Zamkati
- 1. Khalani nawo wina ndi mnzake
- 2. Sonyezani kuyamikira
- 3. Tengani ulendo wopita kukumbukira
- 4. Osanyalanyaza kufunikira kwakugonana
- 5. Muzidzikonda
- 6. Kulankhulana momasuka komanso moona mtima
- 7. Kuthetsa kusamvana mu chiyanjano
- 8. Khalani osatekeseka wina ndi mnzake
- 9. Kambiranani chifukwa chake mumakondana
Funsani mlangizi wa maukwati kuti alembe mndandanda wazofunikira zomwe zingapangitse banja kukhala lalikulu, ndipo adzaika "kukondana pakati pa awiriwa" pamwamba pamndandanda. Kodi izi zimakudabwitsani? Anthu ambiri angaganize kuti zinthu monga kugonana kwabwino, kupeza bwino ndalama komanso kusamvana ndizomwe zingapangitse banja kukhala labwino. Zonsezi ndizofunikira, zachidziwikire, koma popanda kulumikizana mwamphamvu, ndizosatheka kupanga zinthuzi (ndi zina) zofunika m'banja lolemera. Tiyeni tiwone momwe banja lolemera pamaganizidwe limapangidwira.
Njira zopangira banja lanu lolemera
1. Khalani nawo wina ndi mnzake
Mwachidule, lankhulani ndi mnzanu pamene akulankhula. Ndikosavuta kumvetsera theka la mnzanu, popeza chidwi chathu chimakopeka ndi zinthu zina zambiri zotizungulira: zosowa za ana athu, ntchito zapakhomo komanso zida zathu zamagetsi. Kodi nthawi zambiri mumangoyang'ana pafoni yanu kuti muwone mauthenga omwe akubwera nthawi zonse kwinaku mukuti "um hum" poyankha zomwe mnzanu akukuuzani? Kodi amakutsatirani mozungulira nyumba ndikufotokozera tsiku lake pomwe mumatenga zovala, ndikuyika zakudya patebulopo? Kudzizindikira wekha kumeneko? Izi ndizo zizolowezi zomwe zimachokera mu chuma chanu. Yesetsani kutembenukira kwa wina ndi mnzake pamene mukulankhulana. Pezani maso ake. Mverani. Ngati mukumva kuti mumakopeka kuti mutsirize kaye musanamuyese, muuzeni choncho. “Ndikufunadi kumva za tsiku lanu koma ndiyenera kungoyimba foni kamodzi koyamba. Kodi tingalankhule m'mphindi zisanu? Ndikofunika kuti ndidzakhale pano 'kudzakumverani. "
2. Sonyezani kuyamikira
Wokondedwa wanu ndi wofunika kuti mukhale osangalala. Mukamawakumbutsa za izi, mumathandizira kuti pakhale chuma cham'mabanja mwanu. Onetsani kuyamika kwanu moona mtima: akakuchitirani zabwino, monga kukudabwitsani ndi maluwa kapena kusungitsa wolera kuti nonse mukhale ndi nthawi yopuma, muwakumbatire ndi kuwauza chisangalalo chomwe ali nacho anakupanga. “NDINE WABWINO kwambiri kuti ndiwe mnzanga” ndi chimodzi mwazabwino kwambiri zomwe mungapereke (kapena kulandira).
3. Tengani ulendo wopita kukumbukira
Njira yabwino yopezera chuma chanu ndikupitiliza masiku oyambilira aubwenzi wanu. Mabanja omwe amafotokoza tsiku lawo loyamba, kupsompsonana koyamba, kupanga koyamba koyamba limodzi amakumbukiranso nthawi zosangalatsa izi, zomwe zimamasuliranso kuti mumakondana ndi mnzanuyo.
