Zamkati
- 1. Muzicheza
- 2. Pezani makeover
- 3. Muzipeza nthawi yocheza ndi inu nokha
- 4. Osazengereza
- Mwachitsanzo -
- 5. Gwiritsani ntchito malangizowo
- 6. Kusamala
Kukhala mayi wopanda mayi kungakhale kovuta kwambiri. Pogwiritsa ntchito gawo ili, nthawi zina ambiri amakhala osadzikonda mpaka kufika poti sangadzamverenso kudzakhalanso ndi chibwenzi kapena kudzakondanso.
Izi siziyenera kukhala choncho.
Pali maupangiri abwinobwino azibwenzi kwa amayi osakwatira omwe angawathandize kupeza wina yemwe angaganize zoyamba moyo wawo. Pambuyo pake, kukhala ndi wina woti azigawana nawo zomwe munakumana nazo polera mwana wanu kungakhale kosangalatsa.
Nawa ena mwa malangizo aubwenzi kwa amayi osakwatira kuti apezenso chikondi.
Njira zopangira chibwenzi ngati mayi wopanda kholo
1. Muzicheza
Gawo loyamba kubwerera kudziko la zibwenzi ndikumana ndi anthu atsopano komanso kucheza ndi anthu atsopano. Kukhala pachibwenzi cha mayi m'modzi ndikosiyana kwambiri ndi chibwenzi mudali osakwatira.
Muyenera kumvetsetsa bwino pamene mwana akutenga nawo mbali. Chifukwa chake, Kuyanjana ndi anthu ndikuwamvetsetsa kumatha kukhala kuyambitsa koyamba komwe kumafunika kuti mukhale pachibwenzi choyenera.
Kupanga anzanu atsopano kumakuthandizani kuti moyo wanu wachikhalidwe mukhale wamoyo komanso wachangu. Izi ndizofunikira kwambiri kuti muchepetse zovuta zomwe simukuzifuna ndikuthandizani ndi thanzi lanu lamisala.
2. Pezani makeover
Chimodzi mwazinthu zazikulu zomwe amayi amakumana nawo akayambiranso chibwenzi ndikuti zimawavuta kukhalanso ndi chidaliro. Pitani mukadzipezere nokha kopanga zatsopano.
Yambani kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi pafupipafupi ndikusintha kuti mukhale ndi thanzi labwino.
Izi zibweretsa kusintha kwabwino mthupi lanu ndikupangitsani kuti mukhale okongola.
Yesani masitayilo atsopano ndikufufuza momwe mumakhudzira mafashoni.
Makeover ikuthandizani kumva ngati munthu watsopano, ndipo mudzayambanso kudzidalira.
3. Muzipeza nthawi yocheza ndi inu nokha
Kodi mayi wosakwatiwa angathe kupezanso chikondi? Yankho ndi Inde!
Zimamveka kuti pali maudindo ambiri omwe amabwera ndi mwana. Amayi osakwatira nthawi zambiri zimawavuta kuti azipatula nthawi yocheza nawo kapena kucheza ndi munthu amene amamuwona.
Koma, izi zitha kuwononga ubale wanu womwe wangoyamba kumene. Gwiritsani ntchito mwayi ndikupindula kwambiri ndi nthawi yopuma.
Khalani ndi munthu wapafupi kwambiri, monga abale kapena abwenzi apamtima oti azisamalira mwana wanu kamodzi kanthawi. Gwiritsani ntchito nthawi ino kuti mupite kukacheza ndi wokondedwa wanu.
Kupeza nthawi yocheza ndikofunikira muubwenzi uliwonse.
Chifukwa chake, musayese kugwiritsa ntchito mwana wanu ngati chowiringula. Izi sizingakhale zathanzi ngati mukufuna chibwenzi chanthawi yayitali. Simuyenera kuthera maola ndi maola ambiri mutuluka. Ngakhale mutapeza maola angapo aulere, yesetsani kupindula nazo.
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwamalangizo abwino kwambiri azibwenzi kwa amayi osakwatira.
4. Osazengereza
Chimodzi mwamalangizo ofunikira kwa amayi osakwatira omwe akufuna chikondi ndipo, osazengereza.
Nthawi zina zimamveka zachilendo kuchita zinthu mopupuluma pambuyo pokhala ndi mwana. Kukhala wodalirika ndikofunikira, koma nthawi yomweyo, simuyenera kuzengereza zinthu zomwe zimakusangalatsani.
Mwachitsanzo -
Ngati mukumva ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi chibwenzi ndi munthu wina, mutha kuchita izi nthawi zonse.
Onetsetsani kuti mwana wanu amasamalidwa mukakhala kunja ndikupanga zomwe mumachita.
Kudziletsa pazinthu sizingasokoneze ubale wanu.
Pitirizani kuthetheka, zivute zitani. Yesani ndikupeza chisangalalo mkati mwanu musanayifunire kunja.
5. Gwiritsani ntchito malangizowo
Palibe cholakwika kufunsa upangiri kuchokera kwa anthu odziwa zambiri. Mutha kukumana ndi amayi ena osakwatiwa monga inu panokha kapena kudzera m'mafamu osiyanasiyana paintaneti.
Kuyankhula ndi anthu omwe ali ndi zokonda zofananira komanso mavuto ofanana kungakuthandizeni kupeza yankho. Izi zitha kupindulitsa onse awiri.
Kugawana zomwe mwakumana nazo kumatha kukuthandizani kupeza zabwino kwa inu.
6. Kusamala
Komabe maupangiri ena azibwenzi kwa amayi osakwatira ndikuyesa kusamala
Ndizosapeweka kuti mukakhala mayi, mwana wanu ndiye wofunika kwambiri. Koma simufunikira kuti nthawi zonse muziwonera ana anu ali pachibwenzi.
M'kupita kwanthawi, mufunika wina amene angavomereze ndi kukonda mwana wanu.
Koma muyenera kukhala ndi mwana wanu nthawi iliyonse inu ndi mwamuna wanu mutuluka, makamaka, pachiyambi cha chibwenzi. Ngati muli ndi mwana wanu nthawi zonse, mwina sangakupatseni malo okwanira, omwe ndiofunika kwa banja.
Chikondi chimatha kuchitika kwa aliyense nthawi ina iliyonse.
Simuyenera kuzibweza mukamagogoda pakhomo panu. Pali zotheka kuti amayi osakwatira amakumana ndi chikondi cha moyo wawo mtsogolo.
Ngati mupeza munthu woyenera yemwe amakupangitsani kukhala osangalala, ndiye kuti ndi chizindikiro chobiriwira.