, ndiye kuti timayesetsa kukhala amodzi, ngakhale sitikhala maluwa ndi chokoleti.
Komabe, pakadutsa miyezi, zaka, ngakhalenso ukwati, zoyesayesa zakulimba mtima ndikukondana tsopano zidatha kale. Kwa ambiri a ife, kukhala okondana ndikungofuna kusangalatsa osati china. M'malo mwake, ena amatha kuganiza kuti malingaliro achikondi madzulo ndiabwino kwambiri.
Kukondana ndikofunikira ngakhale mutakhala limodzi nthawi yayitali bwanji ngakhale mutakhala otanganidwa ndi ana komanso kugwira ntchito.
Ndi chinsinsi chimodzi chokhala ndiubwenzi wokhalitsa.
Nthawi zina, ndizosavuta kufuna kukhala wachikondi koma kukhala m'modzi ndizovuta.
Tivomereze, ndizovuta kukhala pachibwenzi makamaka usanazolowere. Tisanadziwe malingaliro osiyanasiyana achikondi madzulo, tiyeni timvetsetse kaye maubwino okondana pachibwenzi.
Manja achikondi ndi njira yabwino yowadziwitsa okondedwa anu momwe amatanthauza kwa inu. Kuposa mawu, zochita zachikondi zimayamikiridwadi.
Kukhala limodzi, kuchitira limodzi zachikondi sikungolimbitsa chibwenzi chanu komanso kumakupatsani kuyandikira.
Kulumikizana pakati pa anthu awiri okondana ndikolimba kuposa mayesero aliwonse.
Kukhala wachikondi kumayambitsanso chikondi chomwe mumakondana. Zimabweretsa kukumbukira zomwe mumakonda za munthuyo komanso kuchuluka kwa zomwe mungawachitire.
Malingaliro amadzulo achikondi
Malingaliro amadzulo achikondi ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zambiri zomwe mungasinthire wokondedwa wanu.
Chowonadi nchakuti, palibe chinsinsi pakukondana, muyenera kungochifuna ndipo ngakhale mutaganiza kuti ndinu achinyengo - mutha kukhala ndi malingaliro abwino okondana a mnzanu.
Nawa malingaliro osavuta koma achikondi kwa inu ndi mnzanu.
1. Pitani ku kanema woyendetsa
Maganizo achikondi madzulo sayenera kukhala okwera mtengo, zimangodabwitsanso ndikupanga pang'ono.
Mufunseni kuti akawonere kanema. Ichi ndichinthu chapadera makamaka makamaka mukakhala otanganidwa posachedwa. Maola ochepa okha akusangalala ndi kanema wabwino ndikotsitsimula kale.
2. Chakudya chamunda wam'munda
Ngati muli ndi bajeti, lembani chakudya chamadzulo kulesitilanti yapamwamba kapena pamalo omwe mungakhale nokha ndi wina ndi mnzake. Imeneyi ndi njira yabwino yobwezeretsanso mphindi zabwino ndikulankhula.
3. Usiku usambira
Ngati muli ndi dziwe lanu, lingakhale lingaliro labwino kukonzekera mowa wabwino, zokhwasula-khwasula, kusewera nyimbo, ndikusangalala ndikudikamo usiku.
Palibe chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zambiri kuti mukhale pachibwenzi, sichoncho?
4. Yendani paki
Ngati muli ndi paki pafupi ndi kwanu, mwina mutha kufunsa mnzanu kuti ayende nanu madzulo. Simuyenera kunena ndakatulo kapena kukhala ndakatulo zonse kuti mukhale achikondi. Kungosonyeza kumugwira dzanja uku mukuyenda ndikusangalala ndi kamphepo kayendedwe kale ndi chikondi.
Ngati muli ndi bajeti yolimba kapena muli ndi ana ndipo muyenera kukhala kunyumba, ndiye kuti madzulo achikondi awa kunyumba malingaliro atha kugwiranso ntchito zodabwitsa.
5. Sinthani chipinda chanu chogona
Bwezeretsani pulogalamu yanu yokondwerera ukwati kapena ingokhalani opanga monga kuwonjezera makandulo onunkhira, maluwa am'maluwa, ndi nyimbo zokoma kuwonjezera mumlengalenga.
Mungadabwe momwe angachitire ndi izi zokoma. Maganizo achikondi madzulo sangakhale opanda vinyo wabwino. Sangalalani usiku!
6. Chakudya chamakandulo
Kukonda kuphika? Zabwino! Kuphika chakudya chapadera, zimitsani magetsi ndikuikapo makandulo. Gulu la maluwa kapena chokoleti, mwina? Kapenanso, nyimbo zofewa komanso vinyo wabwino zimakhazikitsanso nyengo yakudya kunyumba.
7. Usiku wowopsa wama kanema
Ndimakonda kuwonera makanema koma osati mumtima kuti tizimuka?
Zimitsani magetsi, konzani mbuluuli ndi mowa ndikusewera makanema owopsa. Konzani bulangeti ndi mapilo ena. Nthawi yocheza ndi mnzanu ndipo mwina mungadabwe kuti izi zingakutsogolereni!
8. Kuvina kapena kuyimba
Nyimbo ndi gawo la ubale uliwonse.
Ngati mukufuna kupita kokondana pang'ono, mudabwitse mnzanu ndi nyimbo zomwe mumakonda. Fewetsani magetsi, sangalalani ndi serenade ndipo ngati mukumva? Gule! Musaganize kuti itha kukhala yokoma, yachilendo kapena yachikale.
Chikondi ndi zochita za chikondi sizidzatha.
Kukhala wachikondi sikutanthauza kuti muyenera kukhala waluso kwambiri kapena ndakatulo.
Ziyenera kukhala zoona komanso kuchokera pansi pamtima. Zizindikiro zosavuta ndizopangidwa kuchokera ku chikondi ndizokondana kale komanso zokongola. Ngati poyamba, mungaganize kuti ndizovuta, perekani nthawi.
Dziloleni nokha kuti musangalale ndi zomwe mukuchita ndipo muwona kuti mudzayamba kuyamikiranso.
Palibe chinthu chovuta ngati mukuchitira munthu amene mumamukonda, simukuvomereza? Kumbukirani kuti malingaliro achikondi samangokhala a maanja omwe amafunikira kuthandizidwa kuti ayambitsenso chikondi chawo koma ndi mabanja onse omwe akufuna kupatsanso owonjezera anzawo.