Zamkati
- Momwe mungachitire ndi apongozi opanda ulemu kapena owopsa
- 1 Khazikitsani malire anu pomwe adayamba
- 2. Muziganizira kwambiri zinthu zopindulitsa
- 3. Funsani mnzanu kuti akuthandizeni
- 4. Sungani mtunda wabwino
- 5. Pitani njira yamaluso
Ukwati, kwenikweni, suli ngati womwe umawonetsedwa m'mafilimu a Hallmark.
Ukwati ndi chisankho chosintha moyo ndipo uyenera kuchitidwa mosamala. Mutha kukumana ndi mavuto osayembekezereka komanso osafunsidwa mutakwatirana.
Mutha kupeza kuti mnzanuyo ndi wosiyana kwambiri ndi omwe anali pachibwenzi. Osangokhala mnzake, makolo awo amathanso kuwoneka ngati magulu osiyanasiyana kuposa momwe mumawonera kuti anali pachiyambi.
Koma izi ndizofala kwambiri. Nthawi yochuluka yomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito ndi mnzanu komanso banja lawo, ndizinsinsi zambiri zomwe mumamasulira ndi nthawi.
Tsopano, ngakhale mwatsoka muli ndi apongozi opondereza kapena apongozi opanda ulemu, sizitanthauza kuti ukwati uyenera kutha.
Momwe mungachitire ndi apongozi opanda ulemu kapena owopsa
Mosakayikira, mphamvuzo zimasiyana malinga ndi banja. Zimangonena za momwe mabanja alili olimba.
Ubale ndi apongozi anu ndiwovuta nthawi zonse.
Mutha kukhalabe ndi cholinga chokhazikitsa mtendere ndi azilamu anu opanda ulemu ndikukhala ndi banja losangalala ngati mutha kuthana ndi vutoli moyenera komanso moyenera.
Pomwe pali vuto, palinso yankho. Ndipo simuyenera kuiwala izi!
Pali njira zingapo zomwe mungafunire ulemu osadzichepetsera ku miyezo yawo. Muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungakhalire malire ndi apongozi pomwe mukukhalabe ndi ulemu.
Werengani limodzi maupangiri angapo othandiza kuthana ndi apongozi ovuta kapena owopsa.
1 Khazikitsani malire anu pomwe adayamba
Musayese kuyimilira poyeserera ndikudziwonetsa kuti ndinu okoma kwambiri komanso okonzeka. Onetsani mnzanu komanso banja lawo kuti ndinu ndani kwenikweni.
Adziwitseni aliyense kuti uwu ndi mulingo wopirira wanu, ndipo adziwitseni kuti simukukonda aliyense amene angawoloke. Simuyenera kukhala wopanda ulemu, koma nthawi zonse mutha kuyimirira molimba mtima.
Ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi moyo wamtendere wopanda zoletsa zochepa, kukhazikitsa malire ndi apongozi anu komanso ngakhale mnzanu ndikofunikira.
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2. Muziganizira kwambiri zinthu zopindulitsa
Ngati muli ndi apongozi opondereza kapena apongozi, simukuyenera kuthera nthawi yanu yambiri kugunda padenga.
Yesetsani kuzindikira kuti apongozi anu amwano ndi gawo chabe la moyo wanu, osati moyo wanu wonse, pokhapokha mukawalola!
Ngati palibe njira yomwe mungasinthire machitidwe awo achimuna, kusambira ndi mafunde, ndikuyang'ana kwambiri kuchita zomwe mumakonda.
Itha kukhala ntchito yanu, kapena zosangalatsa zanu, kapena kucheza ndi anzanu. Yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu moyenera kuposa kumangokhalira kunena zomwe anena kapena zochita zawo zoipa.
3. Funsani mnzanu kuti akuthandizeni
Ngati muli ndi azilamu opanda ulemu, muuzeni mnzanuyo. Osayesa kuchita ndi makolo a mnzanu nokha kuti musawavulaze. Izi zitha kupweteketsa kwambiri ubale wanu ngati sizinachitike pachiyambi.
Osangokhalira kumangonena za apongozi anu opanda ulemu kwa anzanu. Izi sizinafanane ndi kudziwombera nokha kumapazi.
Popanda kunyengerera, yesetsani kunena zoona kwa wokondedwa wanu pamene ali omvera. Mutha kudziwitsa mnzanuyo zowona ndikuwapempha kuti athe kuthana ndi makolo awo.
Wokondedwa wanu akhoza kudziwa njira yamatsenga yothandizira makolo awo ndikukupulumutsani kuti musamayang'ane ndi bokosi la Pandora.
4. Sungani mtunda wabwino
Ngati inu ndi mnzanu mwayesa zonse zotheka ndi azilamu anu opanda ulemu, ndipo palibe chomwe chimagwira, mutha kukhala kutali ndi iwo.
Mutha kusankha kuyankhula ndikukumana nawo pang'ono momwe mungathere. Nthawi zonse mukakumana ndi apongozi anu opanda ulemu, onetsetsani kuti simukumana nawo nokha.
Yesetsani kupezeka pamaso pa mnzanu kapena anthu ena kotero kuti simukuyenera kukambirana nawo momasuka.
Nthawi zonse mumayesetsa kukhala aulemu kwa iwo, koma osatengera ulemu wanu komanso thanzi lanu. Ngati nthawi ina iliyonse mutha kutaya malingaliro anu, mwa njira zonse, mutha kusankha kukhala kutali nawo.
5. Pitani njira yamaluso
Ngati kuchita ndi apongozi opanda ulemu kukugwetsani pansi, nthawi zonse ndibwino kufunafuna alangizi kapena othandizira.
Mlangizi angakupatseni njira zothandiza kuthana ndi azilamu anu osasokoneza ukhondo wanu.
Komanso, pakhoza kukhala zovuta zina kapena zovuta zaumoyo zomwe zitha kupangitsa apongozi anu kuchita zinthu zosayenera kapena zoyipa.
Poterepa, mutha kutenga thandizo la mnzanuyo ndikukakamiza azilamu anu kuti ayesere upangiri kapena chithandizo cha iwo eni. Wothandizira adzatha kufikira mizu ya machitidwe awo owopsa ndikuwathandiza kuthana nawo moyenera.