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Mosiyana ndi kusudzulana, kulekana mwalamulo kumalola maanja kukhala okhaokha akadali okwatirana.
Pokhapokha mutakhala kuti mwachitidwapo nkhanza zapabanja kapena chinyengo cha ndalama, kulekana mwalamulo ndibwino kuposa kusudzulana chifukwa kumalola maanja kuganiziranso chisankho chawo chopatukana. Akapatukana mwalamulo, banja lingathe kuthana ndi mavuto monga kusunga mwana komanso nkhani zachuma komanso kukonzekera tsogolo lawo.
Kulekana m'banja ndikosavuta kwa ana kuposa chisudzulo.
Nthawi yopatukana mwalamulo imathandiza maanja kuwunika momwe angayanjanirane kapena kudziwa ngati angafunike kupita ku chisudzulo. Kuphatikiza apo, machitidwe anu panthawiyi adzakhudza kwambiri banja lanu kapena zotsatira zakusudzulana. Chifukwa chake, ngakhale ubale wanu ukhale wowawa bwanji, muyenera kuthana ndi malamulo mwanjira yoyenera.
Nayi zinthu zochepa zomwe muyenera kuchita ndi zosayenera kupatukana zomwe zikuthandizireni munthawi yovutayi.
Njira zopatukana mwalamulo -
1. Limbikitsani kulankhulana momasuka ndi wokondedwa wanu
Kulekana mwalamulo kumabweretsa zovuta, monga mkwiyo, chidani, nsanje, kukhumudwa, ndi kukhumudwa.
Ndi zachilendo kukhala ndi malingaliro okhumudwitsa kwa mnzanu, komabe, izi siziyenera kukulepheretsani kucheza momasuka komanso moona mtima. M'malo mwake, kusayankhulana m'banja kumachepetsa mwayi woyanjananso kapena kumabweretsa zotsatira zoyipa zosudzulana ndikusokoneza kukula kwa mwana wanu.
Kambiranani ndi wokondedwa wanu za momwe nonse mungakhalire mwamtendere m'banjamo ndikukambirana ndi ana anu popanda kuwakhumudwitsa. Pangani malire oyenera okhudzana ndi maudindo a mwana wanu komanso banja komanso banja lanu.
Mwachitsanzo, sikuli koyenera kuchita zachiwerewere ndi mnzanu panthawiyi popeza zingayambitse mavuto.
Chifukwa chake, ndibwino kukhazikitsa malire paubwenzi wanu ndi mnzanu.
2. Sungani momwe ziliri
Ngakhale mudapatukana mwalamulo, muyenera kukhalabe ndi zomwe zili pano. Chifukwa chake, ngati mwakhala mukulipira ngongole zanyumba kapena ngongole yanyumba, pitilizani kuchita izi mukadakwatirana.
Komabe, kulipira ngongole zambiri kumatha kutumiza uthenga wabodza kuti mungamuthandize mnzanuyo ngakhale atasudzulana ndipo atha kuyitanitsa mwamphamvu mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu.
Chifukwa chake, ndi kwanzeru kugwira ntchito ndi loya wanu kuti mugawane ndalama zanu moyenera.
Komanso, ngati inu kapena mnzanu mwachoka pakhomo pa banja, musakwiyitse malo okhala ana anu. Kupanga masinthidwe akulu pamakonzedwe am'banja kumatha kukhala ndi zotsatirapo zoyipa kwakanthawi pamaubale anu ndi zotsatira za chisudzulo.
3. Muziganizira kwambiri za ndalama
Nthawi yonseyi, mumakonda kukhala ndi ndalama ziwiri.Mutapatukana, ganizirani zomwe mungasankhe kuti muthandizire banja.
Unikeninso chuma chilichonse chokwatirana kapena gwero la ndalama ndi zomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito kuti mupeze moyo wanu. Konzani bajeti yoyenera kuti mupeze zofunika za banja lanu.
Ngati muli ndi akaunti yakubanki yolumikizana ndi mnzanu, ndikofunika kuti muzitseke mukalipira ngongole, ngati zilipo. Pewani kutulutsa ndalama zambiri muakaunti yanu yolumikizira kapena kusamutsa chuma kwa mnzanu wapamtima kapena wachibale.
Kuchita izi kukopa zilango zosafunikira ndikuwononga kukhulupirika kwanu kukhothi.
Kuphatikiza apo, ndi kwanzeru kusonkhanitsa zikalata zandalama, monga ma tax tax, banki, kirediti kadi, ndi mapepala opuma pantchito, ma inshuwaransi, ma wili, zikalata zangongole, ndi mashelu yanyumba. Kukhazikitsa zikalata zanu zandalama kumapangitsa kuti chisudzulo chikhale chosavuta ngati kulekana kwanu kudzafika pamenepo.
