Zamkati
- Wosewerayo amasewera
- Kupusitsa
- Chikhalidwe chosatetezeka
- Kodi nchifukwa ninji anthu amadziphatika okha ku narcissists obisika?
Tonsefe pamlingo winawake timakulungidwa tokha. Tonsefe nthawi zina timakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi zowawa zathu mwakuti timanyalanyaza ena. Ndipo ameneyo ndi munthu chabe wa inu.
Komabe, narcissists obisalira ndi anthu omwe amadzimva ngati kuti amakuzunzidwa nthawi zonse. Adzakupangitsani kuwamvera chisoni. Awa ndi mtundu wovuta kwambiri wama narcissist kuti muwone chifukwa sizili ngati chithunzi chachizolowezi cha narcissist chomwe mumaganizira. Simudzawapeza kuti ali otanganidwa kwambiri. Komanso, mudzawamvera chisoni. Mwinanso mutha kudzipeza nokha mwanjira inayake chifukwa cha iwo. Ndipo ndiye dongosolo lawo lonse lamasewera.
Umo ndi momwe anthu awa amapezerera owazunza.
Wosewerayo amasewera
Mudzawona chinthu chimodzi chodziwika bwino mwa narcissists obisalira ndipo ndikuti adakumana nazo zokumana nazo zoyipa. Chibwenzi chilichonse ,ubwenzi uliwonse umatha kwa iwo ndipo nthawi zonse kumakhala kulakwitsa kwa anzawo.
Anthu awa apereka nkhani zosinthidwa mosamala kwambiri zam'mbuyomu momwe amapangidwira nthawi zonse.
Ndizomveka kufunsa, zingatheke bwanji kuti munthu aliyense kunja uko wakuchitirani zoyipa popanda kuyambitsa yankho lanu kapena mwanjira ina yake. Ndipokhapokha mukamayankhula ndi anthu omwe adakhalapo kapena omwe ali pachibwenzi ndi wobisalira pomwe mudzazindikira kuzizira komanso kuzunza anthuwa.
Siwozunzidwadi, koma ndiabwino kukutsimikizirani kuti ali!
Kupusitsa
Ndiwo abwino kwambiri pakuwongolera. Adzagwiritsa ntchito kumvera chisoni kwanu ngati chida chotsutsana nanu. Kawirikawiri zimawoneka kuti anthu omwe ali pachibwenzi ndi obisalira obisalira nthawi zambiri amakhala anthu omwe amamvera chisoni kwambiri.
Amatengeka ndi nkhani za akazi achiwerewere ozunza anzawo, makolo achiwawa komanso wina aliyense wabodza wobisalira amawadyetsa.
Ma covert narcissists amakonda kupanga chotchinga pakati pa zenizeni ndi mabodza omwe amadyetsa anthu.
Sakulolani kuti muwone mopitilira izi chifukwa iwowo amakhala ndi moyo wazowona zawo. Adzakwiya ngati mungafunse zowona za nkhani zawo kapena ngati muwapangitsa kuti awone zolakwa zawo.
Mukatero, zimakupangitsani kumva chisoni mukawatchula kapena osawamvetsa.
Chikhalidwe chosatetezeka
Covert Narcissists amakhala osatetezeka kwambiri.
Amangokhalira kupikisana ndi aliyense pamawonekedwe, pakuchita bwino kwachuma etc. Mudzawagwira kupeza chitonthozo polephera kwa wina kapena kufuna kutonthozedwa poyika ena pansi. Mudzawapeza akuyerekezera kupwetekedwa kwawo ndi zoopsa za anthu ena kapena zoopsa zanu ndipo palibe chomwe chimayandikira gehena yomwe adakumana nayo.
Kuphatikiza apo, nthawi zonse amakhala ndi winawake yemwe amamuimba mlandu polephera kwawo. Sadzavomereza zolakwa zawo kapena zosankha zawo zoipa. Nthawi zonse azidzadzudzula anthu m'moyo wawo kapena kusowa kwawo kwa zinthu.
Izi zimapangitsa kupezeka kwawo komanso kuyanjana nawo kukhala koopsa kwambiri. Popeza sangakhale achimwemwe pazomwe mwakwaniritsa ndipo atha kukupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu osangalala pomwe ali achisoni kwambiri.
Kodi nchifukwa ninji anthu amadziphatika okha ku narcissists obisika?
Yankho la funso ili ndi lovuta kwambiri. Nkhaniyi siyakuda kapena yoyera koma imvi. Anthu amakopeka ndi anthu ochita zachiwerewere chifukwa poyamba amawoneka ngati anthu abwino omwe akukumana ndi nthawi yovuta. Adzakusokeretsani ndi nkhani zawo zopanda pake ndikukweza malingaliro anu.
Mungamve kukhala ndi udindo chifukwa cha iwo chifukwa narcissists obisala adzakupangitsani kuti mukhulupirire kuti ndinu okhawo abwino pamoyo wawo.
Zitha kutenga nthawi yayitali kuti muzindikire momwe kusokonekera kwamalingaliro kungasokonezere ubale ndi wobisalira. Anthu awa ali ngati achifundo, amayamwa chisangalalo kuchokera mwa iwe. Nthawi zambiri, anthu amakhala omangika chifukwa chowamvera.
Komabe, posakhalitsa amawapeza kuti amachitira nkhanza kapena amatha kumangokhala chifukwa amamva kuti angathandize munthu wobisalira. Ngakhale nthawi iliyonse mukayesa kuwonetsa cholakwika chomwe akukupangitsani mumadzipeza nokha akuimbidwa mlandu wosamvetsetsa kupweteka kwawo.
Chibwenzi kapena ubwenzi ndi wobisalira amatha kukhala wotopetsa m'maganizo ndi mwathupi.
Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kudziwa momwe anthuwa amakhalira. Ndipo ngati mungamvetsere pazizindikirozi mutha kupulumutsidwa ku nkhanza zazaka zambiri.