Zamkati
- 1. Pewani zokambirana zazing'ono, muzicheza nawo moyenera
- 2. Kukambirana momveka bwino kwa Crystal zakumbuyo kwanu
- 3. Fufuzani wokondedwa wanu pafupipafupi
- 4. Kambiranani zamtsogolo
Kulankhulana ndichinsinsi kuti ubale uliwonse ukhale motalika. Mosakanika, maubale osiyanasiyana amaphatikizira mbali zosiyanasiyana zopititsira patsogolo tanthauzo. Komabe, kulankhulana bwino komanso koyenera ndichofunikira chokhacho kuti ubale uliwonse ukhale wokhalitsa.
Nawu mndandanda wazomwe mungakambirane ndi wokondedwa wanu. Mwina mukukonzekera kumenyedwa, kumangiriridwa kapena kukhala pachibwenzi pano; Limbitsani mgwirizano wanu. Nazi zokambirana zaubwenzi mozama zomwe mungakhale nazo ndi mnzanu
1. Pewani zokambirana zazing'ono, muzicheza nawo moyenera
Mwina inu mukukhala pa chibwenzi choyamba, mwakhazikika kale kapena mukukonzekera kukwatira posachedwa- musamayankhula pang'ono. Osangokhala. Nyengo.
Lankhulani za zinthu zomwe zimapangitsa maso anu kunyezimira ndi chilakolako, lankhulani za zolinga zamtsogolo ndi zokhumba zanu, lankhulani za zosangalatsa.
Funsani mafunso opanga komanso osangalatsa. Sungani mafunso anu otseguka ndi kuwafotokoza mwanjira yomwe imapangitsa mnzanu kugwedezeka ndi chisangalalo. Osakhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri pazomwe mungafunse - onetsani zakudyazo kwa munthu winayo. Dziwonetseni nokha mwanjira yanu yoyera komanso yeniyeni yanu.
Nawa mafunso angapo omwe angalimbikitse mgwirizano kuchokera kumagulu awiri-
- Ndani adzakhala anthu asanu pamndandanda wanu wapamwamba omwe mungawaitane nthawi yomweyo mukakhala pamavuto?
- Ndi cholakwika chiti chomwe mungasanduke chimodzi mwamphamvu zanu zazikulu?
- Kodi mumakonda chiyani?
- Ndi funso liti lomwe mukufuna kuyankha?
- Kodi mukuvomereza mpaka pati kuti anthu omwe ali pachibwenzi ayenera kukhala ndi mayina osiyana m'malo mokhala wina?
Mndandandawo uzipitilira. Mafunso sadzatha kotero chidwi chanu mwa munthu winayo ngati mungakhale ndi malingaliro ofanana.
Zomwe mukuyenera kuchita ndikuganiza mozama pang'ono. Khalani achangu osatinkhasinkha. Khalani weniweni ndipo khalani inu.
2. Kukambirana momveka bwino kwa Crystal zakumbuyo kwanu
Fotokozani zakale. Chibwenzi sichinthu chaching'ono. Pamafunika kudzipereka komanso kukhulupirika. Tsiku limodzi labwino mudadzuka ndikuzindikira kuti simungathe kukhala moyo wanu ndi wokondedwa wanu. Sizichitika monga choncho. Sichikuyenera kugwira ntchito monga choncho. Chifukwa chake, kumbukirani chisankho chanu ndikukhala osankha pankhani yosankha zina zofunika kwambiri.
Musanachite zomwe mukufuna komanso osataya mahomoni anu, ndikofunikira kuti mukambirane zakale.
Lankhulani za akale anu, kusakhulupirika kwa anzanu, zovuta zapabanja kutchulapo zochepa, zomwe mudakumana nazo m'mbuyomu.
Tenga chinthu ichi molunjika kumutu kwako; wanu wamkulu wina ayenera kumvetsetsa zomwe mudakumana nazo ndikukuvomerezani monga munthuyo, zomwe zidapangidwa ndikukumana nazo zokumana nazo kwambiri.
Zosokoneza malingaliro / malingaliro ayenera kuwonetsa wina wa inu kuti akoke pulagi kapena kusiya mahatchi ake. Sungani mpweya wabwino pazakale zanu.
3. Fufuzani wokondedwa wanu pafupipafupi
Mwina mukumangidwa, mukukonzekera kubwera posachedwa kapena mukungokhala pachibwenzi- onaninso za mnzanu nthawi ndi nthawi. Ikani mawu, kuwombera imelo, kupanga chiwonetsero cha PowerPoint, kuyimba foni, Skype; Chitani chilichonse kuti muzingolankhulana tsiku lililonse.
Ndikofunikira kuti anzanu ena azindikire kuti mumawathandiza nthawi iliyonse patsiku.
Athandizeni kumva kuti amakondedwa. Athandizeni kumva kuti ndi ofunika. Gawani zazitali zanu, zotsika zanu ndi tsatanetsatane wa miniti iliyonse pakati. Chifukwa palibe chaching'ono kapena chachikulu kwambiri kugawana ndi wokondedwa wanu.
Nthawi zina, mvetserani kapena phewa kuti mulirire kapena mupereke uphungu wofunikira. Onetsetsani kuti palibe kukhumudwa komwe kumakhazikika wina ndi mnzake ndipo anyamata muli patsamba lomwelo. Khalani omveka polankhula kwanu ndipo apatseni malo awo ngati angafunike.
4. Kambiranani zamtsogolo
Palibe vuto kuchedwetsa zokonzekera zanu zamtsogolo kwakanthawi kochepa. Zidzakhala zolemetsa kapena mmodzi wa inu akhoza kukhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri kuti abweretse mutuwu kuti mukambirane. Mosasamala kanthu kalikonse, kambiranani za izi.
Kodi mukufuna ana? Kodi mukufuna kulera ana? Bweretsani mafunso awa ndikukambirana ndi wokondedwa wanu.
Zitha kukhala kuti ena anu okhulupilira sakukhulupirira kukhazikitsidwa kwa ukwati kapena mwina wina wa inu sakufuna kukhala ndi ana panthawiyi.
M'malo mongothamangira kumapeto kapena kutulutsa chidani wina ndi mnzake, ndibwino kuyanjanitsa kusiyana ndikuwonetsetsa kuti chibwenzi chimafuna mtundu wanji. Ngati mukuganiza kuti zosagwirizana zanu ndizosagwirizana ndipo sizikugwirizana, ndibwino kuti muyesenso chibwenzi chanu.
Kunena zowona, palibe genie wopereka zomwe mukufuna kapena zokambirana zabwino kuti chikondi chanu chikhale ngati onse awiri sakuvomereza zosiyana. Khalani oleza mtima kuthana nawo ndipo musalole malingaliro opambanitsa kuti asokoneze ziweruzo zanu.