Zamkati
- Ndi pakusintha kwathu
- Ndiotukuka kwambiri komanso odziwa zambiri
- Palibe mpikisano
- Kukhala pachibwenzi ndi bambo wachikulire kumakhalanso ndi zovuta zake
Ndizodziwika bwino kuti amuna amakonda kukwatira akazi ocheperako. Nthawi zambiri, anthu ambiri samayankha paubwenzi pomwe zaka zapakati pa awiriwa zimakhala mpaka zaka 10-12, koma pakakhala kusiyana kwa zaka zopitilira 20, ndipo mwamunayo ali pafupi ndi makolo a mnzake, malingaliro atha kuyamba kusunthira kutsutsa mwamphamvu m'malo mwake. Koma kwenikweni, chifukwa chiyani akazi amakonda amuna achikulire?
Sizachilendo kuwona kumaanja akumadzulo omwe ali ndi zaka zambiri pakati pawo. Oposa 8% a mabanja ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ali ndi zaka zosachepera 10, ndipo mwamunayo ndi wokalamba pachibwenzi. Pakafukufuku omwe Justin J. Lehmiller ndi Christopher R. Agnew adachita, zidapezeka kuti mwa 1% yokha mwa mabanja omwe mayiyo adayanjana ndi mnzawo wachichepere.
Ndi pakusintha kwathu
Chifukwa chomwe nthawi zina kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa abwenzi kumayambira mu biology yosinthika. Kukhala ndi thanzi labwino pakati pa abambo ndi gawo lofunikira pakusintha kwathu, ndipo izi zitha kufotokozera chodabwitsa cha kusiyana kwakukulu kwa msinkhu pakati pa abwenzi.
Amuna amakonda kukhala athanzi komanso osangalatsa, unyamata kukhala chisonyezero cha kubereka.
Komanso, amuna amakonda kuchita nawo akazi omwe ndi ocheperako chifukwa cha chiyembekezo chambiri chazakudya, ndipo amathanso kukhala achonde kwa nthawi yayitali kuposa momwe akazi amakhalira. Izi, kuphatikiza kuti amuna achikulire apeza zofunikira pazaka zambiri komanso zokumana nazo, ndichofunikira kwambiri chifukwa chomwe akazi amakondera kwambiri.
Amayi amagwirizananso ndi amuna okalamba kwambiri kuposa iwo chifukwa amaika patsogolo kwambiri chikhalidwe chawo komanso zinthu zomwe angathe kupereka.
Amayi amakonda kuyang'ana kwa anzawo omwe ali ndi njira zofunikira zowapezera chitetezo kwakanthawi. Mwamuna wamkulu ndi wamkulu, ndizotheka kuti adapeza chuma chochulukirapo komanso mphamvu pazaka zambiri. Izi zikutanthauza kukhazikika, komanso kuti okalamba amuna azikundikira mphatso, nthawi zambiri zachuma, kwa wokondedwa wawo. Mphamvu zake komanso kudzidalira kwake kumakulanso pamene akuwonetsa mnzake wachinyamata pagulu.
Ndiotukuka kwambiri komanso odziwa zambiri
Osangokhala mavinyo amangokulira msinkhu, komanso amuna. Amayi amakonda kufunafuna anzawo odziwa bwino kuposa iwo, odziwa zambiri pamoyo wawo, komanso omwe amatha kuthana ndi mayendedwe akakhala pagulu.
Akuluakulu anali ndi nthawi yodziwa dziko lapansi. Amadziwa kusangalatsa mkazi komanso zomwe zimamupangitsa kuti azisilira mkati mwake.
Mosiyana ndi anyamata achichepere, omwe sanakumanepo ndi zokumana nazo zambiri m'moyo wawo ndipo akufuna kufufuza zambiri, amuna achikulire amakhala okonzeka ndipo amatha kuchita zambiri ndikumvetsetsa anzawo anzawo.
Palibe mpikisano
Amayi omwe amakhala ndi amuna achikulire ali ndi chitsimikizo chakuti sadzawataya konse. Amuna achikulire amakhazikika pamalingaliro ndipo amakhala okonda ntchito.
Alibe nthawi kapena kulakalaka kufunafuna ubale wina ndi akazi ena, chifukwa amadziwa zomwe akufuna kuyambira pachiyambi. Moyo wawo wokonda kuphunzira wapita, ndipo amakonda kukhala ndi malo okhala. Amafuna kukhala m'nyumba yabwino limodzi ndi akazi awo. Sakusangalatsanso kusewera masewera chifukwa awona zambiri m'miyoyo yawo.
Amayi omwe amakhala ndi anyamata achichepere nthawi zambiri amatha kunyengedwa ndi anzawo. Ndi amuna achikulire, iyi si vuto, chifukwa amadziwa zomwe akufuna: kukhazikika, mtendere, ndiukwati.
Kukhala pachibwenzi ndi bambo wachikulire kumakhalanso ndi zovuta zake
Monga ziliri ndi chilichonse m'moyo, amayi omwe amakhala pachibwenzi ndi amuna akulu nawonso atha kukumana ndi zovuta zina ndi ubale wawo ndi iwo. Kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa abwenzi (zaka zopitilira khumi) kungapangitse kuti kugawana zikhalidwe kumaoneka ngati kovuta, komanso kumatha kuyambitsa kusamvana pakati pa awiriwa pagulu. Komanso, mwayi ndiwoti mwamuna wachikulire awonetse kufunikira kwake kwa mphamvu ndi kuwongolera mnzake, ndikungomuwona mkazi wakeyo ngati mphotho, osati wokondedwa.