Zamkati
- Tanthauzo la kusakhulupirika
- Chifukwa chiyani zinthu zimachitika
- Kuzindikira chibwenzi
- Kukonza banja losweka
- Womba mkota
Mavuto am'banja amatha kupweteka kwambiri komanso kusokoneza banja, zomwe zimawononga banja lanu. Komabe, nonse mukadzakumana kuti muwonetse kusiyana kwanu, banja lanu limatha ndipo likhala lolimba.
Tanthauzo la kusakhulupirika
Tsopano, palibe tanthauzo lililonse la mawu oti kusakhulupirika, ndipo tanthauzo lake limatha kusiyanasiyana pakati pa munthu ndi mnzake pakati pa okwatirana.
Mwachitsanzo, mungaganizire kulumikizana popanda kukondana? Nanga bwanji maubwenzi omwe amayamba pa intaneti? Chifukwa chake, othandizana nawo ayenera kukhala ndi tanthauzo la mawu oti kubera.
Chifukwa chiyani zinthu zimachitika
Mutha kudabwa. Kodi maukwati amatha pambuyo pa chibwenzi? Pokhapokha mutadziwa zomwe zimayambitsa kusakhulupirika, funsoli silikhoza kuyankhidwa.
Pali zinthu zambiri zomwe zingayambitse kusakhulupirika ndipo chodabwitsa ndichakuti sizokhudza kugonana. Pansipa pali zifukwa zomwe zinthu zimachitikira:
- Kupanda chikondi. Simumva ngati mumakonda mnzanu
- Sipadzakhalanso kusamalirana. Mumapezeka kuti mumadzisamalira osati okondedwa wanu
- Kusokonekera kwa kulumikizana pakati pa abwenzi
- Matenda azaumoyo kapena kulemala
- Mavuto azaumoyo monga kulephera kuphunzira, kukhumudwa, ndi zina zambiri.
- Aunjikana mavuto am'banja omwe sanathetsedwe kwanthawi yayitali
Kuzindikira chibwenzi
Nthawi zambiri, pomwe m'modzi m'modzi apeza za chibwenzi, pamakhala zovuta zomwe zimayamba. Mwachitsanzo, onse awiri amakwiya wina ndi mzake, ndipo onse awiri azikhala okhumudwa, m'modzi mwa iwo azidzimvera chisoni kapena kudzimvera chisoni. Koma, kodi maukwati amatha pambuyo pa chibwenzi pano?
Pakadali pano, maanja ambiri amatha kuganiza molondola kuti apange zisankho zabwino chifukwa cha momwe akumvera kale. Ngati mwazunzidwa, ganizirani izi:
- Osathamanga
Ngati simukudziwa zomwe zingachitike, ndibwino kuti mupemphe thandizo kwa katswiri kapena katswiri.
- Dzipatseni nokha malo
Nthawi zambiri, mukazindikira za chibwenzi, onse awiri kapena nonse mumayamba kuchita zosayenera. Chifukwa chake, njira yabwino yopewera izi ndikudzipatsa malo. Izi zidzakuthandizani nonse kuchiritsa.
- Funani thandizo
Nthawi zina, abwenzi amatha kukuthandizani kuthana ndi zovuta pamoyo wanu. Nthawi zambiri, anthu amanyansidwa ndi anzawo akakhala ndi mavuto, koma iyi iyenera kukhala nthawi yomwe mumafuna thandizo lawo. Chifukwa chake, pitirizani kufunafuna malangizo awo.
Atsogoleri ena auzimu akhoza kukuthandizani kuthetsa mavuto omwe muli nawo m'banja lanu. Apempheni kuti akuwongolereni.
- Chitani mwachifatse
Tsopano, mutha kukhala ndi chidwi chodziwa zomwe zidachitika, koma sichinthu chabwino kuchita. Tengani nthawi yanu ndikulola kuti zinthu zikhazikike. Izi ndichifukwa choti kusanthula tsatanetsatane kumatha kuvutitsa zovuta.
Kukonza banja losweka
Sipadzakhala kukwera paki kuti mudzapulumuke pachibwenzi. Moona mtima, ndi machaputala ovuta kwambiri pamoyo. Pakhoza kukhala zosatsimikizika panthawiyi. Komabe, mukakhala ofunitsitsa kuti muyambenso kukhulupirirana, nonse muyenera kuvomereza kulakwa, kuyanjananso. Kuchita izi kudzakuthandizani kuti ubale wanu upangikenso. M'munsimu muli zina mwazomwe mungachite:
- Tengani nthawi
Musanaganize, ndibwino kuti mupume kaye ndikachira musanadziwe zambiri za zomwe zachitikazo. Kusankha zochita nthawi yomweyo kungakupangitseni kumva chisoni, koma sizomwe mukufuna.
Apanso, mutha kufunsa thandizo la katswiri kapena katswiri. Yesani kufunafuna mlangizi wazithandizo zam'banja.
- Khalani ndi mlandu
Tsopano, ili ndiye gawo lofunikira kwambiri. Anthu ena sadzavomereza kuti akulakwitsa. Chonde pakadali pano, khalani odalirika. Ngati simunakhulupirire, chonde landirani ndikupemphani kuti akukhululukireni. Mwanjira iyi, mutha kuthana ndi vutoli mwachangu momwe mungathere.
- Pezani thandizo kuchokera kuzinthu zosiyanasiyana
Ndizovuta kugawana ndi ena mavuto anu, koma pakadali pano, muyenera kufunafuna thandizo ndikuwulola. Zoonadi, mudzachita manyazi, koma mudzathandizidwa, ndipo manyaziwo adzatha.
Womba mkota
Tikukhulupirira, funso: kodi maukwati amatha pambuyo poti chibwenzi chayankhidwa. Palibe amene angafune kuti banja lake lithe, ndipo inunso simuli choncho. Muyenera kukhala ndi banja losangalala ndi mnzanu. Tikukhulupirira, malangizo omwe ali pamwambapa akuyenera kukuthandizani kumanganso banja lanu mutachita chibwenzi.