Zamkati
- 1. Siyani kumverera kuti banja ndilokhazikika
- 2. Muyenera kukhala nonse mmenemo
- 3. Khalani pansi komanso odetsedwa ndi zaluso
- 4. A flirty mzere akhazikitse zinthu bwino
- 5. Mukhale ndi cholinga chogonana
- Maganizo Omaliza
Maukwati sizinthu zongopeka nthawi zonse. Nthawi zina chibwenzi chimafika pena pomwe pangafunike kusintha konse, kapena pang'ono, koma ndi tweak yothandiza. Ndipo, zolemba zachiwerewere zitha kununkhira ubale wanu powonjezerapo kuti tweak yowonjezerayo ndikuponya malingaliro ampweya woti mnzanu atenge.
Pankhani yakugonana, mphindi yayikulu imatha kupangitsa zinthu kukhala zovuta mwachangu, makamaka ngati onse atopa njira zonse zomwe angaganize zokometsera zinthu pakati pa mapepala. Apa ndipomwe upangiri waluso pa njira zonunkhira ubale wanu umathandiza.
Kutumizirana zolaula ndi njira imodzi yokha yolimbikitsira kutentha pakati panu.
Ngakhale kutumizirana zolaula ndikofala, mabanja ambiri sawugwiritsa ntchito mokwanira. Sikuti imangotumizira malawi azakugonana, komanso kutembenukira kwakukulu ndikukhala ndi pempho loyipa lomwe ochepa angavutike kukana.
Maubwenzi ambiri amapulumuka potumizirana mameseji azachuma, motero, amapanga zibwenzi zolimba, amakondana kwambiri ndipo nthawi zambiri amatsogolera kukugonana kosangalatsa, kosangalatsa.
Nthawi zambiri amatchedwa digito foreplay, kutumizirana zolaula ndikosangalatsa, ndipo aliyense akuwoneka kuti akuchitapo kanthu.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti mukusowa chisangalalo chotani, muyenera kungoyang'ana nkhani kapena kuwerenga kuchuluka kwa anthu omwe amagwiritsa ntchito maluso otumizirana matupi kuti azunkhira zinthu.
M'malo mwake, kafukufuku wopangidwa ndi American Psychological Association adawonetsa kuti pafupifupi 80% ya omwe adafunsidwa adatumizirana mameseji azithunzithunzi zolaula chaka chatha. Komanso, infographic yokongola yokhazikitsidwa ndi MacAfee Survey ikuwonetsa kuti pafupifupi 50% ya achikulire amalandila kapena kugawana nawo zakukhosi kudzera pa mafoni.
Tsopano ndi nthawi yoti muyambe kufufuza zododometsa zosiyanasiyana kuti mukometse moyo wanu wogonana. Nazi njira zomwe mungagwiritsire ntchito chinyengo chotere chotumizirana zolaula kuti mukometse banja lanu.
Momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito zolaula pafoni kuti muthane ndi banja lanu
1. Siyani kumverera kuti banja ndilokhazikika
Mabanja ambiri amamva kuti zitseko zambiri zatsekedwa atakwatirana. Amakhala ndi moyo wapafupifupi, kusiya zinthu ndi zochitika zomwe zidapangitsa kuti banja lawo lisanakhale losangalala.
Izi sizikutanthauza kuti ena satumizirana zolaula, koma osati zochuluka kapena kudzipereka. Kuphatikiza apo, ena amakhala ndi lingaliro loti kutumizirana mameseji ndi zinthu zina zomwe mungachite kuti mudzipulumutse kuukwati womwe ukuwonongeka.
Izi sizingakhale kutali ndi chowonadi.
Muukwati, kutumizirana zolaula ndi gawo lina lofufuza lomwe limayatsa mahomoni ambiri komanso malingaliro omwe amabwera nawo, potero amapanga njira yogonana koopsa.
Kukhala pabanja si chilango chobwerezabwereza.
Pukutani foni ija ndikuphwanya ayezi wakugonana!
2. Muyenera kukhala nonse mmenemo
Palibe vuto kusuntha koyamba, koma ngati ndi momwe zokambirana zina zimayambira, pangakhale chisangalalo chochepa kwambiri. Izi ndichifukwa choti ndizosangalatsa komanso zokhutiritsa ngati nonse mumatumizirana zolaula.
Zachidziwikire, mutha kuyembekezera mapazi ozizira ochepa ngati munthu kapena onse awiri ali achilendo, koma zimatha pamapeto pake.
Pazonse, maanja akuyenera kuchitapo kanthu ndi mawu aliwonse, emoji, kapena chithunzi chomwe angapangire kusangalatsana.
Kuphatikiza apo, sizingakhale zomveka kukhala ndi mayankho osasangalatsa amawu amodzi kapena kumwetulira kumawu omwe amayenera kuyambitsa chidwi.
