Zamkati
Kusudzulana ndi njira yovuta kupilira. Kaya zidagwirizana kapena simunasankhidwepo, ndizopweteka, zosasangalatsa komanso chochitika chonyansa. Pali, komabe, moyo pambuyo pa chisudzulo. Monga kusintha kulikonse kwakukulu m'moyo wamunthu, chisudzulo chimatha kusintha malingaliro anu pamoyo wanu komanso kufunitsitsa kwanu kukhala wopatsa chidwi ndikupeza magawo ozama a omwe muli. Izi zitha kubwera m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Mungasankhe kupita kumalo omwe simunapiteko, kuyesa zinthu zomwe simunachitepo, kapena kufufuza magulu atsopano a anthu omwe mungalumikizane nawo kwambiri. Ngati mwasankha kuyambiranso ulendo wokapeza chikondi ndi kucheza nawo, ganizirani mafunso otsatirawa.
Kodi ndachira m'maganizo?
Kaya chisudzulo chanu chidachitika chifukwa cha kusakhulupirika, zikuwoneka kuti mudakumana ndi zopweteketsa mtima komanso kupwetekedwa muubale panthawi yopatukana. Tengani nthawi yoti muzidziyang'anira nokha ndikufufuza malo omwe ululuwo umachokera. Anthu ambiri amasankha kuchita upangiri wosudzulana kapena magulu othandizira; Zonsezi kapena zonsezi zitha kuthandiza munthu kuzindikira kuzama kwa zopweteketsa komanso zopweteka zomwe adakumana nazo ndipo zitha kupereka malingaliro osiyanasiyana. Ngakhale zitha kumveka poyamba kuti kupweteka sikudzatha, ndikulimbikitsidwa koyenera ndikutsata chikhululukiro ndi machiritso, mutha kudabwitsidwa ndi momwe mumakwanitsira kunyamula moyo wanu ndikusunthira patsogolo.
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Kodi ndapatula nthawi pandekha?
Musanapite kumalo ofunafuna kukondedwa ndi ena, ganizirani izi. Kodi mwadzipatsa nthawi yokwanira kuti muchiritse ndikufufuza zomwe mukufuna paulendo wanu? Kodi mwakhala ndi nthawi yodzikongoletsa komanso kudziwononga nokha, nthawi yakukhalanso ndi mpumulo? Ganizirani zosowa zanu - ngakhale izi zitha kumveka ngati zadyera, zimafuna anthu awiri kuti apange ubale wokhalitsa komanso wachimwemwe. Ngati munthu m'modzi samadalira wina kuti akwaniritse izi, ubale uliwonse ungakhale wovuta komanso wovuta. Tengani nthawi kuti mudzisonkhanitsenso musanayesetse kukonda. Mudzapeza kukhala kosavuta kuyanjana ndi anthu amalingaliro ngati malingaliro anu ndi mtima wanu zili zathanzi.
Kodi ndine wokonzekadi?
Kodi kuchita chibwenzi ndi munthu wina pakadali pano ndi zomwe mukufunitsitsadi? Kodi mukuyang'ana china chake chanthawi yayitali kapena kukonza mwachangu kuti mukhale okhutira kwakanthawi? Ngakhale awa atha kuwoneka ngati mafunso opanda pake koma ndiofunikira kudzifunsa. Chibwenzi chimatanthauza kutsegula mtima wanu ndi malingaliro anu kwa munthu wina, mwina ngakhale angapo! Kukhala wokonzeka kuchita zibwenzi sikubwera ndi sitampu kapena chidindo chovomerezeka. Ndi chisankho chomwe muyenera kungopanga. Ndiwe nokha amene mumadziwa kuti mudzakhala wokonzeka kulolera munthu wina kukhala wachikondi. Ngati nthawiyo tsopano, ndiye pitani! Musaope kuchita zoopsa kapena kukhala achangu. Ndipo kaya mwakonzeka pompano kapena ayi, onetsetsani kuti muli ndi mndandanda wazikhalidwe zomwe mukufuna. Musataye nthawi kwa iwo omwe sakugwirizana ndi zikhumbo zanu zazikulu kwambiri. Osakhazikika "zabwino" mukamafuna "zokoma". Dzidziweni nokha ndi zosowa zanu musanatsate wina.
Koposa zonse, dziwani zenizeni zenizeni. Palibe nthawi yabwino yoyambiranso chibwenzi. Ndipo ngakhale mutha kuuzidwa, sikuchedwa kwambiri kapena kuchedwa. Nthawi ndiyanu kuti musankhe. Khalani ndi mtima wanu ndi malingaliro anu pamalo oyenera, ndipo simungathe kusokonekera! Pakhoza kukhala zovuta zingapo zomwe zikuyembekezeredwa panjira, koma ngati mungakhalebe wokhulupirika kwa inu nokha, palibe bampu wokulirapo oti mungathane nawo. Kukhala pachibwenzi sikungakhale koyenera, koma funsani chilimbikitso cha omwe amakudziwani bwino. Funsani nzeru zawo (osati malingaliro awo!), Ndipo phunzirani kumveranso zachibadwa zanu panonso. Ukwati womwe udatha suyenera kukhala moyo wopita patsogolo - ndi nthawi yosangalala komanso kusangalala ndi chikondi chatsopano chomwe umadzipangira komanso kufunika kwako!
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