Zamkati
- Ndife yani
- Kusamvana - Kuzindikira motsutsana ndi malingaliro osazindikira
- Kupeza umunthu wanu weniweni
- Kusankha
- Ubwenzi
“Mchiritsi woona amasangalala ndi kuchira kwa wodwala aliyense.” Marvin L. Wilkerson, CH.
Ndife yani
Lamulo lalikulu la umunthu ndikulongosola zomwe tili.
Kuyambira nthawi yobadwa, timayamba mapulogalamu athu. Mapulogalamuwa amachokera kwa makolo, aphunzitsi, abale (ubale woyamba), abwenzi & anzawo, gulu, ndi aliyense amene timakhala naye.
Mapulogalamuwa amakhala chilankhulo chathu chachikulu kugwiritsa ntchito kufotokozera zenizeni zathu. Panjira yakukula, timatenga zokumana nazo zomwe zimalumikizana ndi malingaliro athu ndi malingaliro athu.
Pofika zaka makumi awiri zapitazo anthu okonzeka kutenga dziko lapansi ndi maloto athu. Tidakonzedwa kwathunthu.
Gawo labwino kwambiri la kuthekera kwathu monga munthu ndikuti ndikupanga. Bwanji?
Zomwe timaganiza timapanga. Tikamaganiza kwambiri, malingaliro amenewo amakhala enieni. Tonse taphunzira kuchokera kwa ambuye ambiri; ndife opanga moyo wathu.
Kukhala wamphamvu ngati kutulutsa zenizeni zathu kumabweretsa udindo.
Popeza momwe timaganizira kapena pulogalamu yathu, limodzi ndi zomwe timakumana nazo zimawonekera, ndiye kuti ndife purojekiti ya moyo wathu.
Komabe, mavuto amabwera chifukwa cha kusiyana pakati pa malingaliro ozindikira ndi osazindikira.
Chowonadi ndi C, ndipo malingaliro osazindikira ndikomwe kukumbukira kwenikweni ndi malingaliro apamwamba amasungidwa.
Kusamvana - Kuzindikira motsutsana ndi malingaliro osazindikira
Malingaliro awiriwa amasiyana pantchito yawo. Malingaliro ozindikira ndipamene malingaliro athu / umunthu wathu umatitsogolera ku chisangalalo ndi phindu.
Malingaliro osazindikira ndi malingaliro amphamvu kwambiri monga otiteteza, kuchititsa matupi athu kugwira ntchito, ndikuzindikiritsa zomwe zimawopseza kukhalapo kwathu. Koma siziimira pamenepo.
Kuzindikira ndikomwe kuwonera kwathu kumapereka uthenga kumadera ena aubongo omwe pamapeto pake amabweretsa mawonekedwe kuzilakalaka zathu.
Mukuzindikira, mphamvu zamoyo zikugwira ntchito, kupereka mauthenga obisika otsogolera otchedwa intuition.
Malingaliro awiriwa amalumikizana mobwerezabwereza pogwiritsa ntchito mapulogalamu, zokumana nazo, momwe akumvera, momwe akumvera, ndikulingalira, kapena kuwongolera.
Kodi funso likhala kuti ndani timamuyankha?
Nthawi zambiri, timayankha zomwe timaganiza, zomwe zimakhala bwino chifukwa zimadziwika. Kulumikiza izi palimodzi ndi umunthu wathu / chidwi chathu chofuna chisangalalo ndi phindu la mapulogalamu athu ndi zomwe takumana nazo.
Kutsutsana ndi izi ndi yankho pazisankho zathu.
Sosaiti ili ndi china choti inene za momwe timaonera zinthu. Zachidziwikire, zimakhala zomata tikamapanga zibwenzi ndikukhala pachibwenzi, kuwulula mapulogalamu athu onse pamoyo wathu ndi zomwe takumana nazo zomwe zimatha kukhala ndi mantha, kudziimba mlandu, kukayika, manyazi, komanso kuweruza.
Onaninso: Kuzindikira motsutsana ndi kuganiza mosazindikira
Kupeza umunthu wanu weniweni
Timafuna kumveketsa bwino makamaka kuti tikwaniritse zolinga zathu pazomwe tikufuna pamoyo.
Kumveka kumatanthauza kuti tiyenera kuchoka pazikhulupiriro ndi malingaliro ena okhudzana ndi dziko lapansi ndi zina zomwe zimaphatikizapo chikondi, abwenzi, komanso, maloto athu kuti adziwe zomwe tili mkati.
