Zamkati
- Chitani zomwe mwakumana nazo
- Pezani zovuta
- Kambiranani zosowa za mnzanu
- Patsani mnzanu dzina lapadera
- Pangani nthawi yogonana
- Yesetsani kukhululuka ndi kuvomereza
- Khalani omvetsera abwino
- Chitani chinthu chapadera
- Dutsani zithunzi zakale limodzi
Kupeza chikondi, kuchita chinkhoswe, ndi kukwatiwa ndi zochitika zazikulu m'moyo. Gawo lirilonse limadzaza ndi chisangalalo, nthawi zabwino, ndipo zachidziwikire, zokumbukira zakukondana.
Komabe, chimachitika ndi chiyani pambuyo pa banja? Moyo ndi nkhawa zake zitha kutha pang'onopang'ono chikondi chokwatirana ndikusiya okwatirana aliwonse akudzifunsa ngati amakondanadi.
Potsirizira pake, chibwenzi chawo chitasokonekera okwanira okwatirana amasiya kulingalira zakukondana atakwatirana. Koma kodi kudziwa 'momwe ungapangire mnzako kuti akukondenso' kapena 'momwe mungapezenso chikondi mbanja‘Zoona kuvuta kumeneku?
Ulendo wonse wakugwera munthu ndi wosaiwalika ndipo ngakhale anthu ambiri amakhulupirira, sikumatha mukangoyenda pamsewu. Kugwa mchikondi mutakwatirana - mobwerezabwereza, ndizotheka ndi upangiri waubwenzi pang'ono.
Umu ndi momwe mungayambirenso kukondana ndi mnzanu mutakwatirana:
Chitani zomwe mwakumana nazo
Chikondi pambuyo paukwati imafuna zatsopano nthawi ina. Njira yosavuta yowonjezerapo chikondi cha mwamuna ndi mkazi atakwatirana ndikuchita monga mwakumana nawo. Kumbukirani kuti kukudziwani kuti ndinu pachibwenzi? Bwererani kumalo amenewo.
Funsani mnzanu mafunso omwe mungafunse munthu amene muli naye pachibwenzi, pitani pazinthu zambiri, mumufunse chakudya chomwe amakonda, mumufunse kuti ndi maluwa ati omwe amakonda, ndipo sangalalani.
Kwa zaka zambiri, anthu amasintha ndikusintha kotero kumachita monga mwakumana nawo kumatha kukupatsani chidziwitso chatsopano pa mnzanu. Anthu ndi ovuta. Nthawi zonse pamakhala china chatsopano choti muphunzire.
Pezani zovuta
Kugwa mchikondi mutakwatirana, muyenera kusangalalanso ndi chikondi chatsopano ndi mnzanuyo, onetsetsani kuti mukugwiranagwirana pafupipafupi. Pomwe mudayamba kugwera mnzanu, mwayi wanu simungamuleke manja, sichoncho? Bwanji, siyani tsopano?
Chifukwa chake ngati mukuganiza kuti mukondaninso mkazi wanu kapena momwe mungayambirenso kukondana ndi mkazi wanu, yambani mwagwirana manja, kupaka mnzanu msana, kutikita minofu, kapena kumpsompsona. Anthu amafunikira kukhudzana ndi thupi kuti amve kukondedwa ndi kuyamikiridwa.
Kambiranani zosowa za mnzanu
Anthu awiri akangoyamba kukondana, amangokondana. Amachita zonse zotheka kusangalatsa wina ndi mnzake ndipo amakhala opatsa kwambiri. M'kupita kwa nthawi, khama limachepa koma sayenera.
Zachidziwikire kuti ntchito, ana, ndi zina pamoyo zitha kulowa panjira koma kuti muwone zabwino zonse za kugweranso kwa mnzanu, akonze zofuna zake ndi zosowa zake.
Kuti muchite izi, onetsetsani kuti wokondedwa wanu akumva bwino, ayamikire zomwe akwaniritsa, ndipo chitani zomwe mungathe kuti tsiku lawo likhale lowala pang'ono. Izi zimamasuliranso kuchipinda. Kumbukirani, okwatirana okwatirana ndi okwatirana osangalala!
