Zamkati
- Kodi mungalongosole motani banja lanu?
- Kukonzekera ukwati wanu kumamveka kopusa, koma kungakhale kothandiza kwambiri
- Kuti banja lanu likhale lolimba komanso lolimba pamafunika kuchita khama kwambiri
Zifukwa zokwatirana ndizofanana ndi zifukwa zomangira chisa-chitetezo ndi chithandizo; ndipo ngati chisa, banja limangokhala logwira mtima momwe mungapangire. Zisa zina ndizophweka pansi pomwe zina ndi zojambulajambula zomwe zimateteza ndikuteteza. Momwemonso, maukwati ena ndi mapangano osavuta pomwe ena amachita mgwirizano wokhala ndi chikondi, ubwenzi komanso mgwirizano.
Kodi mungalongosole motani banja lanu?
Chofunika kwambiri, mukufuna banja liti? Ndipo chofunikira kwambiri, kodi ndinu ofunitsitsa kuchita chiyani kuti mukhale ndi banja lomwe mukufuna? Ngati ukwati wanu ndi umodzi wokhala ndi nthambi zolimba, masamba ndi nthenga; ngati muli ndi banja lolimba, lachikondi ndi lovomerezeka, pitirizani kuchita zomwe mukuchita.
Ngati, kumbali inayo, mukufuna kulimbitsa chisa chanu chachikondi, yambani kuyang'ana pa icho. Mutha kuwona nthambi ngati zochita ndi zochita- kudalirika ndi kuthandizira ndizofunikira kwambiri pamtunduwu; kusunga ndalama mosasinthasintha, kusamalira nyumba, galimoto, ana ndi ziweto. Masamba atha kuwonedwa ngati tsiku labwino tsiku ndi tsiku, ubale komanso kukoma mtima-kunena chonde, zikomo, pepani, ukunena zowona, bweretsani mnzanu chakumwa kapena chakumwa, kumwetulirana, kudya ndi kugona limodzi , kuyamikirana ndi kulimbikitsana, kupsompsonana pang'ono kapena kugwirana manja. Ndipo nthenga zitha kuwonedwa ngati chitetezo chothandizira chomwe chimasiyanitsa ukwati wanu kupatula ubale wina uliwonse m'moyo wanu, malo anu otetezeka otetezedwa padziko lonse lapansi - kotero kukupsopsonani kwanthawi yayitali kuposa masekondi 15, kukumbatirana komwe kumakugwirani pamene mukumva ngati mukugonana, kugonana, masiku, kugawana maakaunti akubanki, maloto ogawana, kugawana nawo limodzi, kupita nawo limodzi patchuthi, nkhawa zomwe mudagawana nawo, zisangalalo zomwe mudagawana, zopweteka zomwe mukugawana, kutaya nawo limodzi, zikondwerero zomwe mumagawana komanso kugawana nawo zochitika ... Nthawi yochuluka imagwiritsidwa ntchito kukonzekera ukwati ndipo nthawi zambiri sikokwanira kapena malingaliro amaperekedwa pokonzekera ukwatiwo.
Kukonzekera ukwati wanu kumamveka kopusa, koma kungakhale kothandiza kwambiri
Ganizirani za kuchuluka kwa nthawi ndi khama zomwe zimachitika pokonzekera ukwati. Tsopano ganizirani za nthawi yayitali bwanji kukambirana mabilu, mumagonana kangati, ndani amene azisamalira ana, ndani adzasamale agalu, tidzapita kukacheza nthawi zingati, tidzapitilira kangati tchuthi, tizikakhala kuti komanso kwa nthawi yayitali bwanji, tikufuna ana ndi angati, ndalama zolipirira sukulu, momwe timachitira ndi apongozi, nthawi yochuluka yomwe tiyenera kukhala ndi anzathu, zomwe sizingachitike ayi tikamamenya nkhondo ...? Mafunso onsewa, ndi enanso, akuyenera kuwunikidwa ndikuyankhidwa muukwati wonse pomwe inu ndi zomwe mumakonda zimasintha.
Banja lanu lili ngati chisa mwakuti limafunikira kukonza tsiku ndi tsiku kuti likuthandizireni ndikukutetezani inu ndi mnzanuyo ku zovuta za moyo-ntchito, ntchito, abwenzi, banja, ana ndi mipira yosiyanasiyana yomwe ingabwere.
Kuti banja lanu likhale lolimba komanso lolimba pamafunika kuchita khama kwambiri
Kukondana ndikofunikira monga kulipira ngongole. Kujambula nyumba ndikofunikira monga kupita patsiku. Kugwirana manja, kumwetulira, kukopana komanso kukhala mitundu ndi tchuthi chaching'ono ndi nthenga zomwe zimapangitsa kuti pakhale malo otetezeka, ofewa, omasuka komanso opumira. Chosankha chilichonse chomwe mungachite chimakhala nthambi, tsamba kapena nthenga zomwe zingalimbikitse banja lanu. Zosiyana ndizowona.
Ngati ndinu woipa, wokwiya, wokhumudwitsa, kapena wosasamala mudzakhala mukuwonjezera minga, miyala, manyowa kapena magalasi. Ndipo ngakhale nyama zina zimagwiritsa ntchito izi pomanga zisa zawo, ndili wokonzeka kukuwuzani kuti mukufuna china chosangalatsa komanso chosangalatsa. Osati kuti tonsefe tilibe nthawi yovuta, tili nayo. Lingaliro apa ndikuti mumathera nthawi yochuluka ndi mphamvu mukumanga banja lomwe mukufuna kukhala nalo kuti mukakhala ochepera, olimbikitsana komanso achikondi, pakhale dongosolo lolimba loti mubwererenso. Chifukwa chake, ngati mukuyesetsa kusamalira banja, mikangano ndi zovuta zidzakhala mphepo kapena mphepo yamkuntho, m'malo mwa mphepo yamkuntho kapena tsunami. Ukwati wabwino ungakhale wolimba, wothandizana komanso wachikondi momwe mungafunire kuti mupange banja. Chifukwa chake ndikufunsanso mafunso awa. Mukufuna ukwati wanji? Ndipo ndinu ofunitsitsa kuchita chiyani kuti mukhale nacho?