Zamkati
- Zomwe sizinasinthe
- 1. Mukuyenera kukhalabe okhulupirika kwa wina ndi mnzake
- 2. Muyenera kusamalira ndikukonzekeretsa mwana wanu, osati kuwateteza
- 3. Ntchito yanu ndi kuwaphunzitsa kusiyanitsa choyipa ndi chosayenera
- Maukwati abanja lamakono
- 1. Siyanitsani bajeti za iye, iye, ndi banja
- 2. Pezani nthawi yocheza limodzi
- 3. Kukwaniritsa zokhumba za wina ndi mnzake zogonana
- 4. Chitirani limodzi ntchito zapakhomo
- Ukwati ndiwokhuza kugawana moyo wanu komanso udindo uliwonse
Panali nthawi pamene panali kusiyana pakati pa maudindo okwatirana a maanja. Mwamuna amabweretsa nyama yankhumba kunyumba, mkazi amayipukuta, kuphika, kukonza tebulo, kuyeretsa tebulo, kutsuka mbale, ndi zina zambiri. Tsiku lililonse lopweteka kuphatikiza kumapeto kwa sabata komanso tchuthi pomwe mwamunayo amayang'ana mpira.
Chabwino, ichi ndi chitsanzo chabe, koma mumapeza lingaliro.
Masiku ano, ziyembekezo ndizokwera kwambiri kwa onse awiri. Iyenera kulimbikitsa ubale wabwino ndi mgwirizano m'banja. Tikuyembekeza kuti zithetsa mavuto omwe makolo amakhala nawo.
Koma kodi ndizomwe zikuchitikadi?
Mwina kapena ayi. Koma ngati mukukhala (kapena mukufuna kukhala ndi moyo) m'banja lamakono, nayi malangizo othandizira mabanja kuti agwire ntchito.
Zomwe sizinasinthe
Pali zinthu zambiri zomwe zidasintha zochitika zamabanja mdziko lamatawuni lamakono. Koma pali zinthu zomwe sizinachitike. Tidzakambirana kaye za iwo.
1. Mukuyenera kukhalabe okhulupirika kwa wina ndi mnzake
Chifukwa choti inu ndi mnzanu mumakhala otanganidwa kwambiri moti simungathe kucheza limodzi chifukwa cha ntchito yanu yovuta, chimenecho si chifukwa chowabera.
2. Muyenera kusamalira ndikukonzekeretsa mwana wanu, osati kuwateteza
Simumawateteza, chifukwa simungathe.
Ndizosatheka kudziwa zomwe mwana wanu akuchita, komwe ali, omwe ali nawo, munthawi ya 24/7/365 kwa moyo wawo wonse.
Bwanji ngati wamwalira? Ngati simungathe kuwateteza nthawi 100 yomwe muli nawo, ndiye kuti china chake choipa chitha kuchitika mukakhala mulibe. Njira yokhayo yochitira izi ndikuwaphunzitsa kuti adziteteze.
3. Ntchito yanu ndi kuwaphunzitsa kusiyanitsa choyipa ndi chosayenera
Aphunzitseni kudziyeretsa, kapena pewani kusokoneza poyamba. Ndi njira yokhayo yomwe mungakhalire kumeneko (osachepera mumzimu) kuti muwateteze kwamuyaya.
Maukwati abanja lamakono
Amaganiziridwa kuti makolo omwe akulera okha ana, ngakhale omwe adakwatirana koma osiyana samafunika kukwaniritsa maudindo awo okwatirana.
Koma kwa onse omwe ali pabanja ndipo amamvetsetsa "Zomwe sizinasinthe." gawo, nayi malangizo kuti ukwati wanu wamakono ukhale wothamanga ngati makina odzozedwa kwambiri.
1. Siyanitsani bajeti za iye, iye, ndi banja
Monga Congress, kupanga bajeti komanso kuwerengera ndalama zomwe tikufuna kudzilipira ndi bizinesi yovuta.
Choyamba, muzichita mwezi uliwonse kapena sabata iliyonse kutengera kuti mumayang'ana kangati ndalama zanu. Mwachitsanzo, Amalonda amachita mwezi uliwonse ndipo anthu ambiri omwe amapatsidwa ntchito amalipidwa sabata iliyonse. Zinthu zimasintha, chifukwa chake zimafunika kukambirana nthawi iliyonse.
Ngati zonse zili zokhazikika, ndiye kuti zokambirana za bajeti ziyenera kungotenga mphindi khumi. Aliyense akhoza kupatula mphindi khumi sabata kuti alankhule ndi mnzake, sichoncho?
