Zamkati
- Ana atha kukhala gawo la nkhanza zapabanja m'njira zambiri
- Zotsatira zachiwawa cha m'banja zamtundu uliwonse nthawi zambiri zimafika pakukula
- Zotsatira zakuzunza zimadutsa mibadwo
Tikamalankhula za nkhanza zapakhomo, nthawi zambiri timamva kufulumira kwazomwezi ndikuganiza za zovuta zonse zomwe zikuchitika munthawiyo kwa ozunzidwa. Komabe, nkhanza za m'banja ndizochitika zomwe nthawi zambiri zimasiya zipsera zosatha.
Zizindikirozi nthawi zina zimatha kukhala mibadwomibadwo, ngakhale palibe amene akudziwa momwe zimachitikira komanso komwe adachokera.
Nkhanza za m'banja ndizoopsa komanso zoopsa zomwe zimakhudza aliyense wokhudzidwa. Ngakhale pamene ana sakhala ovutitsidwa mwachindunji, amavutika. Ndipo kuvutikaku kumatha kwa moyo wonse.
Ana atha kukhala gawo la nkhanza zapabanja m'njira zambiri
Amatha kukhala ozunzidwa mwachindunji. Koma ngakhale sanazunzidwe mwachindunji, amatenga nawo mbali m'njira yoti amayi awo (mu 95% ya omwe amachitiridwa nkhanza zapakhomo ndi akazi) akuvutitsidwa ndi abambo awo. Mwana atha kukhala mboni pazochitika zachiwawa pakati pa makolo, amva zoopseza ndikumenya nkhondo, kapena kungowona momwe mayi akuchitira mkwiyo wa abambo.
Izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala zokwanira kuyambitsa mavuto akulu m'thupi kapena m'maganizo a mwanayo.
Ngakhale ana aang'ono kwambiri amadziwa kuti nkhanza za m'banja zimakhala zovuta ndipo amakhudzidwa chifukwa cha zomwe makolo amakhulupirira kuti akadali achichepere kwambiri kuti amvetsetse zomwe zikuchitika.
Kukula kwaubongo wawo kumatha kusokonekera chifukwa chokhala m'nyumba zozunza chifukwa cha kupsinjika konse komwe kumayikidwa m'mutu wanzeru womwe ukukula. Ndipo zokopa zoyambazi zitha kupanga momwe mwanayo adzachitire, kuchita, ndikuganiza mtsogolo, pamoyo wawo wonse.
Ana azaka zakubadwa azimayi omwe amazunzidwa ali ndi njira yawo yothetsera zachiwawa zomwe zimachitika m'nyumba zawo. Nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi vuto lonyowetsa bedi, mavuto kusukulu, zovuta kusinkhasinkha, kusokonezeka kwa malingaliro, m'mimba komanso kupweteka mutu ... Monga kulira thandizo kuchokera kunja, mwana wochokera kunyumba yozunza nthawi zambiri amachita.
Kuchita izi ndi mawu ochokera ku psychoanalysis ndipo amatanthauza kuti, m'malo moyankha mozama zomwe zikutipangitsa kukhala ndi nkhawa komanso mkwiyo, timasankha machitidwe ena, omwe nthawi zambiri amakhala owononga kapena odziwononga, ndikutulutsa nkhawa kudzera pamenepo.
Chifukwa chake timawona mwana yemwe amayi ake amamuzunza ali amakani, akumenya nkhondo, akuyeserera mankhwala osokoneza bongo komanso mowa, kuwononga zinthu, ndi zina zambiri.
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Zotsatira zachiwawa cha m'banja zamtundu uliwonse nthawi zambiri zimafika pakukula
Kuphatikiza apo, kafukufuku wochuluka adawonetsa, zomwe zimachitika chifukwa chokula m'mabanja momwe mumachitika nkhanza zilizonse m'banja mpaka munthu atakula. Tsoka ilo, ana ochokera m'manyumba otere nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi zotsatirapo zingapo, kuyambira pamakhalidwe, pamavuto am'maganizo, pamavuto am'banja lawo.
Ochuluka amathera m'ndondomeko zachiwawa, makamaka chifukwa cha milandu yachiwawa. Ena amakhala moyo wokhumudwa kapena kuda nkhawa, nthawi zambiri amaganiza zodzipha. Ndipo ambiri amabwereza maukwati a makolo awo m'maubale awo.
Pokhala m'malo omwe zinali zachilendo kuti abambo azunza amayi, ana amaphunzira kuti izi ndizofala. Ndipo mwina sangawonetse chikhulupiriro chotere, ndipo mwina atha kukhala otsutsana nacho kwambiri ... akubwerezedwa.
Anyamata nthawi zambiri amakula kuti akhale amuna omwe angatengeke ndi chidwi chazunza akazi awo mwakuthupi kapena mwamalingaliro. Atsikana nawonso azikhala akazi omenyedwa, nkumalingalira kuti maukwati awo ndi osiyana bwanji ndi amayi awo, ngakhale kufanana kuli kwamatsenga. Kupsa mtima kumawoneka ngati njira yovomerezeka yothanirana ndi kukhumudwa.
Imaphatikizana ndi chikondi ndiukwati, ndikupanga tsamba la khansa lazankhanza ndi chikondi chomwe chimasiya aliyense osavulala.
Zotsatira zakuzunza zimadutsa mibadwo
Mayi akagwidwa nkhanza zapabanja, sizimangokhudza iye yekha, komanso ana ake, ndi ana a ana ake. Njira yakusinthira imadutsa mibadwo, monga kafukufuku wasonyeza nthawi zambiri.
Mkazi wozunzidwa amalera mwana wamkazi wozunzidwa, ndipo amapititsa vutoli mopitirira ... Komabe, izi siziyenera kukhala choncho.
Mwamsanga unyolo utasweka bwino. Ngati munakulira kunyumba komwe abambo anu amachitira nkhanza amayi anu, mudakulira ndi mtolo womwe ena ambiri samayenera kunyamula. Koma simuyenera kukhala moyo wanu monga choncho.
Wothandizira adzakuthandizani kuzindikira zikhulupiriro zomwe mungakhale nazo ndizotsatira zaubwana wanu, ndipo akutsogolerani pakupeza zikhulupiriro zanu zenizeni za inu nokha, kufunika kwanu, ndi momwe mungafunire kukhala zowona moyo m'malo mwa omwe adayikidwa pa iwe.