Zamkati
- 1. Khalani wamkulu
- 2. Sankhani malo oti nonse muzitha kukambirana
- 3. Mpatseni mpata wolankhula
- 4. Malizitsani kulemba mawu abwino
- 5. Pewani kulakwitsa kwakukulu
Kaya mwakhala pachibwenzi kwa miyezi ingapo kapena zaka zingapo, kulekana ndi chibwenzi chako chiri osati chinthu chophweka kuchita. Mumamukondabe, ngakhale atakhala ochezeka okha, ndipo ndiye munthu womaliza yemwe mukufuna kumukhumudwitsa. Koma mukudziwa mumtima mwanu kuti nthawi yakwana.
Chifukwa chake, phunzirani kutha ndi chibwenzi chanu osapanga zoipazo nonsenu.
Kupatula apo, simukuyembekezeranso kucheza ndi mnzanu, komanso wanu masiku akhala chizolowezi ndipo kusowa mphamvu zomwe poyamba zinakusonkhanitsani pamodzi. Mwayesera kukonza zinthu, koma palibe chomwe chasintha.
Chifukwa chake nthawi yotsanzikana. Tiyeni tiwone njira zina zothetsera chibwenzi chanu zomwe, ngakhale sizosangalatsa, zomwe zingapangitse kuti kusiyana kumeneku kukhale kopweteka.
Choyamba, tiyeni timve kuchokera kwa amayi angapo omwe ali ndi maupangiri oti agawane nawo Momwe OSATHA chibwenzi chako.
Otsatirawa ndi omwe "musachite" pa mndandanda wa "Zoyenera kuchita ndi zosayenera" mukamasiyana ndi bwenzi lanu.
- Osaterobasipatsani chibwenzi chanu. Ayenera kukhala nawo pagulu la zokambirana.
- Osathetsa foni, mameseji, imelo, kapena (zoopsa) kusintha mawonekedwe anu a Facebook kukhala "osakwatiwa". Izi ndizopanda mtima, zamantha komanso zamwano. Zikuwonetsa kusowa ulemu kwakukulu kwa munthu yemwe kale mudali pafupi naye. Kupatukana kuyenera kuchitidwa pamasom'pamaso, ngakhale zitakhala zovuta bwanji kufalitsa nkhani zoyipazi pamasom'pamaso.
- Musamulole kuti adziwe waponyedwa ndi munthu wina. Muuzeni nokha.
- Osayamba chibwenzi ndi mkazi wina mpaka mutamaliza bwino chibwenzi chanu ndi bwenzi lanu lapano. Mukufunikira kutsekedwa, momwemonso iye.
- Osanama. Muuzeni zifukwa zenizeni zothetsera chibwenzicho. Osakhala wankhanza, koma khalani oona mtima.
- Yambani ndinu kuchitapo kanthu. Osamachita chinthu chofooketsa pomumvera chisoni kuti akusiyeni. Ngati mukupanga lingaliro limodzi kuti muthe ndi bwenzi lanu, dziwani izi. Amuna ambiri ndiopusa kwambiri kutero, ndipo pamapeto pake amayamba kuchita zoyipa chifukwa amakonda kuti bwenzi lawo liziwasiya kuposa omwe amayambitsa kutha kwa banja.
Tsopano, tiyeni tiwone pa "zoyenera" momwe tingakhalire bwenzi lathu ndi mtsikana.
Kutha ndi mtsikana osamupweteka
1. Khalani wamkulu
Ngati ndinu okalamba mokwanira kukhala ndi ubale wopindulitsa, ndinu okalamba mokwanira kuti mucheze chibwenzicho mwauchikulire.
Izi zikutanthauza kuti ndinu wokonzeka kuyankhulana pamasom'pamaso ndi bwenzi lanu latsopanoli.
2. Sankhani malo oti nonse muzitha kukambirana
Ndibwino kusankha malo omwe alibe tanthauzo lalikulu kwa aliyense wa inu. Zingatero osakhala abwino kukumana komwe mudakhala ndi tsiku lanu loyamba kapena malo ena omwe imakhala ndi zokumbukira zazikulu.
Mwina simukufuna kutha naye limodzi m'nyumba mwanu. Sankhani malo osalowerera ndale komwe simungamasokonezedwe ndi anzanu kapena anzanu. Onetsetsani kuti mutha kukambirana mwachinsinsi komanso kuti phokoso lozungulira silikweza kwambiri.
3. Mpatseni mpata wolankhula
Mukasiyana ndi bwenzi lanu, ndikofunikira kuti mutero pitani pazifukwa zanu, komanso ampatse mpata wolankhula. Onetsetsani kuti mumvera mayankho ake ndikuvomereza kuti mukumumva.
Adzafunika kuthana ndi zomwe mukumuuza, ndipo muli ndi ngongole kwa iye kuti amulole kuti afotokoze momwe akumvera.
4. Malizitsani kulemba mawu abwino
Konzekerani zomwe mukanene kuti muthe pulumutsa ichi nkhani zachisoni modekha. Onetsetsani kuti mwayamba kukambirana pomutikumbutsa kuti ngakhale mudakhala ndi nthawi yabwino muubwenzi, muli nawo adapanga chisankho chothetsa zinthu.
Simufunikanso kugwiritsa ntchito mawu achikale akuti "Si inu, ndi ine," koma mutha kunena zofanananso ngati kuti simukukhutitsidwa ndi ubale wanu. Akumbutseni kuti ndi munthu wopambana ndi kuti munasangalala nthawi yanu pamodzi.
Koma nkhani yanu imathera apa ndipo zonse zomwe mungachite ndikumufunira zabwino. Pewani zovuta zilizonse zanu kapena kudzudzula, mfundo ndiyoti muthane bwino kuti nonse muthe pita patsogolo ndi ulemu kwa wina ndi mnzake.
5. Pewani kulakwitsa kwakukulu
Mukasiyana ndi bwenzi lanu, yesetsani kupewa kupanga cholakwika chimodzi chachikulu chomwe anthu ambiri amachita akasiyana.
"Ndikukhulupirira kuti tikhoza kukhalabe mabwenzi." Wanu kulekana kuyenera kukhala komaliza, kulonjeza kuti ubwenzi wanu ndi wina m'tsogolo ungakhale wovulaza. Ikhoza kupusitsa bwenzi lanu kuganiza kuti tsiku lina mungadzabwerenso. Zitha kukhala zowononga kwa inu ngati mukufuna kuyamba moyo watsopano, wopanda zomangira zaubwenzi wakale.
Zikuwoneka kuti mukayambiranso chibwenzi, bwenzi latsopano silingakonde kuti mukhalebe paubwenzi ndi bwenzi lanu lakale.
Kotero osalonjeza kuti mudzakhalabe abwenzi. Nthawi zambiri sizothandiza kuti mbali iliyonse ikhale yopindulitsa. Kulekana kumafunikira kukhala kotsimikizika, komaliza, koyera komanso kowonekera. Chilichonse chimasokoneza vutoli ndikupangitsa zinthu kukhala zovuta kuposa momwe ziliri kale.
Khalani chibwenzi chomwe amamukumbukira nthawi zonse, ngakhale zinthu sizinayende kumapeto.