Zamkati
- M'zaka za zana la makumi awiri ndi chimodzi ndikulera
- Mayiko osiyanasiyana, mitundu yosiyanasiyana yakulera
- Ndani amathera nthawi yambiri ndi ana awo: amayi kapena abambo?
- Maphunziro amatsogolera kudzizindikira
- Kupita kwakukulu kapena kupita kunyumba sizikutanthauza kulera
Mai, mai, matebulo asinthidwa!
Kulera nthawi zonse kwakhala ntchito yovuta kwambiri kumeneko. Ndiwe amene uli ndi udindo wopanga moyo ndi tsogolo la munthu wina. Mukuyenera kuti muwalere ndikuphunzitsa mayendedwe, maudindo, kumvera ena chisoni, chisoni, ndi zina zambiri. Simukulera mwana m'modzi, koma tsogolo lanu lonse komanso mibadwo ikubwerayi.
Ganizirani kangapo miliyoni musanayambe banja lanu, kulera mwana ndi ulemu. Koma mukalowa m'malo amenewa, muyenera kukhala okonzeka kuyankha funso - ndi nthawi yayitali bwanji yomwe makolo amakhala ndi ana awo?
M'zaka za zana la makumi awiri ndi chimodzi ndikulera
Kodi makolo amakhala ndi nthawi yochuluka bwanji ali ndi ana awo?
Masiku ano kumene ana amakhala ndi makolo opanda mnzawo, nthawi yabwino yokhala ndi kholoyo imawoneka ngati yovuta.
Ngakhale iwo omwe ali ndi mwayi wokhala ndi magulu onse awiri a makolo, samawawona kawirikawiri chifukwa onse akugwira ntchito kapena chifukwa chaudindo waukulu.
Ngakhale kholo likakhala kunyumba kapena mayi wokhala pakhomo, amakhala ndiudindo pazinthu zambiri kuzungulira nyumba zomwe zimawapangitsa kukhala otanganidwa komanso kutali ndi ana - kugula zinthu, kulipira ngongole, kugula zinthu za ana, kusunga nyumba kuyitanitsa, kusiya ana kumakalasi awo owonjezera owonjezera maphunziro, ndi zina zotero.
Mukakhala otanganidwa chonchi, mudzadabwa kudziwa kuti makolo amakhala nthawi yabwino kwambiri ndi ana awo poyerekeza ndi makolo a, zaka makumi anayi kapena zisanu zapitazo.
Nthawi imeneyi ndiyofunika kutchula chifukwa, munthawi imeneyo, kholo limodzi limangokhala kunyumba, makamaka amayi, komabe ana anali kunyalanyazidwa pankhani yakulera.
Masiku ano, ngakhale kukhala otanganidwa komanso kupikisana kwambiri, makolo amapeza nthawi yokonda, kulemekeza, kusamalira, komanso kucheza ndi ana awo - makamaka.
Izi, mwachiwonekere, zimasiyana ndi chikhalidwe ndi chikhalidwe.
Mayiko osiyanasiyana, mitundu yosiyanasiyana yakulera
Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti poyerekeza, France ndiye dziko lokhalo lomwe lidachoka ku Britain, Canada, Germany, Denmark, Italy, Netherlands, Slovenia, Spain, ndi United States of America komwe makolo samakhala nthawi yayitali ndi ana awo.
Ndani amathera nthawi yambiri ndi ana awo: amayi kapena abambo?
Anthu ambiri anganene kuti funso labwino kuposa kufunsa kuti makolo amakhala ndi nthawi yayitali bwanji ndi ana awo, ndi loti amene amathera nthawi yambiri: kholo lokhala pakhomo kapena kholo logwira ntchito?
Mosiyana ndi zomwe ambiri amakhulupirira, sizotheka nthawi zonse kuti kholo logwira ntchito lizikhala ndi nthawi yocheza ndi ana awo.
Zaka makumi asanu zapitazo, amayi omwe amakhala kunyumba amadziwikanso kuti amasiya ana awo ndi chithandizo chanyumba ndikukhala masiku awo akusangalala kapena atero koma, mkazi wamakono wogwira ntchito, ngakhale amathandizidwa ndi owasamalira ana kapena osunga ana pafupipafupi, amapeza nthawi kucheza ndi ana ake.
Maphunziro amatsogolera kudzizindikira
Zaka makumi angapo zapitazo, pomwe maphunziro oyambira anali apamwamba - m'maiko angapo ndi m'mizinda momwe ziliri - amayi, chifukwa chakusazindikira kufunikira kwa ubale woyenera komanso kulumikizana ndi ana, sakanapatsa ana awo nthawi yamasiku awo.
Komabe, pakusintha kwa nthawi ndi maphunziro, makolo tsopano akudziwa kufunikira kwa kukula kwa mwana ndi chisamaliro.
Tsopano akudziwa kuti kulera mwana bwino kumaphatikizapo nthawi yomwe amakhala ndi ana, komanso momwe zimafunira m'malo mokhala moyo wapamwamba. Kudziwa izi kwadzetsa lingaliro labwino lomwe makolo amatenga pankhani yofunika - kuchuluka kwa nthawi yomwe makolo amakhala ndi ana awo.
Kupita kwakukulu kapena kupita kunyumba sizikutanthauza kulera
Makolo angapo samadzipatsa okha ngongole yokwanira kapena samayesa kuthera nthawi yochuluka ndi ana awo chifukwa amaganiza kuti chifukwa cha kuchuluka kwa maudindo, sangathe kuchitira ana awo zochuluka ndiye bwanji kuvutikira ngakhale kuyamba?
Kumene amalakwitsa ndikuti kwa mwana wakhanda wamng'ono mphindi khumi zomwe amasewera kapena kukhala ndi nthawi yabwino ndizofunika kuposa tsiku lililonse lokongola.
Ana akakula kuti akhale osangalala, athanzi, komanso opambana, ndipo akakhala ndi mabanja awo, ndi nthawi yomwe amakhala mchipululu, tchuthi chaching'ono chosangalala komanso chodzaza ndi mabanja chomwe adzakumbukire.