Zamkati
Munthawi yolangizira, mtima wa Kim udakwiya ndikukwiya kwambiri mpaka kudandaula kwambiri atatsanulira nkhani yake ndikulira, akufotokozera momwe adakhumudwitsidwa ndikutumizirana mameseji pafoni yamwamuna wake, yemwe adamutumizira mayi wina kuofesi yake.
Iye anati: “Sindinakhulupirire zomwe ndinali kuwerengazo. “Kupita patsogolo kwake ndi mwana wake wamwamuna akuyankha. Kuphatikiza apo, ndikuwona kuti, ndidawona zopanda pake zomwe adamulembera mameseji sabata zapitazo. ”
Kim adayimilira ndikumayamba kulira kosalamulirika. Patapita mphindi zochepa, adadzisonkhanitsa ndikudzuma, "Ndinadziwa Rich ndipo ndakhala ngati ndili kutali posachedwa, koma sindinaganize kuti angandichite izi!" Mkwiyo udabwerera kunkhope kwake pomwe minofu yake idalimba ndipo adayimba ndi mano ake okuta, "Sindikuganiza kuti ndingamukhululukire. Adalimba mtima bwanji !! ”
N'zomvetsa chisoni kuti nkhaniyi imadziwika bwino.
Kafukufuku wodalirika akuwonetsa kuti kusakhulupirika kumakhudza pafupifupi 50% ya maukwati. Si typo ayi.
Asanakwanitse zaka 40, 50-65% ya amuna okwatiwa ndi akazi 45-55% amawauza kuti asochera kunja kwaukwati wawo. Chifukwa chazomveka pamutu wofufuzayu, zikuwoneka kuti nambalayi sikufotokozedwera, makamaka pakati pa anthu achikhulupiriro.
Chifukwa china
Monga mungaganizire, pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe chiwerengerochi ndi chachikulu modabwitsa. Komabe, pachimake, tikuwona zipembedzo zina wamba. Amuna omwe adasochera mpaka kukhumudwitsidwa kapena kusakhutira ndi kugonana, pomwe azimayiwo amakhala osasangalala komanso osalumikizidwa m'mabanja awo asanamwalire.
Timakonda kuganiza kuti zochitika zonse ndizokhudza zachikondi komanso kukondana. Ndizo zomwe titha kuwona m'ma meseji kapena kumva pafoni, koma kuseri kwa chilichonse ndikufufuza kuti tikwaniritse zosowa zakukondedwa ndi kusamalidwa.
Mwinanso mungadziuze nokha nthawi ina kuti, "Izi sizingachitike kwa ine. Sindidzabera. ”
Ndiroleni ndikuphwanyireni mofatsa- kupatula omwe amagonedwa, aliyense amene anali ndi chibwenzi adanenanso zomwezo. Aliyense amatengeredwa nthawi zina m'mabanja awo. Popeza kusakanikirana koyenera (kapena kolakwika) kwa zochitika, zitha kukuchitikirani.
Nkhani zoipa zokwanira. Chibwenzi sichiyenera kukhala nkhani yanu. Ndi chisamaliro choyenera ndi chisamaliro, mutha kukhala nawo pazinthu zomwe sizinachitike.
"B" atatu omwe angalepheretse kusakhulupirika
1. Khalani dala
Maanja ambiri omwe ndimakumana nawo muofesi yolangiza akufuna kukonza kapena kupulumutsa maanja awo amavomereza kuti anali otanganidwa ndi zinthu zina, ndipo akayang'ana m'mbuyo, amawona kuti asiya chidwi ndi mnzawoyo. Osati dala, popita nthawi ntchito, ana, Netflix, pulogalamu yamasewera yaposachedwa idalowa m'malo omwe amasungirana.
Gawo lalikulu la yankho labwino laukwati ndikupeza nthawi yolumikizirana pafupipafupi. Zozama, ndikudziwa.