Kuti izi zitheke, m'modzi mwa maanja atha kutsogolera, ndi mawu otseguka ndipo apangidwa kuti ayambitse kuyankha kofanana. Chilichonse chomwe mungasankhe, palibe amene ayenera kumverera kuti wasiyidwa.
Kuwerenga Kofanana: Kutumizirana Mameseji Otumizirana Mameseji
3. Khalani pansi komanso odetsedwa ndi zaluso
Pogwiritsa ntchito luso, muyenera kuyenda mtunda wowonjezera ndi zonse zomwe muli nazo. Mukamatumizirana zolaula, palibe china chilichonse chongofanana ndi kulandira uthenga wongochitika zokha womwe umafuula zakugonana paliponse.
Mwamwayi, chilankhulo cha Chingerezi chadzaza ndi mawu ndi mawu ambiri omwe amasiya malingaliro osasangalatsa. Zomwe muyenera kuchita ndikugwiritsa ntchito china kapena malongosoledwe omwe si achizolowezi kwambiri.
Sikuti ndi mawu koma; makanema, ma emojis, ndi manotsi a mawu atha kutengera njira yayikulu kukometsera banja lanu. Komanso, pofuna kununkhira zinthu, yesetsani kunyalanyaza ziwalo zogonana pang'ono (zidzafika pamapeto pake).
Ganizirani za ziwalo zina za thupi zomwe zimakhudzanso kukhudza, zimakhala bwino ngati mumadziwa zofooka za mnzanu, ndikugwiritsa ntchito ziganizo zowunikira.
Mofananamo, kambiranani ndikugwiritsa ntchito madera akunyumba kwanu omwe mungakonde kukhala nawo mukamachita zonyansa komanso zosangalatsa kwa mnzanu.
4. A flirty mzere akhazikitse zinthu bwino
Kukhala wamanyazi nthawi yomweyo kumatsegula milatho yamaganizidwe, ndipo nthawi zambiri kumabweretsa zinthu zosangalatsa. Kutumizirana mameseji ndi mnzanu pazomwe mukulemba munthawi yochepa, kapena kuwalembera zolaula za momwe zakhalira usiku watha, ndi njira yabwino kuyamba.
Mwachitsanzo, "Ndavala malaya anu ndipo sindikulakalaka mutakhala kuti mwandigwira," kapena "Sindingathe kuganiza za usiku watha, ziwalo zilizonse za thupi lanu zimandipangitsa kufuna zambiri."
Izi ndi zitsanzo zabwino kwambiri, koma mungakhale bwino kufotokoza momwe mumamvera za wokondedwa wanu, ndi momwe amakusinthirani.
Wokondedwa wanu sangakhale wosasangalala, koma momwe mumayambira zinthuzo zikukhudzana kwambiri ndi momwe kutumizirana kwanu pafoni kumalandiridwira. Apanso, simuyenera kuchita zazikulu. Ndichinthu chomwe inu nonse muyenera kusangalala nacho.
5. Mukhale ndi cholinga chogonana
Mukamatumizirana zolaula, chitani m'njira yoti malembo anu apangitse mnzanu kuti azigonana, kudzutsidwa, ndikuganiza zomwe angachite m'thupi lanu.
Samalani, komabe! Simukufuna kuti mnzanuyo azikakamizidwa kuti agwirizane ndi kukula kwanu. Muyenera kukumbukira kuti mukutumizirana zolaula, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti muzikondana nonse inu simungayembekezere kukhala nawo.
Ngati mukuwona kuti sizikuyenda bwino, mutha kutumizira mawu anu kuti mupeze partne yanur kuchita zambiri. Izi zipatsa banja lanu zonunkhira zomwe zimafunika kuti zinthu zizikhala zotentha komanso zosangalatsa zogonana.
Kutumizirana zithunzi zolaula momwe mumakondera maudindo ena, zochita zanu, momwe mumakhudzira thupi lanu.
Maganizo Omaliza
Kutumizirana zolaula nthawi zonse kumakhala kwabwino m'mabanja, koma yesetsani kukhala otetezeka mukamachita izi. Samalani ndi nsanja zanu zokambirana, kuphatikiza zithunzi zomwe mumatumiza.
Pali mapulogalamu ndi zida zabwino zokuthandizani kuteteza zinsinsi zanu.
Kutumizirana zolaula ndikosangalatsa ndipo sikuyenera kumakupangitsani kukhala odabwitsa mwanjira iliyonse.
Chotsani malingaliro opanda pake ndikukhala owonekera monga momwe mungathere ndi zokonda zilizonse zomwe mungaganize.
Ukwati suyenera kukhala mapeto azosangalatsa zonse zomwe mudali nazo muli pachibwenzi.
Malingaliro, ndi mawu omwe timapanga nawo, zimapangitsa kukhala chiwalo chabwino kwambiri chogonana chomwe tili nacho.