Zamkati
- 1. Musagone mkwiyo, khalani maso ndi kumenyana usiku wonse!
- 2. Musaiwale mawu atatu awa, "Tiyeni tipite!"
- 3. Siyani chimbudzi pansi
- 4. Amayi, musamachite phokoso ngati salira
- 5. Musamve kunyansidwa ngati iye akubowola chifukwa iye adzatero
- 6. Muzidyetsana kwambiri
- 7. Limbanani ndi mnzanu
Ndi chizolowezi kupereka upangiri waukwati womwe umakhala wovuta kwambiri. Anthu omwe angolowa kumene m'banja amalangizidwa momwe ayenera kuchitira zinthu, momwe angakhalire komanso zomwe anganene kapena zomwe sayenera kuchita! Kumanga moyo ndi munthu amene mwasankha kuti mukhale mnzanu sindiye nthabwala ndipo ziyenera kutengedwa mozama, koma nthawi zonse pamakhala mbali yopepuka pazonse.
Palibe? Upangiri wosangalatsa waukwati kwa omwe akumanga mfundo ndi chinthu chomwe chimapangitsa nthabwala ku lingaliro laukwati, ndikupangitsa kukhala kosangalatsa komanso chosangalatsa! Nthawi zambiri ndimasewera omwe anthu amasewera patsiku laukwati powalangiza banjali kapena nthawi zina pamakhala mutu wabwino kwambiri pamaphwando apabanja kapena maphwando akwati!
Gawo lomwe langokwatirana kumene m'banja ndi gawo limodzi labwino kwambiri popeza awiriwo sanakhale ndi nthawi yotopana kapena kutopa wina ndi mnzake. Anthu omwe angokwatirana kumene ali ndi chidwi chovala anzawo komanso kuyesetsa tsiku lonse kuti aziwoneka bwino. Mizere yachikondi, yachikondi imamvekabe bwino ndipo tsiku la Valentine silinathenso kukongola! Gawo ili likuwonetsa kuyambika kwaubwenzi wokongola womwe, nthawi zina, umakumana ndi zovuta koma umalonjeza ubale wosatha wachikondi ndi kudalirana.
Nawa ena malangizo oseketsa koma othandiza kwambiri oseketsa aukwatiwo!
1. Musagone mkwiyo, khalani maso ndi kumenyana usiku wonse!
Ndi upangiri woseketsa waukwati kwa anthu omwe angokwatirana kumene, komabe uli ndi tanthauzo pamenepo. Mwamuna ndi mkazi sayenera kugona atangomenyana. Ndibwino kulimbana ndi mkwiyo ndikukangana m'malo mosiya zonse ziziyenda mumtima mwanu osalankhulana.
Uwu ndi upangiri wodabwitsa chifukwa umamveka wopanda pake koma uli ndi tanthauzo lalikulu ngati ungayang'anitsidwe. Zithandizadi kuti zinthu zizioneka bwino pomwe mkangano woyamba pambuyo paukwati utayamba. Kusamvana kwakukulu pakati pa maanja nthawi zambiri kumangokhala zazing'ono zomwe zimayenera kuthetsedwa nthawi yomweyo kapena kusekedwa! Zowonadi, ndewu zina zimafunikira kuposa tsiku lokhazikika, koma yesani kuwona ngati sizingathetsedwe usiku umodzi musanazitchule tsiku.
2. Musaiwale mawu atatu awa, "Tiyeni tipite!"
Kungakhale tsiku lobadwa la mnzanu kapena chikondwerero cha kupambana kapena mwina tsiku lina; usiku wa tsiku nthawi zonse ndi lingaliro labwino kwambiri. Anthu ochepa amawona ngati zakale ndipo amazitcha "sukulu yakale" koma chinthu chimodzi choyenera kukumbukiridwa ndichakuti "maanja omwe amakhala limodzi amakhala limodzi!"
3. Siyani chimbudzi pansi
Osakwatirana, anthu okwatirana samakhala ndi chidziwitso chokhala pakati pawo, ndipo akakwatirana, nthawi zambiri amakambirana momveka bwino za yemwe wachoka mchimbudzi chonyansa. Zikhala zonyansa koma khulupirirani kapena ayi, sizachilendo. Nthawi zina, ndimakhala iye amene adayiwala kusamba asanachoke ndipo nthawi ina amakhala iye amene adayiwala kukhetsa msanga kuphika chakudya!
4. Amayi, musamachite phokoso ngati salira
Amangopeza zovuta kuti asonyeze kutengeka kumeneko. Akazi amafuna kuti amuna awo awalirire (monga makanema). Ndi amuna ochepa omwe amatero! Koma ngati satero, musaganize kuti ndizachilendo. Nayi malangizo oseketsa aukwati kwa banjali kuti. Khulupirirani za kukondana wina ndi mnzake ngakhale wina asakuwonetsere bwino ngati nyenyezi yomwe mwakhala mukuphwanya posachedwapa!
5. Musamve kunyansidwa ngati iye akubowola chifukwa iye adzatero
Ndipo adzachita zimenezo kwambiri! Chifukwa chake khalani okonzekera kubowoleza kwambiri mukangokwatirana. Ndipo kwa anyamata, musadabwe ngati ali wotanganidwa ndi utoto wake wamisomali ndi zinthu zosamalira khungu. Ndi momwe akazi alili!
6. Muzidyetsana kwambiri
Zitha kuwoneka zopusa komanso zazabwana koma "chakudya" chimatha kupanga chilichonse padziko lapansi.Ngati inu nonse mumalimbana ndi china chake, mungodyetsana wina ndi mnzake, kupatsana chakudya wina ndi mnzake, atha kukhala chokoleti, nas kapena mac ndi tchizi! Komanso, pamene mumadya kwambiri, simutha kuyankhula. Zitha kumveka ngati upangiri wina woseketsa waukwati kwa banjali, koma ingochitani ndikuwona matsenga!
7. Limbanani ndi mnzanu
Ndikukhulupirira, uwu ndi upangiri wosangalatsa kwambiri waukwati kwa banjali womwe ungachitike nthawi zambiri! Ngati mukufuna kuti mnzanu achite zinazake, mutsutseni ponena kuti ntchitoyo sangakwanitse. Imeneyi ndi njira imodzi yopezera kudzidalira komwe munthu ali nako ndipo ngakhale samachita ndi mtima wonse, adzagwira ntchitoyo. Ndipo ndi zomwe mumafuna poyamba. Sichoncho?
Kuti ubale ukhale wathanzi, payenera kukhala mbali yofewa komanso yopepuka chifukwa amakhulupirira kuti ubale wachimwemwe ndi mgwirizano wachikondi, nthabwala, komanso zoseketsa!