Sikuti nthawi yochulukira imagawidwa, ndizochita nthawi yomwe mudagawana. Lingaliro limodzi lothandiza ndikupanga "mwambo wolumikizanso" womwe mungayembekezere madzulo aliwonse mutabwerera kunyumba. Zitha kukhala chilichonse kuchokera pakugawana kapu ya vinyo palimodzi mpaka kugulitsa mabatani am'mbuyo kuti muwonere kanema woseketsa kuti mupumule. Sangalalani ndikuwona malingaliro omwe angakuthandizeni inu ndi mnzanuyo.
2. Khalani okonzeka
Izi "be" zimatsatira mwachilengedwe kuyambira koyambirira. Gwiritsani ntchito mwanzeru nthawi yomwe muli limodzi pansi padenga limodzi. M'dziko lamakono lamakono lamakono, tili ndi "chinthu" chimodzi chomwe tingachite chomwe chimatipangitsa ife kukhala otanganidwa ndi okwatirana. Nthawi zambiri, sitimafuna kusokoneza (kapena timatero, koma kuwopa zotsatira zake) kotero timakhala nthawi yayitali tili chete, kudikirira kutsegulidwa, kapena timakhala otanganidwa mdziko lathu laling'ono.
Ndikutcha izi popezeka mosadziwa. Chiwopsezo- dziwitseni mnzanu kuti mukufuna kulumikizana! Ngati nthawi yanu yolankhula ndi yokhudza dongosolo komanso maudindo, mupeza kuti sikokwanira kudyetsa ubalewo. Amayi nthawi zambiri amadandaula kuti samva kuti amuna awo amawamvera akamayesetsa kutulutsa zofunikira kwa iwo.
Amuna athu nthawi zambiri timawona zokambirana za akazi ngati mayitanidwe oti athetse vutoli ndikusunga tsikulo, osasowa chifukwa cha mkaziyo chobweretsa nkhaniyi. Onani zokambirana ngati mwayi woti mumve momwe banja lanu lakhalira malinga ndi malingaliro a mnzanu. Cholinga sikuti chimagwirizana, ndikupezeka.
Ndimakonda kunena kuti, "Khalidwe logonana kwambiri mwa mwamuna kapena mkazi ndilokonzeka kusintha." Nthawi zambiri pamene okwatirana akumva kuti angathe kugawana mitima yawo NDI kumvedwa, kusintha kumachitika.
3. Chenjerani
Monga ngati tikufuna mzere wa Ashley Madison "Moyo ndi waufupi. Khalani ndi chibwenzi, ”kutikumbutsa kuti banja silimalemekezedwa ngati kale, dzitengereni nokha kuteteza banja lanu, kwa adani akunja komanso apabanja.
- Mukapatukana, yang'anani mayendedwe anu. Zinthu sizimayamba ndi masitepe akulu, koma mapazi amwana. Khalani ndi anthu abwino. Khalani ndi nthawi yocheza ndi anzanu omwe amalemekeza ukwati wanu. Ngati anzanu satero, mutha kupeza ena omwe amachita. Tonsefe timafunikira mapiko kapena mapiko kuti atithandizire kuwuluka nthawi zina.
- Tsopano za adani akunyumba amenewo, omwe amadziwika kuti ana. Muyenera kuwaletsa kuti azibera nthawi ya banja lanu chifukwa atenga chilichonse chomwe mungawapatse. Ikani malire pakumusokoneza nthawi yakudzuka ndikukhala m'zipinda zawo pambuyo pa miyambo yogona. Amatha kuzilingalira, ndipo mudzawatumizira uthenga wabwino wazomwe angachite m'banja lawo lamtsogolo tsiku lina.
Izi "kukhala" ndi malo abwino kuyambirirapo kuti banja lanu likhale losamalidwa bwino komanso lolimba. Hei, banja limayenda ngati mukugwira ntchito.