Zamkati
- Zomwe zimakhala kukhala pachibwenzi chamtunda wautali
- Kodi zimagwira ntchito bwanji kwa anthu omwe amakhala limodzi nthawi zonse?
- Kukhala m'malingaliro ndi mumtima kumatanthauza kukhalabe m'moyo
- Chifukwa Chiyani Kutali ndi Kusapezeka Kwambiri Ndikofunika?
- Kodi kulumikizana kumathandiza bwanji mukakhala kutali?
- Iphani Kusatetezeka
- Kutalikirana sikumadula, kumangotsitsimutsa
Kodi ndinu amene muli pachibwenzi chotalikirana?
Ndi ubale womwe watsimikizira kukhala wolimba komanso wautali kuposa momwe mumayembekezera?
Koma simungadabwe koma mukudabwa kuti zikhala motalika bwanji?
Ndipo simukufunadi kuti nonse mukwanitse kukhala limodzi ndikuchotsa kusowa kobwerezabwereza?
Kodi muli pamalo pomwe mumadana ndi mtunda wautali womwe uli wopanikiza pakati panu?
Ndipo mukangotsala pang'ono kuti mudzakumanenso, kodi mumaopa kwambiri foniyo kapena meseji yonena kuti mwina atha kupitako pang'ono?
Kodi mumadzifunsa nokha nthawi zambiri kuti ndizabwino, mukawona banjali likucheza limodzi, kuseka ndikulankhula kosatha, kwinaku mukuyang'ana pafoni yanu, kudikirira uthenga kuti uchoke kwa iye?
Ndipo ngakhale uli kale ubale wautali, mumakhala wopanda kanthu komanso wopanda pake bwanji nthawi zina pamene mulibe nthawi zonse ndipo mumalephera kumufikira kudzera pa kutumizirana mameseji kochokera pa intaneti komanso kuyitanitsa Mapulogalamu, komabe kulipira ngongole zonse zam'manja zamwezi uliwonse.
Zomwe zimakhala kukhala pachibwenzi chamtunda wautali
Ndikutha kudziwa zomwe mukukumana nazo chifukwa, mosafunikira kunena, inenso ndinali m'modzi. Mwamuna wanga ndi wakale wakale wa Marine ndipo adakhala zaka zambiri kunkhondo ku Afghanistan. Sitinathe kulankhulana kwa nthawi yayitali pazaka ziwirizi, zomwe zidapitilira zaka ziwiri zina.
Tsopano ndikamayenda ulendo wokumbukira, ndimamwetulira poganiza momwe zaka zonsezo zidayanditsira mitima yathu ndikulimbitsa ubale wathu. Tidali oyamikirana kwambiri chifukwa cha kudzipereka kwa wina ndi mnzake ndipo timalemekeza malingaliro a wina ndi mnzake.
Tsopano popeza ndimakhala ngati mlangizi wa mabanja omwe akuvutika maubale akutali, ndidazindikira kalekale kuti mtundawu umangopangitsa kuti anthu azikhala ogwirizana komanso ogwirizana ngati anzawo abwino.
Tiyeni tikumbe mozama momwe muubwenzi wautali, kusakhalapo kumalimbitsa ubale womwe mumagawana.
Kodi zimagwira ntchito bwanji kwa anthu omwe amakhala limodzi nthawi zonse?
Ngati mukulimbana ndi ubale wautali ndipo muwona kuti 'mtunda' ngati fupa la mkangano ndi muzu wavuto lililonse m'moyo wanu, ndiye ndikuloleni ndikuunikireni zenizeni.
Mabanja omwe amakhala limodzi ndipo sanadziwepo mtunda ndi kusapezeka (kuti mungasirire tsiku lililonse mukadzuka mwina) amakhala osasangalala maanja nthawi zambiri.
Ngakhale ali limodzi atakumana kwambiri ndikumakondana wina ndi mzake, ambiri a iwo amalephera kukhalabe ndi chidwi chosagonjetseka chomwe adakhala nacho zaka zambiri.
Popeza ndimaperekanso upangiri kwa maanja omwe ali ndi mavuto osasangalala, akuvutika kuti banja lawo likhale lolimba, ndikuloleni ndikuwuzeni kuti maanja ambiri akudandaula kuti alibe chidwi, alibe chidwi, komanso samakopeka.