Patsani mnzanu dzina lapadera
Bweretsani zachikondi poyitanira mnzanuyo dzina lapadera ngati 'uchi' kapena 'maswiti'. Idzakutengerani ku masiku anu abwenzi pomwe mudali okondana. Osangotchula mnzanuyo ndi 'hei' kapena 'mverani'.
Khalani achikondi nthawi iliyonse mukaitana wina wofunikira. Adzazindikira kuti adzakondwera ndikulankhula kwanu.
Zitha kuwoneka ngati zochulukirapo kapena zochititsa manyazi nthawi zina, koma zochita zosafunikira zoterezi zimasilira utali womwe mungapite kuti musangalatse mnzanu. Inde, ndi manja ochepa chabe, koma nthawi zambiri ndizinthu zazing'ono kwambiri kotero kuti palibe amene amaganiza chilichonse, zomwe zimapangitsa zinthu zomwe palibe amene angaganize.
Pangani nthawi yogonana
Kukonzekera nthawi yogonana, monga usiku wamasana, ndikofunikira kwambiri. Yesani china chatsopano, kapena chitani Loweruka madzulo kapena patsiku lokhazikika la sabata ndikungolowa m'madzi ake m'mawa. Chilichonse chomwe chimakusangalatsani nonse, koma onetsetsani kuti mukugonana patsogolo.
Ngati mukuwona kuti kukondana muukwati wanu kwadutsa pomwe simunabwezeretse, funani akatswiri. Kumanani ndi mlangizi wodziwika bwino pazakugonana komanso okondana, kapenanso mlangizi wazokwatirana.
Kuchita izi kudzakuthandizani phunzirani momwe mungapangire kukulitsa kukondana komanso konzani zina zilizonse zomwe zingasokoneze chibwenzi chanu.
Yesetsani kukhululuka ndi kuvomereza
Kukhululuka kumachepetsa kupsinjika ndipo kumasintha kukhumudwa ndikubweretsa zabwino. Kumbukirani izi ndikuvomera mnzanu momwe alili. Izi zikutanthauzanso kulola zinthu zazing'ono kuti zizipita ndikuziyamikira momwe mungathere.
Khalidwe lotere limakhazikitsa malo abwino okhala ndiubwenzi wabwino ndikuwonetsetsa kuti onse awiri akusamalirana ndikukondana.
Khalani omvetsera abwino
Mungachite bwanji zina kugwilizananso ndi mnzanuyo, mukudabwa? Mwa kungowamvera! Apatseni mwayi wokutsegulirani mitima yawo, aloleni kuti anene zomwe akufuna kugawana nanu ndipo muwona chiwopsezo chakukula kwa banja lanu.
Kukhala womvera wabwino kumatanthauzanso kusawapatsa upangiri wosapempha. Nthawi zina, abwenzi amangofuna theka lawo kuti liwamvere. Kumbukirani, ingopatsani upangiri akaupempha.
Chitani chinthu chapadera
Chitani china chapadera kwa akazi anu kapena amuna anu chomwe chimawauza momwe mumamvera. Kungakhale kuphika keke kwa amuna anu kapena kugula chovala chokongola chomwe akazi anu akhala akuyang'ana kuyambira mwezi watha.
Sichiyenera kukhala china chilichonse chopitilira muyeso - zimangofunika kuwasonyeza kuti mumasamala za momwe akumvera komanso kuti chisangalalo chawo ndi chofunikira kwa inu. Zochita zazing'ono zimatha kupita kutali.
Dutsani zithunzi zakale limodzi
Amayi, izi zidzakupangitsani kukondana ndi amuna anu mobwerezabwereza. Ditto kwa ma gents! Kumbutsani masiku akale powonera zithunzi zanu limodzi.
Kupita pamzere wokumbukira kungakuthandizeni kulumikiza kachiwiri m'njira zomwe simungaganizire. Pezani kanthawi kochepa kapena chitani izi tsiku lanu lotsatira usiku!