Zamkati
- Sankhani 'mawu otetezeka' omwe amalepheretsa kukangana
- Khazikitsani tanthauzo kuseri kwa mawu otetezeka
- Kugwiritsa ntchito chida ichi kumafunikira kuyeserera
Nthawi zina pazokangana, ngakhale titadziwa bwino zomwe tiyenera kuchita, timakhala ndi masiku osapumira. Mwinamwake inu munadzuka pa mbali yolakwika ya bedi kapena mwinamwake inu munatsutsidwa ku ntchito. Kuletsa kukangana sikuyenda bwino.
Mukuganiza momwe mungapewere mikangano mu chibwenzi?
Pali zosintha zambiri zomwe zimapangitsa kuti tikhale ndi malingaliro abwino komanso amisala zomwe zingatipangitse kuti tisasankhe kapena kugwiritsa ntchito zida zathu pazokangana. Chifukwa chake, muyenera kuchita chiyani mukakhala munthu ndikungoterera, ndikupangitsa kukambirana? Pali zida zingapo zofunikira kugwiritsa ntchito mukamayesetsa kupewa mikangano.
Chida chimodzi chomwe ine ndi mwamuna wanga tidagwiritsa ntchito mchaka chathu choyamba chaukwati pomwe nkhawa idali yayikulu ndipo timaphunzira momwe tingagwirire ntchito wina ndi mnzake ndikuletsa mikangano, ndiye mawu otetezeka. Tsopano ndiyenera kupereka ulemu pazoyenera ndipo anali wokonda kwanga yemwe adabwera ndi lingaliro labwino kwambiri ili.
Ankagwiritsidwa ntchito pamene mikangano yathu imakulira mpaka kufika poti sangabwererenso. Nthawi imeneyo m'miyoyo yathu, sitinathe kukulirakulira ndipo tinkafunika njira yachangu yopulumutsira usiku komanso kuti tisapwetekenso. Mawu otetezeka kwa maanja inali njira yathu yolumikizirana kuti ndi nthawi yoti tileke zochitikazo.
Sankhani 'mawu otetezeka' omwe amalepheretsa kukangana
Njira yabwino yopangira ndi kugwiritsa ntchito chida ichi ndikuzindikira njira yolakwika yomwe yakhala yovuta kusiya. Njira zathu zoyipa zidakulitsa mkangano mpaka m'modzi wa ife adakweza mawu kapena akuchokapo. Kenako, sankhani mawu palimodzi omwe sangapangitse kuti chizolowezi cholakwika chikapitirire. Mawu otetezeka bwino ndi chida chamtengo wapatali chotsitsira mkangano.
Tinagwiritsa ntchito mawu otetezeka akuti "mabaluni" popewa mikangano. Zinali zofunikira kwa mwamuna wanga kugwiritsa ntchito mawu osalowerera ndale omwe sangatengedwe molakwika. Taganizirani izi, ngati ena akufuula 'mabaluni' pokangana, ngakhale atanena bwanji, ndizovuta kukhumudwa nazo.
Kodi mawu otetezeka amatanthauza chiyani? Mawu otetezeka amalola kuti winayo adziwe kuti ndi nthawi yoti musachedwe kapena kuyimitsa zinthu zikavuta. Kodi mawu abwino ndi otani? Mawu otetezeka bwino ndi mawu kapena chizindikiritso chomwe chimalola kuti winayo adziwe momwe mukumvera ndipo chimakhazikitsa malire mnzake asanadutse malire ndipo zinthu zimaipiraipira.
Mukuyang'ana malingaliro ena otetezeka? Malingaliro ena otetezeka akuti "ofiira" chifukwa amatanthauza kuopsa, kapena akusonyeza kuima. Chimodzi mwazitsanzo zotetezeka ndi kugwiritsa ntchito chinthu chosavuta ngati dzina ladziko. Kapenanso, mutha kuthyola zala zanu kapena kugwiritsa ntchito manja osawopseza. Mawu ena otetezeka omwe amagwira ntchito ngati matsenga ndi mayina azipatso ngati, chivwende, nthochi kapena ngakhale kiwi!
Mawu otetezeka omwe onse agwirizana amathandizira wokondedwayo kumvetsetsa kuti ndi nthawi yoti ayime!
Khazikitsani tanthauzo kuseri kwa mawu otetezeka
Tsopano popeza muli ndi mawu m'malingaliro oteteza mikangano, gawo lotsatira ndikukulitsa tanthauzo lakumbuyo. Kwa ife, mawu oti 'mabaluni' amatanthauza "tiyenera kuyimitsa mpaka tonse titakhazikika." Pomaliza, kambiranani malamulowo. Malamulo athu anali omwe amati 'mabaluni', ndi munthu winayo yemwe amayenera kuyambitsa zokambiranazo pambuyo pake.
Pambuyo pake sikungadutse tsiku limodzi pokhapokha atadziwitsidwa ndi mnzake. Ndi malamulowa akutsatiridwa, tidamva ngati zosowa zathu zakonzedwa ndipo mkangano woyambirira ungathetsedwe. Chifukwa chake, kuti muwunikenso mtundu wosayenera, mawu, tanthauzo la mawu ndi malamulo kuti agwiritsidwe ntchito.
Kugwiritsa ntchito chida ichi kumafunikira kuyeserera
Chida ichi sichinabwere mosavuta pachiyambi.
Zinatengera kuyeserera komanso kudziletsa pamaganizidwe kuti mupewe mkangano. Pamene tikukulitsa maluso athu olumikizirana ndi chida ichi, tsopano sitinagwiritsepo ntchito kwa nthawi yayitali ndikukhala okwatirana bwino. Mukamapanga izi pamacheza anu, dziwani kuti mutha kukhala ndi mawu otetezeka angapo pazochitika zosiyanasiyana ndi njira zolakwika zomwe zimathandiza kupewa mikangano. Yesani kupanga imodzi usikuuno (mkangano usanachitike).