Amayi ambiri ngakhale amuna amadandaula kuti amatengedwa ngati opanda ntchito ndi momwe zinthu sizidakwaniritsire kuyembekezera kwawo.
Chifukwa chake, si momwe zimawonekera kwa maanja omwe ali limodzi.
Palibe zodandaula zomwe tazitchulazi zomwe zimafotokozedwapo ndi munthu amene ali pachibwenzi choyenda bwino. M'malo mwake, amalakalaka kukhala mbali ya wina ndi mnzake ndipo chifukwa chake kutengapo gawo ndi kukopa kumakhala kokulira.
Kukhala m'malingaliro ndi mumtima kumatanthauza kukhalabe m'moyo
Chibwenzi chimangokhudza kutenga nawo mbali komanso momwe banja limagawirana. Ngati posachedwapa, mwakhala mukuganizira momwe mabanja ena amakhalira limodzi, kuwonetsa chikondi chawo ndikuwoneka achimwemwe komanso okhutira, muyenera kudziwa kuti si mtunda womwe umapangitsa kuti kukomoka kuzimiririka.
Chifukwa chake, kaya chibwenzi chanu ndi chomwe chinali chotalika kuyambira pachiyambi kapena chinali chautali chomwe pambuyo pake chimakhala ubale wapakati chifukwa chazinthu zina, ingodziwa kuti ndi Mtunda womwe umakusungani musasunthike ndipo zotengeka zonse zomwe muli nazo kwa wina ndi mzake zangowonjezedwa kudzera mtunda uno.
Dzifunseni nokha. Kodi simumakhala ndi ziphuphu mukamaganiza zokumananso? Izi zikuwonetsa kulimba kwa ubale wanu.
Chifukwa Chiyani Kutali ndi Kusapezeka Kwambiri Ndikofunika?
Mtima ukakhala wamphamvu komanso wamphamvu, mitima imakhala pafupi, kutalika kwa malo sikulibe kanthu!
Umu ndi momwe imagwirira ntchito.
Kutalikirana ndipo kusapezeka kukuthandizani kusanthula zambiri za ubale wanu. Zimakupangitsani kuzindikira zoyesayesa za mnzanuyo ndi chikondi chomwe inu nonse mumakondana. Zimakupangitsani kuyamikira zinthu bwino. Zimakupangitsani kulakalaka kukhalapo kwa wina ndi mzake kuti kukhala pamodzi nthawi zonse sikumakupangitsani kumva.
Mukakhala kuti mulibe komanso simalumikizidwa, zimawoneka ngati ndiyeso la kulimba mtima kwanu, kukhulupirika kwanu, ndikudzipereka kwanu ndipo mumazindikira kuti zinthu zonsezi ndizofunikiradi muubwenzi.
Kodi kulumikizana kumathandiza bwanji mukakhala kutali?
Kuyankhulana pa intaneti kapena pafoni kumathandiza kwambiri pamene ubalewo uli kutali, makamaka pambuyo poti nthawi zina palibe.
Ndi kutumizirana mameseji ndi mapulogalamu oyimbira ndi malo ngati kuyimbira makanema kwatithandizanso kukhala olumikizidwa mosavuta.
Mukafika kukawona mnzanu pazenera lanu, malingaliro onsewo amakhudzidwa ndipo mumakhala pafupi kwambiri. Komanso, chikondi chimapitsidwanso mphamvu ndikulumikizana pafupipafupi.
Iphani Kusatetezeka
Lekani kudandaula zaubwenzi wanu wakutali ndikupewa malingaliro onse onamizidwa kapena kukayika kulikonse. Kusatetezeka nthawi zonse kumabwera pamene china chikusowa pazinthu zoyambira muubwenzi wanu, monga chikondi, kudzipereka, kukopa, kukhulupirika ndi zina zambiri.
Sindiwo mtunda komabe. Ganizirani za mikhalidwe ndi kudzipereka komwe mnzanu wakupangirani. Ndiponso, kudzimva wosatetezeka ndikwabwino.
Kutalikirana sikumadula, kumangotsitsimutsa
Kutalikirana kumakupangitsani kukondananso. Mumazindikiradi momwe mnzanu amakukonderani. Ndipo inde, mumakhala opanga zonse m'moyo wachikondi chifukwa cha mtunda womwe mudakumana nawo.
Chifukwa chake, ingokondweretsani kusoweka uku ngati zotsogola zamphamvu zakukondana komanso kulumikizana. Ndikukufunirani ubale wautali!