Nayi dongosolo lazomwe ziyenera kuchitika -
- Phatikizani ndalama zomwe mumatha kutaya (Bajeti yabanja)
- Patsani ndalama zantchito (Mtengo Woyendetsa, Chakudya, ndi zina)
- Chotsani ndalama zapakhomo (Zothandiza, Inshuwaransi, Chakudya, ndi zina zambiri)
- Siyani ndalama zofunikira (osachepera 50%) ngati ndalama
- Gawani zotsalazo kuti mukhale ndi moyo wapamwamba (Mowa, bajeti ya Salon ndi zina)
Mwanjira imeneyi palibe banja lomwe lingadandaule ngati wina agula Golf Club yokwera mtengo kapena thumba la Louis Vuitton. Zilibe kanthu kuti ndi ndani amene amalandira ndalama zochulukirapo, bola ngati moyo wapamwamba umagawidwa ndi chilolezo usanagwiritsidwe ntchito.
Ndalama zolipirira ntchito ndizofunika kwambiri kuposa zothandiza chifukwa mutha kukhala opanda magetsi kunyumba, koma ngati simungakwanitse kuyendetsa sitima yapansi panthaka ndiye kuti mwakumana ndi zovuta.
2. Pezani nthawi yocheza limodzi
Chifukwa choti anthu amayenera kukhazikika akakwatirana, sizitanthauza kuti ayenera kusiya kukondana. Musalole kuti mwezi wathunthu udutse osawonera kanema limodzi (ngakhale kunyumba) ndi inu ndi mnzanu.
Pezani wolera ana kapena musiye anawo ndi achibale ngati mukufuna kuchoka panyumbapo. Nthawi zina kuthera maola ochepa chabe kuchokera pachilichonse kungapangitse kuti mukhale ndi thanzi labwino komanso kuti mukhale ndi ubale wabwino.
3. Kukwaniritsa zokhumba za wina ndi mnzake zogonana
Anthu omwe akhala pachibwenzi kwa nthawi yayitali achita izi, koma simuyenera kusiya kuzichita banja lanu litatha. Sungani thupi lanu kuti likhale lokwanira pochita masewera olimbitsa thupi komanso kudya moyenera.
Malingana ngati malingaliro azakugonana samakhudza wina aliyense, monga ma threesomes ndi zigawenga, ndiye pitani mukachite. Masewero ndi zovala ngati mukuyenera kutero, koma musaiwale kukonzekera mawu otetezeka.
Kugonana ndi munthu yemweyo kwa zaka zambiri kumatha kukhala kosangalatsa komanso kosangalatsa.
M'kupita kwanthawi, zimamveka ngati "ntchito yantchito" osati chinthu chosangalatsa. Zimapanga mikwingwirima pachibwenzi ndipo zimatha kubweretsa kusakhulupirika. Popeza mwadzipereka kale kwa munthu m'modzi, chitani zomwe mungathe kuti muzinunkhiza. Kupatula apo, zosankha zanu ndizopatsa chidwi ndi moyo wanu wogonana kapena pamapeto pake muthe.
4. Chitirani limodzi ntchito zapakhomo
Mabanja amakono ali ndi njira zingapo zopezera ndalama kuchokera kwa onse awiri.
Izi zikutsatira kuti ntchito zapakhomo zimagawidwa chimodzimodzi. Ndibwino kuti muzichita zonsezi pamodzi, ndizosangalatsa komanso zimalimbitsa ubale. Kuyeretsa pamodzi, kuphika pamodzi, ndi kutsuka mbale limodzi. Aphatikizeni anawo atangotha kutero.
Ndizomveka kuti ana ambiri amalira ndikudandaula za ntchito zapakhomo. Afotokozereni kuti akhoza kuchita izi pamoyo wawo wonse monga momwe muyenera kuchitira panopo. Kuphunzira momwe angachitire msanga komanso moyenera kudzawapatsa nthawi yochulukirapo akachoka.
Mwanjira imeneyi samathera kumapeto kwa sabata ku koleji akuyesera kudziwa momwe angasinthire zovala zawo.
Ukwati ndiwokhuza kugawana moyo wanu komanso udindo uliwonse
Ndichoncho. Sizambiri, ndipo si mndandanda wovuta. Ukwati ndi wogawana moyo wanu, ndipo si mawu ophiphiritsa. Simungathe kugawana mtima wanu, thupi lanu, (kupatula mwina impso zanu) ndi mzimu kwa winawake.
Koma mutha kugawana nawo ndalama zomwe mwapeza movutikira komanso nthawi yocheperako nawo kuti mupange tsogolo labwino ndi zakale zosaiwalika.
Maukwati amatanthauza kuti mwakumana ndi munthu wofunitsitsa kukuthandizani m'mbali zonse za moyo wanu. Adzachita izi chifukwa amakukondani komanso amakusamalirani. Koma gawo lofunikira kwambiri silikuyembekezera kuti izi zichitika, koma kuchitira munthu amene mwasankha kuti mumukonde ndi kumusamalira.