Zamkati
- Amapatsa okwatirana chochita limodzi
- Ndiwothandiza
- Amathandizira kuzindikira zomwe mukuchita molakwika
- Mabuku abwino kwambiri olumikizirana ndi mabanja
Chinanso chophatikizana ngati buku chingakhale chida chothandiza mbanja. Monga tonse tikudziwa, kulumikizana ndikofunikira pa ubale uliwonse.
Mabuku olankhulirana maanja amakhala ngati chida chomwe chingagwiritsidwe ntchito poyanjana bwino komanso moyenera.
Ngakhale mutakhala kuti mumalankhulana bwino ndi mnzanu, nthawi zonse pamakhala china chatsopano choti muphunzire pazokambirana za maanja.
Tiyeni tikambirane mwatsatanetsatane momwe mabuku angathandizire mabanja.
Amapatsa okwatirana chochita limodzi
Fufuzani "mabuku olumikizirana omwe akulimbikitsidwa maanja" kapena "mabuku olimbikitsidwa kwambiri pamaubwenzi" ndipo mupeza posachedwa kuti pali njira zambiri zomwe mungasankhe.
Inu ndi mnzanuyo mungasankhe buku ndikuwerenga limodzi. Kuwerenga buku lonena za kulumikizana kwa maanja sikuti kumangopatsira chidziwitso koma kumalimbikitsanso kulumikizana.
Njira yabwino yolumikizirana ndikulumikizana ndikukhala limodzi. Kukambirana zina zomwe zingathandize banja kumathandizanso kukulitsa maluso awo. Kuyeserera kumachita bwino.
Ndiwothandiza
Mabuku olankhulana nawonso amathandizira kwambiri. Zomwe amapeza zimakhudza machitidwe ndikuwonjezera kulingalira panthawi yolumikizana osazindikira (chifukwa chake amangokhala).
Maluso ophunzirira ndi maluso alibe kanthu ngati sanayendetsedwe, koma kuwerenga kuli ndi njira yapadera yothandizira ubongo ndikugwiritsa ntchito maluso atsopano.
Kuphatikiza pakukhudza machitidwe anu, kuwerenga kumachepetsa kupsinjika, kumawonjezera mawu (omwe amalola okwatirana kuti azitha kufotokoza bwino), ndikuwongolera chidwi.
Chifukwa chake gwirani m'mabuku ena olumikizirana ndikuwonetsetsa kuti banja lanu likuyenda bwino!
Amathandizira kuzindikira zomwe mukuchita molakwika
Kuwerenga malangizo omwe adalembedwa ndi katswiri kumathandizanso anthu kuzindikira zomwe akulakwitsa polankhula ndi okwatirana. Tonsefe tili ndi zizolowezi zoyipa zoyankhulirana.
Chigawo cha anthu chimakhala chotalikirana, ena samangokhala ndipo ena amangokhalira kukangana. Monga tanenera kale, kuwerenga mabukuwa kumawonjezera kulingalira ndipo kulingalira kumathandiza anthu kuti ayang'ane momwe amalankhulira ndi amuna awo / akazi awo.
Ngati zizolowezi zoyipa zosalankhulana zitha kuzindikirika zimatha kukhazikika ndipo banja limayenda bwino. Zosintha zazing'ono zimapangitsa kusiyana kwakukulu.
Mabuku abwino kwambiri olumikizirana ndi mabanja
Nawa malingaliro angapo pamabuku abwino kwambiri olumikizana ndi kuthandizira maanja.
- Zozizwitsa Zolumikizirana kwa Amuna - 'Jonathan Robinson'
Buku lolembedwa ndi Johnathan Robinson, yemwe samangokhala psychotherapist komanso wokamba nkhani wodziwika, bukuli limakhazikitsa njira zothandiza kwambiri kulumikizirana kwa mabanja omwe ndiosavuta kugwiritsa ntchito ndipo angathandize pakusintha banja lanu.
Bukuli lidagawika magawo atatu; Kupanga Ubwenzi Wapamtima, Kupewa Ndewu, ndi Kuthetsa mavuto osavulaza egos. Mabukuwa amafotokoza njira yosavuta yolankhulirana bwino m'banja ndi maubale.
- Kulankhulana muukwati: Momwe mungayankhulirane ndi mnzanu popanda kumenyana - 'Markus ndi Ashley Kusi'
Zikukuvutani kulankhulana ndi mnzanu? Werengani kulumikizana muukwati ndi Markus Kusia nd Ashley Kusi kuti mudziwe momwe mungalankhulire ndi mnzanu wovuta.
Bukuli lili ndi mitu 7 yomwe imafalitsa ndikufotokozera mbali zosiyanasiyana za kulumikizana moyenera komanso moyenera; Kumvetsera, nzeru zam'maganizo, kudalira, kukondana, mikangano, komanso zimagawana zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuti muyambe.
- Zinenero Zisanu Zachikondi - 'Gary Chapman’
M'buku lino, Gary Chapman amafufuza momwe anthu amadzimvera kuti amakondedwa komanso kuyamikiridwa. Bukuli limafotokoza zilankhulo zisanu zachikondi zomwe zimatithandizanso kumvetsetsa momwe ena amatanthauzira chikondi ndi kuyamikira.
Ziyankhulo zisanu zachikondi ndi izi; Mawu Ovomerezeka, Machitidwe Atumiki, Kulandila Mphatso, Nthawi Yabwino, ndipo pamapeto pake Kukhudza Thupi.
Zilankhulozi ndizofunikira pakuwonetsa chikondi ndi chikondi ndikupanga zothandiza pakupanga ubale wabwino ndi mnzanu.