Zamkati
- Moyo pambuyo pa nthawi yachisanu
- Pezani chikondi chanu ndi chidwi chanu kubwerera
- 1. Pezani malo pang'ono (ndi nthawi)
- 2. Pitani pa tsiku loyamba kachiwiri
- 3. Tchuthi
- 4. Mverani anzanu enieni
- 5. Kulimbikitsa nyumbayo
- Ubale gawo lotsatira pambuyo paukwati limatengera anzawo
Gawo lokondwerera ukwati ndi chiyambi cha chibwenzi pomwe anthu awiri amakhala pamlingo wokwanira wokhutira ndi mahomoni. Imeneyi ndi njira yachilengedwe yopangira maanja pamodzi ndikuwatsogolera ku gawo lina laubwenzi wawo.
Gawo lokhala pachibwenzi pambuyo paukwati ndilolimbikitsa chifukwa mtundu wa chikondi chomwe anthu amayamikira ndichosokoneza. Kumbukirani, zimatenga chaka kuti mumudziwe bwino munthu wina.
Chilichonse chatsopano chidzatha ndikuchoka posachedwa.
Gawo lapaukwati lingasokoneze ubale wanu mukamayambiranso kukhala ndi moyo wabwinobwino.
M'malo mwake, muyenera kukhala otsimikiza kuti kusokonekera uku sikuwononga ubale wanu. Pazifukwa izi, anthuwa amafunika kukhala ndi ubale wabwino pomwe pali chisamaliro, chithandizo, ndi kumvetsetsa pakati pa abwenzi, chomangira chomwe kulingalira, kufanana, ndi kuyamika kumalamulira kwakukulu.
Moyo pambuyo pa nthawi yachisanu
Tsopano popeza mukudziwa gawo lokonzekera tchuthi, ndiye kuti muyenera kudziwa momwe gawo lokondwerera ukwati lingakhudzire ubale uliwonse? Mwina chenjezo lalikulu kuubwenzi uliwonse ndikumapeto kwa gawo laukwati.
Kodi nthawi yachisangalalo imatha liti? Kapena, nthawi yokondwerera nthawi yayitali imatenga nthawi yayitali bwanji? Chithumwa choyambacho chikayamba kusokonekera kapena agulugufe omwe mumakhala nawo patsogolo panu atayamba kuzimiririka, mudzadziwa kuti nthawi yokondwerera yatha.
Chilichonse chimangowoneka ngati chopanda mphamvu panthawiyi.
Mukakhala ndi nthawi yabwino m'mbuyomu limodzi, zimakhala zovuta kulingalira kuti izi zingachitike. Komabe, ndizovuta kwambiri kuti mukhale kutali ndi izi.
Izi zikutanthauza kuti pakhoza kukhala zochitika zomwe zingayambitse ndewu zambiri zomwe zitha kumaliza ubale wonse.
Zonsezi zidzachitika mukasokoneza kutayika kwa chilakolako ndi kutayika kwa chikondi. Kuphatikiza apo, zisokonezo izi zikutanthauza kuti anthu ambiri ataya ubale wawo. Osati kokha izi zimangobweretsa kusamvana, komanso pamapeto pake zimadzetsa nkhawa komanso kukhumudwa.
Kodi mukuyenera kudziwa zomwe zikuchitika mukayamba kumva ngati izi? Mungadziwe bwanji ngati ubale wanu ukusintha kapena mukukumana ndi mavuto akulu? Kapena, nthawi yayitali yayitali bwanji? Kodi ubale wanu watha? Ndi zina zotero.
Pezani chikondi chanu ndi chidwi chanu kubwerera
Gawo lokondwerera ukwati latha! Komabe, kuzengereza pazinthu kungakusiyeni mukukayika. Kapena, mwina ndi mwayi wabwino woti mukhudzidwe ndi malingaliro akale. Chifukwa chake, bwererani munthawi yake kuti mukapeze zolimbikitsira zakale za ubale wanu 'womwe ukulephera' tsopano.
Nawa malingaliro. Komabe, ngati zinthuzi sizigwira ntchito masiku atangotha kumene tchuthi, mwina mavutowa ndiofunika pamenepo.
