Zamkati
- Momwe kulumikizana kwa alongo ndi abale kumasiyana ndi ena onse
- Momwe ubale ndi mlongo umapangira omwe tidzakhale akuluakulu
- Kudziwika, maubale, ndi kuphatikana
- Kwa makolo - momwe mungalimbikitsire abale anu kuti azimvana
Chikondi cha abale ndi mtundu weniweni wa ubale. Nthawi zina, abale ndi alongo amakhala bwino monga amphaka ndi agalu amachitira. Koma, mosasamala kanthu za ndewu zambiri ndi mikangano yomwe abale ndi alongo amadutsamo akamakula, chomangira cha abale sichingathetse.
Maubwenzi apachibale ndiosiyanasiyana komanso ochulukirapo monga njira ina iliyonse yolumikizirana ndi anthu. Koma, maubale onse pakati pa abale ndi alongo amafanana ndikuti amatiphunzitsa momwe tingakondere ndikuperekera, posatengera zofuna zathu, komanso kusagwirizana.
Momwe kulumikizana kwa alongo ndi abale kumasiyana ndi ena onse
Palibe banja lofanana ndendende. Pankhani ya abale, pali zophatikiza zambiri, kutengera kusiyana kwa msinkhu, jenda, kuchuluka kwa ana, malo okhala.
Ndipo, palinso malingaliro ambiri amomwe abalewo amalumikizirana. Komabe, maubale pakati pa mchimwene ndi mlongo nthawi zonse amasiyana ndi omwe ali ndi makolo kapena achikulire ena.
Mwamaganizidwe, ana amakhala pafupi nthawi zonse, ngakhale atakhala ndi zaka zambiri. Izi zikuwonekera, mwachitsanzo, mphwayi pakati pa ana osakwatiwa ndi iwo omwe anakulira ndi abale.
Pamene ana akukula limodzi, amakhala ndi ubale weniweni womwe umapangidwa wokha, wopanda chitsogozo chazikulu. Mwanjira ina, kufunikira kwa ubale wapachibale ndikuti ana amakula odziyimira pawokha pamacheza awo kudzera mu ubale wawo ndi abale awo.
Momwe ubale ndi mlongo umapangira omwe tidzakhale akuluakulu
Ubale ndi chikondi pakati pa abale ndi abale, mwanjira ina, ndi gawo lophunzitsira ubale wathu wamtsogolo ndi anzathu.
Ngakhale ubale wathu ndi makolo athu umakhudza mikhalidwe yathu yambiri, mwinanso zovuta zomwe tidzakumana nazo tikadzakula, mayanjano ndi abale ndi alongo athu amawonetsa zomwe tidzachita mtsogolo. Njira imodzi yoziwonera ndi kudzera mu makina amasewera omwe tonse timasewera, malinga ndi sukulu ina yama psychology.
Mwachitsanzo, ngati abale ndi alongo akupirira zovuta limodzi ali ana, chomangira chawo sichingasweke, koma onse awiri atha kukhala olimba mtima omwe angawapangitse kukhala Owona monga aliyense payekhapayekha. Kapenanso, ngati m'bale wachikulire amasamalira aang'ono, akhoza kukhala ndi gawo la moyo wa Wosamalira.
Kudziwika, maubale, ndi kuphatikana
Chifukwa chake, ngati tikufuna kufotokozera mwachidule m'bale chikondi tanthauzo kwa ana ndi akulu, imatha kuwonedwa m'njira zitatu zazikulu. Choyamba ndi nkhani yodziwikitsa.
Pakati pa makolo ndi abwenzi amtsogolo, abale ndi ana ndiwoofunikira kwambiri pakupanga dzina la mwana.Ngakhale ubalewo uli wotani, mwana amafotokozera makamaka mikhalidwe yake poyerekeza ndi mchimwene wake.
Chikondi cha abale ndiyotsogola momwe timalumikizirana ndi ena, mwachitsanzo pamaubwenzi athu amtsogolo. Timaphunzira kuchokera kwa abale athu momwe zosowa zathu ndi zokhumba zathu zimagwirizanirana ndikutsutsana.
Timaphunzira momwe tingayendetsere pakati pazinthu zosiyanasiyana zomwe nthawi zonse zimakhala zofunikira paubwenzi, kaya ndi mchimwene wanu, ndi bwana wathu, kapena mnzathu mtsogolo.
Pomaliza, mosasamala kanthu zakulumikizana ndi makolo, ana omwe ali ndi abale ndi alongo nthawi zonse amakhala ndi mwayi wolumikizana ndi abale ndi alongo awo.
Amathandizanso kuti mwana asadziphatike kwa makolo ake, mwachitsanzo, monga kholo lidzagawa chidwi chawo kwa ana onse. Mwachidule, chikondi cha m'bale ndi njira yopita kumgwirizano wathanzi.
Kwa makolo - momwe mungalimbikitsire abale anu kuti azimvana
Achibale akhoza kukhala abwenzi kapena adani. Tsoka ilo, pali chidani chochuluka cha abale ngati momwe mumakondera abale. Komabe, ngakhale ana anu sakugwirizana konse, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa udindo wa makolo pothandiza abale awo kuti azikhala bwino.
Ndiwe amene ungathe ndipo uyenera kuyang'anira njira yachilengedwe kuti uwonetsetse phindu lalikulu kwa ana anu.
Pali njira ziwiri zothandizira ndi kulimbikitsa chikondi cha abale. Choyamba ndikutsimikizira mfundo zoyambira zomwe mumafuna kuti ana anu azitsatira. Poterepa, lingalirani za kukoma mtima, kumvera ena chisoni, kudzikonda, ndi kuthandizira.
Izi ndi zomwe zingaphunzitse ana anu kuti azikhala bwino ndikuthandizana wina ndi mzake osati paubwana wokha komanso akakula.
Palinso zochitika zambiri zolumikizana ndi abale kunja uko. Ganizirani zamasewera aliwonse komanso masewera ngati njira yolimbikitsira chikondi cha abale.
Apangeni kuti azigwirira ntchito limodzi, apangireni masewera omwe angawathandize kuti azigawana zakukhosi kwawo, athandizeni kuti awone dziko lapansi kuchokera kwa m'bale wawo kudzera pakusintha maudindo.
Pali zosankha zambiri, fufuzani zomwe zikugwirizana ndi zizolowezi za banja lanu, ndikuthandizani ana anu kukhazikitsa ubale womwe ungakhale moyo wawo wonse.