Zamkati
- Malangizo Oseketsa Akwatibwi
- Upangiri Woseketsa Amiyala
- Malangizo Oseketsa Onse
- Kodi taphunzira chiyani kuchokera ku malangizowa?
Maukwati amapereka mwayi kwa aliyense kuti achite zisangalalo zawo, ndipo upangiri woseketsa kwa mkwati ndi mkwatibwi ukupitilizabe kubwera. Pamene inu ndi mnzanu wamtsogolo mukonzekera malonjezo anu ndikuyesera kufotokoza chikondi chosatha ndikuyamikira mwachikondi momwe mungathere, ena onse akuwoneka kuti akufuna njira yoseketsa kwambiri pabanja. Ndiye, chochita ndi chiyani? Tiyeni titenge kanthawi kuti tiwone mbali ina ya malangizowo, ndipo mwina tipeze zina mwa ngale zosafunsidwazi za nzeru.
Malangizo Oseketsa Akwatibwi
"Amuna ali ngati moto - amatuluka ngati palibe amene akuyang'anira." - Zsa Zsa Gabor. Zomwe Zsa Zsa adayesa kufotokoza apa ndikuti, monganso azimayi, amuna sayenera kunyalanyazidwa kokha chifukwa tsopano anena I dos. Kugonana ndi chibwenzi sikuyenera kutha.
"Ukwati ndi mawu wamba otengera mwana wamwamuna wokula msinkhu yemwe sangathe kuyang'aniridwa ndi makolo ake ..." - Malangizowa amatiuza moseketsa kuti amuna nthawi zina amakhala achichepere, koma amayeneranso ulemu wathu, chifukwa chake samalani kuti musawachite ngati ana - ndipo sangadzakhale ngati iwowo.
“Njira yabwino kwambiri yopezera amuna ambiri kuchita zinazake ndi kungonena kuti mwina ndi okalamba kwambiri.”- Anatero Ann Bancroft. Ichi ndiye chilimbikitso choyipa kwambiri, koma ngati palibe china chilichonse chimagwira, chimaloledwa.
Kukhala m'banja kuli ngati kukhala ndi bwenzi lapamtima lomwe silikumbukira chilichonse chomwe ukunena. ” - Amayi amalankhula zochulukirapo kuposa amuna, ndipo amuna nthawi zambiri samangomva chilichonse, kapena nthawi zambiri amawona ngati opanda ntchito.
Upangiri Woseketsa Amiyala
“Mwamuna aliyense amafuna mkazi wokongola, womvetsetsa, wosamalira ndalama komanso wodziwa kuphika. Koma lamulolo limapatsa mkazi m'modzi yekha ” - Malangizowa akusonyeza kuti sitingayembekezere kuti mayi m'modzi azikhala nazo zonse. Koma amuna ayenera kuphunzira kukonda akazi awo momwe iwo aliri ndikuzindikira momwe alili apadera komanso odabwitsa.
“Pali zinthu ziwiri zofunika kuti mkazi akhale wosangalala. Choyamba, muloleni iye aganize kuti ali ndi njira yakeyake. Ndipo chachiwiri, amutenge. ” - Amayi amakonda kusunthira pachinthu china ngati akukhulupirira kuti akulondola, ndipo upangiriwu umawululira amuna kuti njira yosavuta ndikutulutsa.
“Kumvera mkazi kuli ngati kuwerenga malamulo a webusaitiyi. Simukumvetsa chilichonse, komabe, mumangonena kuti: "Ndikuvomereza!" - Mofananamo ndiupangiri waupangiri woseketsa wakale, uyu akuwulula kuti azimayi samangolankhula zambiri, koma amalankhula mosiyana mosiyana ndi amuna, malingaliro awo padziko lapansi amasiyana, ndipo awiri amafunikira nthawi kuti apeze chilankhulo.
"Mkazi akati" Chani? ", Sikuti sanakumve, akukupatsa mwayi kuti usinthe zomwe wanena." - Apanso, amayi amawoneka kuti akuyenera kutsimikizira kuti akunena zowona pang'ono kuposa momwe amuna amachitira, kapena zimawoneka malinga ndi malingaliro amwamuna. Ndipo njira yachangu kwambiri, koma osati yoyenera, ndikudzipereka. Komabe, lingaliro labwino ndikulankhula modzipereka komanso mwaulemu zakusiyana.
Malangizo Oseketsa Onse
"Wokwatirana naye: munthu amene angakuthandizeni pamavuto onse omwe simukadakhala nawo mukadakhala osakwatira." - Njira yoseketsa yosonyeza kuti banja ndi ntchito yovuta kwambiri kuthetsa kusamvana. Koma, maubwino ake nthawi zambiri amapitilira mavuto.
“Mabanja onse ndi osangalala. Ndi chifukwa choti timakhala limodzi pambuyo pake ndipo timayambitsa mavuto onse. ” - Raymond Hull. Zomwe Hull akuwonetsa ndikuti, mwina, kutsatira malamulo amakhalidwe okhwima mwamakhalidwe atha kukhala chifukwa cha zinthu zambiri zomwe zitha kupewedwa ndikusinthasintha.
“Chikondi ndi khungu. Koma ukwati umayambitsanso kuona. ” - Ngakhale malangizowa amayenera kukhala okhumudwitsa pang'ono, ilinso ndi mbali ina, yomwe ndikuti m'banja, timamudziwa bwino munthu wina mpaka timamvetsetsa zolakwa zawo, ndipo, makamaka, timawakonda.
"M'moyo, nthawi zonse tiyenera kukhala otseguka. Komabe, titakwatirana, ndi bwino kuti nthawi zina tizitsekana nawo! ” - ... Ndipo kulekerera zolakwa za anzathu amoyo, m'malo mongotaya mnzathu chifukwa cha iwo.
Kodi taphunzira chiyani kuchokera ku malangizowa?
Pamapeto pake, monga china chilichonse chofunikira pamoyo, pangakhale upangiri umodzi wokha womwe ndiofunika kuwutenga, ndipo ndiwo - musachite chilichonse chomwe chimasemphana ndi mfundo zanu ndi zikhulupiriro zanu. Mukatero, mudzataya nokha, ndipo simudzakhala wabwino kwa inu nokha komanso kwa wokondedwa wanu ndi banja lanu. Chifukwa chake, upangiri wonsewu umavumbula zambiri za chibadwa cha anthu komanso momwe maukwati amakhalira nthawi zambiri, koma samanena kanthu kalikonse momveka, ndipo ndizo - nthawi zonse dzilemekezeni nokha, okondedwa anu, ndi kusiyana kwanu. Iyi ndiye njira yokhayo yosangalalira.