Tiyeneradi kuzindikira mapulogalamu athu osazindikira, omwe amangoyankha momwe timaphunzirira komanso momwe timakhalira ndi moyo.
Kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake timachita zomwe timachita ndizovuta, makamaka mukawona kuti malingaliro osazindikira amayankha amoyo m'mamiliseche awiri pomwe malingaliro ozindikira amafika pamasekondi makumi asanu ndi asanu.
Ndipo ikangopanga chisankho, imakhala yodzaza ndi umunthu / mantha, mantha, kudziimba mlandu, kukayika, manyazi, ndi kuweruza ngati sitinapeze mapulogalamu athu kuti tithe kusankha njira yabwino yomwe ikuyenera kuwonetseredwa moona mtima ndi momwe timachitira mverani.
Kumverera ndi chowonadi; malingaliro atha kukhala owona kapena sangakhale owona.
Kusankha
Njira yosavuta yosankhira ndikuzindikira kuti ndiwe weniweni ndi kudzera muubwenzi wapamtima, makamaka kuchokera kumaubale apabanja kapena apabanja. Mwanjira ina, mumayesa kudzipeza muli pachibwenzi. Ndipo chifukwa chiyani?
Chifukwa timakopa zomwe tikufunikira kukula, tawonetsa ubale wathu m'miyoyo yathu kuti tikhale malingaliro a zomwe timaganiza ndi kumva. Tsopano mapulogalamu ndi zokumana nazo zosasinthidwa zikuwonetsedwa kwathunthu.
Chifukwa chake timakopeka ndi ena pamaziko oyimira china chomwe timaganiza, monga kapena kusilira. Zachidziwikire kuti kukopa kumeneku ndi chikhalidwe chomwe timasilira koma sichikuwoneka kuti tili nacho.
Chowonadi ndi ichi, "mwa ife tili ndi zomwe timazindikira mwa ena." Koma, timasaina mgwirizano chifukwa mnzathu wamtsogolo amabweretsa zina zowonjezera patebulo kuti tikhale ndi moyo wabwino. Kugawanika kumayamba.
Panjira yodzipeza muli pachibwenzi, kusamvana kwanu kwayamba kale mkati mwanu, pakati pa zomwe mukuganiza ndi zomwe mumamva.
Chifukwa chake zomwe mudakopeka ndi mdani yemwe angakutsutseni kuti musayesenso pulogalamu ndikusankha yemwe mukufuna kukhala, komwe kulingalira ndi kumverera ziyenera kugwirizana.
Ubwenzi
Chibwenzi chikangoyamba, vuto lenileni lodzipeza muli pachibwenzi limayamba.
The-me-see akuwulula malingaliro athu onse, malingaliro athu, kudzimva kuti ndife olakwa, kukayika, manyazi, ndi mantha kuchokera m'moyo wathu. Ntchito yaubwenzi ndikusintha mtundu wathu wapadziko lapansi komanso tokha.
Inde, ntchito yake! Palibe amene anati chisinthiko chinali chosavuta komanso chosavuta. Ndipo kubwera kuchokera kwa munthu yemwe muli pachiwopsezo chake kungapangitse kuti zovuta zikhale zovuta kwambiri. Koma, mudawakopa kuti akuwonetseni omwe muli payekha, ndipo amakuthandizani kuti mudziwe nokha.
Cholinga chachikulu chaubwenzi ndikukuwonetsani zolinga zanu komanso zomwe mukufuna kuchita ndikukhala omwe mwakhala mumphindi iliyonse ya moyo wanu. Kotero, udindo uli pati pamikangano muubwenzi?
Chowonadi ndichakuti wina akakankha mabatani anu. Ndizoyambitsa chimodzi mwamapulogalamu anu kapena zomwe simunathe kuzithetsa. Ndiudindo wanu kuzindikira chinyengo cha malingaliro anu ndi chifukwa chomwe tidakopeka ndi mkangano, womwe, kwenikweni, ndi mkangano mwa ife tokha.
Powombetsa mkota
Mavuto onse amayamba ndi mapulogalamu anu komanso mtundu wanu wapadziko lonse lapansi. Kuthetsa kusamvana konse kumatha ndikutenga udindo ndikuphunzira kuchokera mkanganowo.
Kuganiza ndiye maziko azowona zomwe mudapanga. Zomverera ndikumverera ndizoona zomwe muli.
Kotero, muyenera kukumana ndikugawana zomwe mukumva ndikuyesa kukhala pachibwenzi. Osati zomwe mukuganiza.
Maganizo ndi malingaliro anu akakhazikika, mumayima panokha. Chimwemwe ndicho chotulukapo chomaliza.