Zamkati
- Lembani mavuto anu onse, koma yang'anani paudindo wanu
- Chimalimbikitsidwa - Sungani Njira Yanu Yokwatirana
- Phunzirani momwe mungalankhulire m'njira yolimbikitsa
- Chotsani ochita nawo zazikuluzikulu
- Chitani zinthu zabwino m'banja lanu
Amuna ndi akazi awo nthawi zambiri amapita kukaonana ndi dokotala wama psychos ndi funso momwe angathetsere mavuto am'banja nthawi isanathe. Nthawi zina, mwatsoka, pamenepo ndiye. Koma, kwa ambiri, bola ngati angakumbukire nthawi zabwino zomwe adagawana limodzi, pali chiyembekezo. Musayembekezere kungopulumutsa ukwatiwo, koma kusintha ndikusintha kukhala zomwe amaganiza kuti ndi ubale wabwino pomwe amalonjeza. Ndiye, kodi maanjawa amateteza bwanji ukwati wawo kumabwinja? Nazi zinthu zinayi zomwe muyenera kuchita mukamayesetsa kuthetsa mavuto am'banja musanathe.
Lembani mavuto anu onse, koma yang'anani paudindo wanu
Onse okwatirana amamenyana. Iwo omwe satenga nawo mkangano mwina ali ndi vuto lalikulu lakusowa kumasuka. Koma, kwa ambiri omwe amasemphana pano ndi apo, pali njira zoyenera komanso zosakwanira zothetsera mavutowa. Chifukwa chake, pakadali pano, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito mavuto anu ndikuwatembenuza kuti mupindule.
Kodi mumachita bwanji izi? Lembani mndandanda, poyambira. Lembani zonse zomwe mumalimbana nazo, kapena mukamalimbana nazo (zikadakhala kuti simunapewe kuzitchula poyambirira pomenya nkhondo). Ndipo khalani owona mtima momwe mungathere popeza izi zitha kupanga kusiyana pakati pakupanga ndi kulephera.
Gawo lofunikira kwambiri pantchitoyi ndikuti inu muziyang'ana paudindo wanu pamavutowa. Sitikunena kuti ndi vuto lanu, ayi. Koma, panthawiyi, mudzayamba kuphunzira luso lina lofunika - kusiya kudzudzula ena ndikungoyang'ana pazomwe mungathe kuwongolera komanso kusintha. Mwanjira ina, wokondedwa aliyense ayenera kuphunzira kutsogolera zomwe akuchita, kuti njirayi ikhale ndi mwayi wopambana. Kuimbirana mlandu pamavuto osatenga udindo wanu wolakwa kungakhale chimodzi mwazifukwa zomwe ukwati wafikira poyamba.
Chimalimbikitsidwa - Sungani Njira Yanu Yokwatirana
Phunzirani momwe mungalankhulire m'njira yolimbikitsa
Pomaliza, zomwe zanenedwa zimabwera gawo lotsatira la ndondomekoyi, kukonza mavuto am'banja m'njira zinayi, zomwe ndi kulumikizana kwabwino. Maukwati amalephera chifukwa chiŵerengero pakati pa kulumikizana kwabwino ndi zoyipa chili pafupi kwambiri (kapena choyipa chimakhalapo). Mitundu yonse yodzudzula, kukalipira, kunyoza, kunyoza, kupsa mtima ndi mkwiyo, zonse zomwe zimagwera mgulu lachiwiri, ndipo onse ayenera kupita.
Chifukwa chiyani? Kupatula kuthekera kwakukulu kwamanenedwe achinyengo ndi udani wapoyera wowononga chidaliro cha wolandirayo komanso kufunitsitsa kwawo kuwonetsa chikondi, sizomangika. Sanena chilichonse za momwe mumamvera ndi zomwe mukufuna, samathetsa chilichonse. Malingana ngati mukungokhalirana, mukuwononga nthawi yomwe mukadakhala kuti mwathetsa mavuto am'banja.
Chifukwa chake, m'malo mochita zinthu zosakwanira munthawi yanu komanso pachibwenzi, yesetsani kufotokoza momveka bwino. Inde, mungafunikire kuyeseza ndikusintha njira yolumikizirana ndi mnzanu kwambiri. Koma, zomwe mumachita mpaka pano sizinali kugwira ntchito, sichoncho? Zomwe muyenera kuchita ndikugwiritsa ntchito template yotsatirayi nthawi iliyonse mukakhala ndi nkhani yovuta: fotokozerani momwe mukumvera, fotokozerani nkhawa zanu ndi malingaliro anu, fotokozani yankho, ndipo funsani malingaliro a mnzanu pa yankho lomwe mukufuna.
Chotsani ochita nawo zazikuluzikulu
Mukamaliza kuyankha tsiku lililonse pazokambirana, muyenera kuyang'ana kwa omwe akuthetsa banja lanu. Izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala mkwiyo, chigololo, ndi zosokoneza. Maukwati ambiri sakupyola pamavuto akulu awa. Koma omwe amatero, amatero pomaliza ukwati wotere ndikuyamba watsopano. Watsopano wokhala ndi mnzanu yemweyo, koma osakhala ndi zizolowezi zopweteka kwambiri komanso zowononga.
Chitani zinthu zabwino m'banja lanu
Banja likafika poti silingabwererenso, pomwe maanja akuyenera kusankha ngati apitiliza njira yomweyo kapena kusintha njira zawo, maanja ambiri aiwala kale mbali zabwino zaubwenzi wawo. Iwo adagwa m'phompho la kuwawa ndi mkwiyo.
Komabe, mukafuna kupulumutsa ukwati, muyenera kukumbukira zabwino za ukwatiwo. Ndipo kuposa pamenepo. Muyenera kuyang'ana kwathunthu. Muyenera kuyesetsa kuthana ndi zovuta zakale komanso zotopetsa ndikuyambiranso, kutengera zomwe banja lanu limachita.