Zamkati
- Chifukwa chake musapitilize kuwerenga ngati;
- Kodi mumapulumuka bwanji m'banja lovuta
- Kutaya ntchito
- Imfa m'banja
- Matenda m'banja
Palibe chilichonse padziko lapansi chomwe chili chowona. Zomwezo zimaperekanso chidziwitso cha upangiri ndi upangiri. Zomwe zalembedwa pano zitha kukuvulazani mtsogolo komanso zitha kubweretsa tsoka lomwe silidzasinthidwa mtsogolo.
Chifukwa chake musapitilize kuwerenga ngati;
- Inu kapena mnzanu mumakuzunza
- Inu kapena mnzanu mumachitira nkhanza achibale ena
- Inu kapena mnzanu ndi wosakhulupirika
- Inu kapena mnzanu mumachita zachiwawa monga gwero la ndalama
Nkhaniyi ikukhudzana ndi maanja omwe angadzipereke wina ndi mnzake kuti athetse chilichonse kuti apindule nacho ndikupangitsa aliyense wowazungulira kukhala wosangalala.
Kodi mumapulumuka bwanji m'banja lovuta
Idzafika nthawi pamene maanja onse amakumana ndi zovuta. Kupsyinjika kumafalikira kunyumba ndikupanga malo oopsa kwa maanja.
Kutaya ntchito
Ili ndi vuto lomwe mabanja amakumana nalo masiku ano. Kutaya ndalama zokhazikika kumatanthauza kuti atha kutaya nyumba yawo pasanathe miyezi iwiri. Popanda malo okhala, chakudya, ndi zina zofunika, ndikosavuta kulingalira chifukwa chake zimakhala zopanikiza.
Izi zitha kubweretsa kuloza chala, ndipo zimaipiraipira ngati awiriwo ayesa kubisa mkhalidwe wawo poyesetsa kukhalabe ndi moyo. Ndizomveka kuti palibe amene akufuna kuuza dziko lapansi kuti asweka. Makamaka tsopano pomwe aliyense akuwonetsa moyo wawo pazanema.
Chifukwa chake lankhulani ngati banja. Kodi kuyang'ana bwino pa Facebook ndikofunikira kuposa kupulumutsa nyumba yanu? Choonadi pamapeto pake chimatuluka ndipo chikachitika, chingokupangitsani kuti muwoneke ngati gulu la ma poseurs.
Monga banja, mutha kudutsamo, ngati mungadziperekere limodzi. Fotokozerani zapamwamba, lankhulani pansi kwambiri. Ngati mungathe kuzichotsa palimodzi, ngakhale zabwinoko. Pangani ana okulirapo kumvetsetsa, adzalira ndikudandaula. Koma ikani phazi lanu pansi. Ngati ndikusankha pakati pa Xbox yawo kapena nyumba yanu, ndikuganiza kuti ndikosavuta kukhala wotsimikiza.
Chitani masamu, gulitsani chilichonse chomwe mungathe kuti mugule nthawi. Osabwereka ndalama mukamatha kugulitsa galimoto yowonjezera, mfuti zowonjezera, kapena matumba a Louis Vuitton. Chotsani kulembetsa TV pa satellite ndi zinthu zina zosafunikira.
Kusowa ntchito sikutanthauza kuti palibe choti muchite. Pezani ndalama zowonjezera mukamayang'ana mwayi watsopano.
Ntchito zabwino zimatenga miyezi 3-6 kuti mupeze. Onetsetsani kuti ndalama zanu zizikhala motalika chonchi.
Chitani izi limodzi ndi mamembala onse pabanjapo. Ngakhale ana aang'ono kwambiri kuti agwire ntchito yaganyu, kuwongolera moyo wawo kuti athandizire kuchepetsa ndalama kumatha kupita kutali.
Idzakhala nthawi yovuta kubanja lonse, monga wamkulu, khalani odekha, makamaka pamaso pa ana akhungu. Ngati mutha kuthana ndi banja lanu, nonse mudzakhala olimba, oyandikana, komanso odalirika limodzi.
Imfa m'banja
Munthu wina m'banja mwanu kapena wachibale wanu akamwalira. Wokondedwa wina amatha kukhala ndi vuto lokhumudwa lomwe limalepheretsa china chilichonse.