4. Dalirani thandizo la akatswiri
Kulekanitsidwa mwalamulo kumatopetsa mtima, kumakupatsani inu mphamvu kuti mudzisamalire nokha kapena kupanga zisankho zomveka.
Phatikizani akatswiri, monga loya wanu wosudzulana, mlangizi wamaukwati, wothandizira, kapena wothandizira zandalama, omwe angakuthandizeni kuthana ndi vutoli ndikupanga zisankho mozindikira. Mwachitsanzo, wothandizira atha kukuthandizani kutulutsa zakukhosi kwanu ndikukhumudwitsidwa, kukulolani kuti mutuluke mumkhalidwewo muli olimba mtima.
Momwemonso, loya waluso wosudzulana komanso mlangizi wazachuma atha kukuthandizani pazovuta za kulekana kwalamulo. Izi zikuphatikiza kugawa moyenera zinthu za m'banja, ngongole, komanso ndalama zapuma pantchito, thandizo la ana / okwatirana, ufulu wolowa m'malo, komanso zaumoyo kapena inshuwaransi ya moyo.
Kuphatikiza apo, ngati mukukayikira mnzanu wosakhulupirika, kubisa chuma m'banja, kapena kuchitira mwana wanu zosavomerezeka, loya wanu atha kutumiza wofufuza payekha yemwe angakuthandizeni kupeza umboni kuti mukukondera.
Osachita zopatukana mwalamulo -
1. Pewani kukhala pachibwenzi chatsopano
Inu ndi mnzanu mwapatukana mwalamulo, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti palibe nanu omwe simunakwatirane.
Khothi la banja lakupatsani nthawi kuti mudziwe zomwe mukufuna kuchita ndi banja ili. Chifukwa chake, ino siyinthawi yakusowa woti mudzakhale naye pachibwenzi.
Kuchita izi sikungachepetse mwayi wanu wokonza ukwati wanu komanso kumakupatsani chithunzi chonyansa pamaso pa woweruza ngati mutha kuthetsa banja.
2. Musakhale otanganidwa kwambiri pazanema
Pewani kugwiritsa ntchito malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ngati nsanja yofotokozera zakukhosi kwanu kapena kunyoza mnzanu. Momwemonso, musatumize zithunzi zomwe zingagwiritsidwe ntchito ngati umboni wokutsutsani. Mwachitsanzo, kuyika chithunzi pomwe mukuchita phwando ndipo mwana wanu atanyamula botolo la mowa (ngakhale ngati nthabwala) atha kukuwonetsani kukhala makolo osayenera m'malo mwanu ndipo atha kugwiritsidwa ntchito kutsutsana nanu kukhothi.
Zomwe zimapezeka kudzera muma post anu pazanema ndizovomerezeka kukhothi la mabanja, chifukwa chake yang'anani zomwe mumasindikiza.
Komanso, pewani kutumiza manotsi, mameseji, kapena maimelo okhumudwitsa kwa mnzanu popeza izi zingasokoneze ubale wanu, kuthetsa kusudzulana, komanso dongosolo la kusunga mwana.
3. Pewani kumunyoza mnzanu
Mosasamala kanthu kuti mwakhumudwa bwanji ndi mnzanuyo, sibwino kumukhumudwitsa pamaso pa ana, abale, kapena abwenzi.
Kuchita izi sikungangobweretsa mavuto mukamagwirira ntchito limodzi ndi mnzanuyo komanso kumakhudzanso ana anu, kuwapangitsa kukhala ndi nkhawa.
4. Pewani kutalikitsa kulekana
Kukulitsa kulekana kwalamulo kwazaka zingapo sikokwanira kwa inu ndi banja lanu.
Ngati inu ndi mnzanu simukuyanjananso, musakhale mukukana kapena mukuyembekeza kuti posachedwa ubale wanu udzakula. M'malo mwake, tengani banja ndikusunthira patsogolo, potero mukuyembekezera kupanga moyo wathanzi kwa inu ndi ana anu.
Pamene lingaliro la kusudzulana limawoneka lochititsa mantha, kulekana kwalamulo ndiye njira yabwino kwambiri. Kulekana mwalamulo kumakupatsirani malo ndi nthawi yocheza ndi mnzanu, kukulimbikitsani kuti mugwirizane ndi momwe mukumvera, kuthetsa mavuto am'banja, ndikuwona njira yakutsogolo.
Komabe, momwe mumakhalira panthawi yopatukana mwalamulo zitha kuwonetsa zolinga zanu zosudzulana, zikafika pamenepo.
Gwiritsani ntchito zomwe zalembedwa patsamba lino kuti muwone njira zophatikizira zopatukana m'banja.