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Kuzungulira kumatanthauza kuti pali machitidwe, kapena china chake chomwe chimabwereza nonse nonse. Ganizirani za china chake muukwati kapena ubale wanu chomwe chimachitika mobwerezabwereza, ndipo zikuwoneka kuti simungathe kutulukamo.
Zili ngati kukwera mosakhazikika komwe mungakhaleko kwamuyaya. Pali zotsika ndi zotsika, kenako kumapeto kwa ulendowu mumangobwerera pomwe mumayambira, kenako ulendo umayambiranso. Ngati izi zikuwoneka ngati zachilendo kwa inu, werengani. Mutha kukhala mukuzungulira komwe kumatha kusokoneza ubale wanu. Nazi zochitika zodziwika bwino zomwe maanja amakodwa ndikuwachiritsa. Dziwani kuti kuyamba kwanu kuchiritsa sikungakhale kokwanira, makamaka ngati mwakhala mukuzungulira kwakanthawi. Koma atha kukhala poyambira. Mukamachita zambiri, pamapeto pake mudzatha kuchira ndikuchira bwino.
Masewera Olakwika
Banja likangolemba mphotho kwakanthawi, mutha kubetcha kuti ali munthawi yoyipa yomwe imafunikira kuchiritsidwa. Mudziwa ngati muli ndi vuto mukamakhala nonse skuyamwa, "Mwina ndachita choipa ichi, koma inu mwachita chinthu china choipachi, chotero ..."
Monga ngati machitidwe ena olakwika a munthu wina amachotsa zawo. Ndi njira yabwana kuyesera kuti wokondedwa wanu akuwoneni mosiyana kapena kuwapangitsa kuzindikira kuti nawonso ndi oipa monga inu. Kungoti sizimagwira ntchito mwanjira imeneyi. Amangokhalira kukukwiyirani kwambiri. Kenako kuzungulira kumapitilira.
Chiritsani zozungulira potenga chikhomo chaubwenzi ndikung'amba. Zindikirani kuti kulemba magoli sikungathandize aliyense - inu kapena mnzanu. Ngati mwachita china chake cholakwika, khalani nawo pamlanduwo. Osabwera ndi munthu wina yemwe wachita, ngakhale atakhala wachibale. Ingonena kuti, "Ndalakwitsa kanthu, ndikupepesa." Chitsanzo chanu chingathandize mnzanu kuchita zomwezo. Koma zedi kambiranani za izi. Pangani mgwirizano kuti musapezekenso, ndipo mudzakumbutsana mokoma mtima kuti musatero.
Kupewa Nkhaniyo
Simungazindikire kuti uku ndi kuzungulira koyamba, mpaka kukuwomberani pankhope panu. Izi ndizomwe zimachitika nthawi zambiri: Munthu woyamba pachibwenzi anganene kapena kuchita zinthu zomwe zingakhumudwitse mnzake wachiwiriyo, koma woyamba ndiye samazindikira. Wachiwiri apewe kunena chilichonse za momwe zidawakhumudwitsira; ayamba kukambirana nkhaniyi, yomwe ingokula mosasamala m'malingaliro awo. Mpaka tsiku lina ngati china chake chosagwirizana chikuwululidwa, munthu wachiwiri abweretsa nkhani yoyambayo modzidzimutsa. Munthu woyamba adzadabwa kuti bwanji sananene chilichonse kale! Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe timapewa, ngati kuti nkhaniyo ingochoka, kapena sitikufuna kuti ena adziwe kuti atipweteka. Zimatipangitsa kukhala osatetezeka kwambiri, ndipo ndicho chinthu chomaliza chomwe ambiri a ife timafuna kukhala. Tikuwona ngati ndikosavuta kupewa, koma pamapeto pake sizithandiza aliyense.
Chiritsani vutoli pokhala ndi malingaliro anu ndikukambirana za iwo. Ngati kuyankhula kuli kovuta kwambiri, lembani. Musalole kuti iwo adye. Ngati mukumva kuti mwasokonekera mkati, yesani kudziwa chomwe chimayambitsa. Sinkhasinkhani, yesetsani kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, ndipo yeretsani mutu wanu momwe mungathere. Mukakhala bata, bweretsani malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu kwa mnzanu. Ayenera kumvetsera ndikubwereza momwe mukumvera kuti mudziwe kuti amvetsetsa. Ayenera kuwatsimikizira. Tikukhulupirira kuti izi zithandizira kuti zinthu zikuyendere bwino, zomwe zidzayambitsenso zomwezo mtsogolo.
Zovuta Kubwerera
Palibe aliyense wa ife amene ali wangwiro, ndipo tikakhala pachibwenzi nthawi zina timayamba kuloza zolakwazo. Ndani amadziwa chifukwa chake timachita izi. Mwina zimatipangitsa kuwoneka opitilira muyeso kapena masinthidwe amayang'ana zolakwa za ena osati zathu. Ziribe chifukwa chake, aliyense amene amadzudzulidwa nthawi zonse chifukwa chokhala munthu woyipa amangotenga zochuluka. Adzachoka opanda pake komanso owopsa kuti wina amene amamukonda amamuganiziranso.
Chiritsani mayendedwe osawukira munthuyo. Mutha kusagwirizana pazinthu kapena osakonda machitidwe a wina. Koma simunganene kuti munthuyo ndi woipa kapena sali woyenera chikondi chanu. M'malo mongonena kuti, “Iwe ndiwe mwamuna woipitsitsa,” unganene kuti, “Sindikusangalala ukandiika pamaso pa anzako.” Imawukira makamaka machitidwewo osati munthuyo. Mutha kukambirana za mayendedwe komanso momwe mungapangire kuti onse omwe ali pachibwenzi akhale osangalala. Ndi njira yokhayo yochiritsira.