Banja la zida za nyukiliya lingawoneke ngati ilo, koma pazolinga zonse ndi bungwe. Kapangidwe kake ndi mfundo zake zitha kukhala zosiyana pamtundu uliwonse, koma bungwe ndilofanana.
Chifukwa chake wina akamwalira, ndipo mamembala ambiri amatseka chifukwa cha izo. Banja silidzakhalanso bwino, komanso banja lanu.
Akufa sadzabwereranso, ndipo monga mabungwe onse, akhazikitsidwa mwakukhazikika. Muyenera kuthandizana wina ndi mnzake. Kudzakhala kovuta kwa iwo omwe ali ndi mphamvu zokwanira kuti azingoyendetsa ndi kugwira ntchito za aliyense posamalira ena. Koma wina ayenera kuchita.
Sitingakakamize ena kuti athetse kukhumudwa kwawo ndi maliro. (M'malo mwake, tingathe, koma sititero) Koma munthu aliyense amachita nawo nkhondoyi munthawi yake. Zitha kutenga masiku ochepa kapena ayi. Kuthandizana kumathandizira kuti ntchitoyi ifulumire.
Anzanu ena amatha kuthandiza, koma achibale ayenera kuchita kukweza konse. Chitani zomwe mungathe, osataya mtima. Zinthu zimangoipiraipira mukapanda kutero. Palibe chomwe chingachitike kuti mubwezeretse momwe zidalili, kuvomereza, ndikupitilira ndi moyo wanu.
Matenda m'banja
Imfa ndiyabwino mokwanira, koma ili ndi chitsimikizo kwa iyo yomwe ingayambitse kutsekedwa kosapeweka. Matenda ndi vuto lomwe likupitilira. Zimatopetsa ndalama, malingaliro, komanso kutopetsa.
Mosiyana ndi imfa yomwe okondedwa awo amayesetsa kuti apite, wachibale wodwalayo ndi vuto lomwe limafuna chisamaliro. Ndizosatheka kuti achibale asiyire okondedwa awo kumwalira, koma pali milandu ya Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) kuti athetse mavuto awo.
Koma sitikambirana za DNR. Tabwera kudzalankhula za momwe banja lingathetsere izi. Matenda, makamaka ovuta monga khansa, amatha kusokoneza banja. Mufilimuyi "Wosunga mlongo wanga" mwana wamkazi womaliza yemwe adasewera ndi Abigail Breslin adasuma makolo ake kuti asamugwiritse ntchito ngati wopereka ziwalo kwa mlongo wake wodwala.
Ndaperekanso upangiri kwa mabanja omwe sanathe kuchira atadwala kwa nthawi yayitali zomwe pamapeto pake zidapangitsa kuti mwana amwalire. Mosasamala kanthu momwe banja lidziwira bwino za imfa ya wokondedwa wawo, palibe kukonzekera komwe kunachepetsera ululu wawo.
Ndiye mumatani ngati banja lanu silikuyenda bwino chifukwa cha wachibale wanu amene akudwala?
Aliyense ayenera kutenga nawo mbali. Chitani zomwe mungathe kuti mupereke ndalama ngakhale zitakhala zochepa bwanji. Chenjerani ndi anthu opanda chidwi, atha kubwera kuchokera mkati kapena kunja kwa banja, osasamala zomwe anena. Auzeni mwaulemu kuti ngati sakufuna kukuthandizani, ingokusiyani nokha.
Lankhulani ndi aliyense mosasinthasintha. Onetsetsani kuti aliyense ali patsamba limodzi. Zinthu zidzasintha pakapita nthawi pamene kutopa kumatenga zovuta. Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndikofunikira kuyala zonse patebulopo. Osakakamiza malingaliro anu kwa wina (Monga Cameron Diaz mu kanema). Sungani bwaloli kuti likhale lachikondi komanso laulemu, onetsetsani kuti latha pomwe mamembala onse azindikira kuti amakondana.
Ndiye, mumatha bwanji kupulumuka muukwati wovuta? Momwemonso mumapulumukira china chilichonse. Pamodzi monga banja ndi chikondi, kuleza mtima, komanso kulimbikira ntchito.