Zamkati
- Gawo 1: Phunzirani kudzikonda
- Gawo 2: Pezani zenizeni (popanda kuweruza) zamomwe mumakhalira pachibwenzi
- Gawo 3: Khalani osapeputsa inu
Kupeza ubale woyenera kumamveka ngati kuwombera zopanda pake. Pali magawo ambiri osunthira kuubwenzi-kukongola, kudalirana, kuwona mtima, kulumikizana, kukondana, moyo wogonana, ndi zina zambiri - zomwe zitha kumveka ngati palibe chiyembekezo chopeza munthu m'modzi yemwe mutha kukhala moyo wanu wonse.
Ndabwera kudzakuuzani kuti pali chiyembekezo. Kupeza munthu "woyenera" si kovuta chifukwa ndizosatheka. Ndizovuta chifukwa timazichita molakwika. Timayang'ana panja kudziko lapansi ndipo tikuyembekeza kuti tikhoza kupeza wina woti atikwaniritse, m'malo mongoyang'ana mkati mwathu ndikudziyesa tokha, choyamba.
Chinsinsi cha maubwenzi abwino ndikugwira ntchito yomwe muli nayo nokha.
Tiyeni tiweruzenso kumbuyo kuti timveke bwino.
Chinsinsi cha maubwenzi abwino ndikugwira ntchito yomwe muli nayo nokha.
Zingamveke kukhala zomveka kwa inu, ndipo ngati zitero, lolani kuti chikhale chizindikiro choti muyenera kudalira ndikumvetsera. Pali lingaliro langa, zinthu zitatu zomwe muyenera kuthana ndi vuto musanapeze chibwenzi choyenera - kapena, lolani ubale wabwino ukupezeni.
Tsatirani masitepewo, perekani chidwi chanu kwa aliyense, ndipo khalani oleza mtima pochita izi. Ubale wamaloto anu wayandikira.
Gawo 1: Phunzirani kudzikonda
Ili ndiye gawo lovuta kwambiri, koma ngati mutha kuthana ndi hump, mudzakhala ndi mwayi wambiri kuti mudutse ena awiriwo. Kuphunzira kudzikonda nokha ndi njira ziwiri: choyamba, muyenera kuzindikira zomwe mumachita bwino ndipo zofooka zanu. Ndiye muyenera kuwayamikira ndi kuwakonda chifukwa cha zomwe ali.
Kuti mupeze zenizeni ndi magawo onse a njirayi, muyenera kupanga malo m'moyo wanu. Pangani mtunda pakati pa inu ndi anthu oopsa omwe angakulepheretseni kuweruza kwanu. Pangani malo anu mwa kusinkhasinkha kapena kunyamula zosangalatsa zomwe mumakonda. Chitani chilichonse chomwe mungathe kuti mudzipatse malo oyenera kukhala pansi ndikudziwona nokha momwe mulili.
Gawo lirilonse la inu liri ndi phindu. Sangalalani ndi zomwe mumachita bwino, zindikirani pomwe mungasinthe. Zonse ndi potengera kosangalatsa kwa omwe inu muli.
Nayi fungulo, komabe: ngati simungathe kuzindikira ukulu wanu muzabwino ndi zoyipa za inu, palibe wina amene adzatero. Mpaka mutayamika zonse zomwe muli komanso kukhala nazo, padzakhala kukayika kosatsutsika komwe mumapereka. Zili ngati "mtundu wabwino wotsutsa ubale" wamtundu uliwonse. Anthu amva kukayikira kumeneku ndipo safuna kutenga nawo mbali pazonyamulazo.
Musadumphe STEPI IYI.
Momwe mumadzichitira nokha ndi chikwangwani chosonyeza aliyense momwe muyenera kuchitira. Onetsetsani kuti uthengawo ndi wabwino.
Gawo 2: Pezani zenizeni (popanda kuweruza) zamomwe mumakhalira pachibwenzi
Tsopano popeza mwaphunzira nokha bwino pang'ono (sizikhala bwino, ndife anthu chabe), ndi nthawi yoti muwerenge zakale zanu.
Ndi anthu amtundu wanji omwe mwakhala nawo pachibwenzi?
Chidasokonekera ndi chiyani mu ubale wanu?
Kodi zochita zanu zidathandizira bwanji kuwononga maubwenziwa?
Mukamayang'ana m'mbuyo pamaubwenzi anu akale, mudzayamba kuzindikira mtundu. Mutha kuzindikira kuti mwasankha anthu omwe mumadziwa kuti simungawakhulupirire kuti musavutike ngati atachita manyazi. Mutha kuzindikira kuti anthu omwe mudalowapo analibe zambiri zomwe zikuchitika m'miyoyo yawo. Mwinamwake mumafuna kudzimva wapamwamba, kapena mwina mumafuna kukhala pakati pa dziko lawo.
Mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, onani ndondomekoyi momwe ilili. Dziwonetseni nokha chisomo. Khalani okoma mtima ku umunthu wanu wakale. Tonsefe ndife olakwitsa, inu simuli osiyana.
Tsopano popeza mukudziwa mtundu wanji sanatero ntchito, yambani kusintha zinthu. Yesetsani kupewa anthu omwe amakukumbutsani zakale. Sinthani dala komwe mukupita kapena zomwe mumachita.
Kuchita zomwe mumachita m'mbuyomu sikungakupezereni zabwino mtsogolo. Vomerezani komwe mwalakwitsa, kenako sinthani khalidweli kuti muitane anthu abwinoko kudziko lanu.
Gawo 3: Khalani osapeputsa inu
Gawo ili ndilosangalatsa kwambiri, chifukwa ndiye fyuluta yomaliza. Mukuyambitsa anthu omwe sali oyenera kwa inu, ndikukoka omwe ali abwino kwa inu. Itha kusokosera anthu ena m'njira yolakwika, koma ngati itero ... kuwombera em.
Mukamaliza ntchitoyi kuti muzidzikonda nokha pang'ono, ndikuzindikira zolakwika zanu zakale, mutha kulowa nsapato zomwe mumayenera kuyenda nthawi yonseyi. Mudzakhala ndi chidaliro komanso kukhala maginito kwa anthu abwino omwe angayamikire chidutswa chilichonse chifukwa chokhala kwanu.
Kodi zikhala zomangika poyamba? Mwamtheradi.
Koma padzakhala zokongola pano kuposa chilichonse chomwe mudakumana nacho m'mbuyomu pomwe mudapunthwa kuchokera kwa munthu wina ndi mnzake. Ichi chidzakhala chizindikiro chanu kudziko lapansi kuti mwakonzeka kwa aliyense amene angakugwireni.
Munthu ameneyo abwera, ndikukulonjezani.
Masitepe atatuwa ndi agolide, ndipo mungakhale anzeru kuwapatsa iwo ngati mukufunafuna Bambo kapena Akazi Akwanu. Ali kunja uko, koma sadzapeza njira yakufikirani mpaka mutayamba kudzikonda nokha ndikuwonetsa kudziko lomwe lazungulirani.
Zabwino zonse. Zatsala pang'ono kukhala zabwino kwenikweni kwa inu.