1. Pezani malo pang'ono (ndi nthawi)
Sitingathe kutsindika izi mokwanira, makamaka ngati mukumva kutopa ndi ubalewo. Mwina mumawonana mopitilira muyeso, kapena mwina zakhala zogwirizana kwa nthawi yayitali.
Mulimonsemo, kupanga mayendedwe mosiyana kuchokera kwa wina ndi mnzake kwakanthawi kungakuthandizeni kuti mumvetsetse zosowa za wina ndi mnzake m'miyoyo yanu. Simungaphonye wina ndi mnzake ngati simunalekanitsidwe.
Izi zitha kutenga masiku 14 osawonana, kapena zitha kutanthauza kukonzekera ulendo wamasiku awiri kunyumba kwa mnzanu wapamtima ndikudzipulumutsa pamutu pawo. Khalani osamala momwe mumalankhulira izi, popeza kufunsa nthawi yopatukana kumamveka koopsa ngati kupatukana ngati simukudziwa.
2. Pitani pa tsiku loyamba kachiwiri
Izi sizimangokhala zosokoneza monga zikumveka.
Mfundo apa ndikuti mubwezeretse kukhudzidwa kwamatsenga oyamba aja potulutsa kumverera kwakale. Valani bwino. Osapita kumalo limodzi. Onetsani nokha kuti zimve chimodzimodzi momwe ziyenera kukhalira.
Zachidziwikire, masiku ano muli ndi chizolowezi chowonana wina ndi mnzake mu mapijama odabwitsawo, mukudya mchere mumphika limodzi, ndipo ndizodabwitsa. Komabe, kuyeserera pang'ono mothandizana kudzakuthandizani kukumbukira chifukwa chake zimakuthandizirani kale.
3. Tchuthi
Kwenikweni, izi ndizofotokozera. Sizimapanga kusiyana pano, komabe, ndichinthu chomwe nonse muyenera kuchita. Chosangalatsa ndichakuti, mukuchita zinthu ngati gulu zomwe simunachitepo.
Ndibwino kuti musamangopanga zinthu zazikuluzikulu. Mutha kuyesa zinthu zatsopano ndikuzichita bwino limodzi. Kuphatikiza apo, mutha kupitiliza kuyesa zatsopano ngati mukutsimikiza kuti ntchito ndi zizolowezi zomwe zikulepheretsa chisangalalo chaubwenzi wanu.
4. Mverani anzanu enieni
Kupeza malingaliro akunja pa ubale wanu kungakhale chinthu chokha chomwe chingakuthandizeni kukumbukira komwe mungapite kukasiya wokondedwa wanu kwakanthawi.
Izi ndizodabwitsa kwambiri ngati muli ndi bwenzi lenileni loti mupiteko, omwe angakupatseni kumverera bwino kwa ubalewo komanso momwe angawonekere malinga ndi momwe theka lanu likuwonera.
5. Kulimbikitsa nyumbayo
Izi sizodabwitsa chifukwa nyumbayo ndi malo okhawo omwe mungafune kupumula.
Limbikitsani njira zobwezeretsera kukhudzidwa kwa mphamvu zoyambirirazo. Muyenera kuti mudayamba ubalewo ndikuthokoza komanso chimwemwe. Kupezanso zokondana za wina ndi mnzake kudzakupangitsani kuti muyandikire kwambiri.
Izi sizitanthauza kuti muyenera kukonzanso malo onsewo, mwina zokumana nazo zosangalatsa, mwina mbale yomwe mumakonda, mwina maluwa abwino tsiku lililonse, ndi zina zambiri.
Zinthu izi zitha kugwira ntchito yambiri.
Uzani mnzanu za njira yatsopanoyi kuti awathandizire kudziwa momwe iwonso alili. Kuzengereza kulikonse pakusintha kungakutsogolereni ku malingaliro olakwika ambiri. Angakupatseninso zina zomwe mukuyesera kuzipewa panokha.
Ubale gawo lotsatira pambuyo paukwati limatengera anzawo
Momwe ubale wanu umapitilira gawo lokondwerera ukwati, lili m'manja mwanu.
Mutha kuyilola kuti imire kapena kuyikweza pogwiritsa ntchito njira zosavuta. Gwiritsani ntchito gawo limodzi, ziribe kanthu zomwe mungasankhe. Mukamaganizirana kwambiri wina ndi mnzake, ndipamenenso mumakula pang'onopang'ono.