Zamkati
Kusamalira banja la ana opeza lomwe likuyenda bwino ndi vuto lalikulu; lingalirani za banja latsopanoli ngati mgwirizano pakati pa mabanja awiri osweka ndipo gawo lirilonse limabwera ndipadera ndi mavuto.
Kusudzulana kumakhala kovuta ndipo kumakhudza kwambiri osati makolo okha komanso ana, ndikuwapangitsa kudziko lachilendo la abale awo opeza, ndipo kholo lopeza lingakhale lolemetsa kwambiri kwa iwo kuti amvetsetse.
Kuyang'anira banja losakanikirana kumafunikira chidwi, kulanga, chisamaliro, komanso mgwirizano.
Monga banja la zida za nyukiliya, imodzi yosakanikirana imagwira ntchito mofananamo, komabe, kuti zinthu zonse m'banja losakanikirana ziziphatikizana, nthawi yayitali komanso kuleza mtima ndichofunikira kwambiri.
Nkhaniyi ifotokoza mwatsatanetsatane njira zosiyanasiyana zomwe zimalimbitsa maziko a banja lopeza; cholinga apa ndikuti ndikuthandizireni kudziwa zomwe mungachite kuti muthane ndi vutoli, kuti inu ndi banja lanu mukhale athanzi limodzi osagawanika mzaka zoyambilira zokha.
Dongosolo, ndi kulanga
Kuti chilichonse chikule bwino, kupambana ndi bata ndizofunikira kwambiri. Ana amafunikira kulangizidwa, amafunikira dongosolo ndi chitsogozo kuchokera kwa makolo awo, kuti athe kukhala moyo wopanda chipwirikiti. Zomwe ananena izi zimaphatikizapo zizolowezi zoyenera kugona, kudya, kuphunzira, komanso nthawi yosewera.
Khazikitsani magawo a ana anu, muwapangira mndandanda kuti amalize ntchito zawo, awathandize ndi homuweki yawo, apatseni nthawi yofikira panyumba ndipo potero akhazikitseni malamulo ofunikira apanyumba omwe akuyenera kutsatira apo ayi apatsidwa maziko.
Kumbukirani izi, kuti ndibwino kusiya chilango kwa makolo obadwa m'zaka zingapo zoyambirira, ndichifukwa choti kholo lopeza silili lachilendo kubanja, ndipo ana nawonso sakuwawona ngati kholo Komanso sawapatsa ufulu wokhala ngati amodzi.
Izi zitha kubweretsa mkwiyo kumbali ya kholo lopeza, chifukwa chake ndibwino kuti kholo lopeza likhale pambali, kukhala tcheru, ndikuthandizira kholo lenileni popereka chilango.
Kuthetsa kusamvana
Nthawi zambiri, mumakumana ndi mikangano pakati pa abale ndi alongo anu, mikangano yomwe ingachitike, kulumikizana molakwika, ndewu zazing'ono, ndi machitidwe osayenerera, ndipo ngati sizingayang'aniridwe m'banja lophatikizana mikangano imatha kukulirakulira ndikumayambitsa ndewu zazikulu osati pakati pa ana okha koma makolo monga chabwino.
Ndikofunikira kuti makolo onse awiri akhale olimba m'malo otentha komanso kuchitapo kanthu molimbika kuti athetse mavuto omwe ana awo akukumana nawo mwachangu. Onetsetsani kuti ana anu onse ali otetezeka, ndipo palibe m'bale wina wamkulu amene akulamulira kapena kuzunza ana.
Ino ndi nthawi yomwe mgwirizano umafunika, ndipo makolo ayenera kugwira ntchito yolumikizana ndi ana kuti awakhazike mtima ndikuwalola kuti akambirane chilichonse chomwe chalimbikitsa nkhondoyi.
Chiyeso chofuna kuyimirira ndi mwana wanu wamoyo chimakupangitsani kuti mukhale okondera.
Ingoganizirani izi ngati banja momwe mamembala onse amafunikiranso ngati mnzanu atha kukana mayesowa kuposa momwe inu mungathere.
Kufanana
Kusankhana kwa chibadwa chanu ndi chibadwa cholumikizidwa, ndipo chimatha kuwongoleredwa ndi kulingalira komanso kulingalira.
Kumbukirani nthawi zonse kuti muzisunga chidwi cha banja lonse pamtima; inde, nonse ndinu banja lodzaza tsopano, ndipo ana a mnzanu ndi anu ndipo mosemphanitsa.
Simungapereke chisomo kwa ana anu ndikuyembekeza kugwira ntchito limodzi; Kufanana ndikofunikira m'banja lophatikizana, palibe amene amalandira chithandizo chapadera kuti akhale ndi mwayi wopeza zamoyo, ngati mwana wanu wasokoneza ndiye kuti adzalangidwa monga ena onse, ndipo zikafika pachikondi ndi chikondi, palibe mwana amene adzanyalanyazidwe.
Kufunika kofanana ndikofunika kwambiri zikafika pakupanga zisankho zomwe zimakhudza banja lonse; Ndiudindo wanu monga makolo kuwonetsetsa kuti mawu onse akumveka, ndipo palibe lingaliro kapena lingaliro lomwe latsalira.
Khalani osavuta monga kusankha malo odyera kapena kugula galimoto, kapena kukonzekera ulendo wabanja, ndi zina zambiri. Mvetserani kuchokera kwa aliyense.
Kutha kwa banja
Pakati pa kulimbana kotereku komanso kokongola nthawi zambiri timaiwala kuti timakhala limodzi ngati banja. Kumbukirani kuti inunso ndinu okwatirana, osati makolo okha.
Khalani ndi nthawi yocheza nokha kapena kupita kukacheza, kungopuma kwa ana ndikuphatikizana.
Kupulumuka kwa banja lanu losakanikirana kumangodalira ubale wanu wina ndi mnzake, kulumikizana komwe inu ndi mnzanu kulumikizana, banja lanu limalumikizidwa kwambiri. Konzani zochitika limodzi zomwe inu nonse mumakonda kuchita; ndi njira yabwino kusiya ana anu kwa achibale kapena oyandikana nawo kuti nonse muzikhala limodzi.