4. Osanyalanyaza kufunikira kwakugonana
Ndikosavuta kulola kuti chikondi chiziyenda bwino pomwe zinthu zikuyenda bwino ndi ana, ntchito, ndi maudindo ena akuluakulu. Koma chinsinsi chokhala ndi banja lolemera pamaganizidwe anu ndiye gawo la mgwirizano wanu. Osadikirira kuti chikhumbo chofuna kugunda: chiitanireni mwa kugona pamodzi. Onetsetsani kuti mukugona limodzi: osakhala ndi chizolowezi choti mmodzi wa inu agonere pamaso pa pulogalamu yomwe mumakonda pa TV pomwe wina apuma kuchipinda kuti amalize buku logulitsidwa kwambiri. Imeneyi ndi njira yotsimikizika kuti musalumikizane.
5. Muzidzikonda
Kuti mutha kugawana chuma cham'maganizo ndi mnzanu, muyenera kukhala ndi chuma chanu choyamba. Kodi mumachita bwanji izi? Mwa kudzisamalira. Idyani wathanzi kuti musangalale ndi zomwe mukupaka mthupi lanu. Muzichita masewera olimbitsa thupi tsiku lililonse. Onani zomwe mungachite osagwiritsa ntchito galimoto yanu — kodi mungapite ku tawuni kukasamalira zina mwakutumikirani? Kukwera masitepe m'malo mokweza pamalo? Simusowa kuti mupereke ndalama zokwanira kuchita nawo masewera olimbitsa thupi; pali makanema ambiri apakompyuta olowera kunyumba omwe amapezeka pa intaneti. Mukamakhala wokondwa komwe muli, m'mutu mwanu komanso mthupi lanu, mumatha kukhala ndi mwayi wothandizira kuti banja lanu likhale ndi chuma chochuluka.
6. Kulankhulana momasuka komanso moona mtima
Tonsefe tili ndi zosowa zamaganizidwe; kugawana izi ndi mnzanu kumawonjezera chuma chamumtima. Zina mwa izi zitha kukhala: kufunikira kuwonedwa ndikumvedwa, kulimbikitsidwa, kulingaliridwa, kuphatikizidwa, kusamalidwa, kumvetsetsa, kulandiridwa, kuchita nawo, kukhudzidwa, kugwiridwa, kufunidwa, ndi kukhululukidwa ngati tachita chinthu chokhumudwitsa.
7. Kuthetsa kusamvana mu chiyanjano
Mabanja omwe amapewa mikangano amawononga chuma chawo chaubwenzi, m'malo molimbikira. Nthawi zambiri maanja amaganiza kuti akapanda kukambirana mavuto, awa amatha. Mosemphana ndi izi, kusamvana kosathetsedwa kumabweretsa mkwiyo wobisika komanso kupatukana. Phunzirani kuthana ndi kusamvana m'njira yomangirira, ndipo mudzakhala mukuthandizira kuti banja lanu likhale losangalala.
8. Khalani osatekeseka wina ndi mnzake
Musaope kuwonetsa mnzanu pamene mukuchita mantha, kufooka kapena kuthedwa nzeru. Njira imodzi yachangu kwambiri yokulitsira chuma chanu ndikukuwonetsani mbali iyi, ndikulola mnzanu kuti akutonthozeni ndikupangitsani kuti muzimva kuthandizidwa. Izi zimapindulitsa nonse ndipo ndizofunikira kwambiri pakulimbitsa chikondi m'banja lanu. Kugawana mbali yanu yosatetezeka kumatha kukulitsa maubwenzi amtundu uliwonse - chibwenzi, kugonana, uzimu, malingaliro, komanso luntha.
9. Kambiranani chifukwa chake mumakondana
Kukambirana zaubwenzi wanu ndi mphindi yapamtima kwambiri. Zokambirana izi zimakulitsa kulumikizana kwanu kwamtundu wina kuposa kukambirana kwina kulikonse. Simukuyankhula zongogonana kapena kukondana, mukunena za momwe mumakhalira limodzi. Kumangirira chuma chokhazikika mwachangu!