Zamkati
- Osayesa kuwakonza
- Dziwani zomwe zimayambitsa
- Lankhulani nawo
- Bwanji ngati mkangano wabanja wapita patali?
- Lolani nthawi ichiritse
Ndizowona m'moyo kuti tonsefe tili ndi umunthu wosiyanasiyana ndi mawonekedwe ake, ndizomwe zimatisiyanitsa ngati anthu ndikupanga zomwe tili.
Zimaperekedwanso kuti chifukwa cha izi, sitingagwirizane kapena kuvomereza aliyense amene tingakumane naye. Nthawi zambiri, ngati mungakumane ndi munthu wovuta kwambiri kapena wovuta ndiye kuti ndikosavuta kuti muzikhala nawo pafupi, muchepetse nthawi yomwe mumakhala nawo kapena muchepetse ubale.
Koma chimachitika ndi chiyani ngati munthu wamavuto ali membala wa banja lanu?
Mikangano yabanja nthawi zambiri imakhala nkhani yokhumudwitsa, yachisoni komanso yosokoneza. Pachifukwachi, tapanga njira zingapo zomwe zingakuthandizeni kumvetsetsa, kulumikizana ndi kuthana ndi abale ovuta komanso zomwe zimachitika mkangano wabanja ukadutsa magawo oyanjanirana.
Osayesa kuwakonza
Ndikofunika kuvomereza kuti achibale anu ndiomwe ali osayesa kuwasintha, izi zimangowonjezera mavuto ndipo mwina zimawapangitsa kuti asakwiye ndi kubweretsa mavuto ena.
M'malo mwake, yesetsani kuyang'ana pazabwino muubwenzi wanu osati pazomwe zimakukwiyitsani.
Yesetsani kulembetsa mikhalidwe yawo yabwino komanso phindu lomwe alinso nalo pabanja lonse.
Kuyang'ana zabwino kungatithandizenso kuwona momwe zinthu zikuyendera, kuchepetsa nkhawa ndikukuthandizani kuti muwalekerere kwambiri ndikukhulupirira kuti onse awiri akhale pansi ndikugwirizana.
Dziwani zomwe zimayambitsa
Mosalephera, padzakhala nkhani zina kapena mitu yovuta yomwe imayambitsa kusamvana. Ngati mukudziwa kuti kukambirana mutu wina kumayambitsa machitidwe awo ovuta kapena kumatha kukangana mwamphamvu ndiye pewani mutuwo palimodzi.
Sikuti kungokambirana mitu yoyambitsa mavuto kungapangitse onse kukhala opanikizika komanso otengeka mtima, kukulepheretsani nonse kupita patsogolo mwanjira yothandiza.
Lankhulani nawo
Mukakhazikitsa zomwe mudzanene, khalani pansi ndikuyankhula nawo ndi zonsezi. Onetsetsani kuti ndinu wolimba mtima pogwiritsa ntchito mawu oti "Ine" koma osawoneka ngati olusa.
Patsani wachibale wanu mwayi woti afotokozere zakomwe akuyesera kuti afotokozere chifukwa chomwe amachitiramo.
Apatseni mwayi wofotokoza kwathunthu malingaliro awo kapena chifukwa chomwe akumvera kuweruzidwa kapena kusamvetsedwa.
Izi zingakuthandizeni kuzindikira muzu wa vutolo ndikupeza njira yothetsera mavutowo.
Chofunika koposa, kukhala chete ndiyo njira yokhayo yomwe mungapezere mwayi wothetsera vutolo. Ngati wachibale wanu anena kapena kuchita china chake chomwe chimakusowetsani mtendere, chotsani zomwe mwakumana nazo ndikupita kukakhazikika kwa mphindi zisanu kapena khumi kapena konzekerani nthawi ina kuti mukambirane.
Bwanji ngati mkangano wabanja wapita patali?
Nthawi zina, ngakhale mumakonda winawake bwanji, mumafuna kumusamalira ndikukhala ndi zokonda zake pamtima, zinthu zina sizingathetsedwe mosavuta, makamaka pamaso pa wachibale wotsutsa kapena wotsutsa.
Ngati zinthu zafika poipa ndipo zikuwoneka kuti palibe njira yothetsera vuto, mungafunike kufunsa woimira milandu kuti akhale mkhalapakati pakati pa magulu awiriwa ndikuyesetsa kuti muthe kupeza yankho.
Lolani nthawi ichiritse
Monga mwambi umanenera, nthawi ndi mchiritsi. Palibe vuto kupatula nthawi yocheza ndi m'bale wako kuti fumbi likhazikike. Pakadali pano, zikuwoneka kuti mwapanga zokhumudwitsa kwa abale anu zomwe zingapangitse kuti zikhale zovuta kuwongolera momwe mumawamvera ndikumva nawo.
Dzipatseni nthawi yopuma, kusinkhasinkha, kusintha ndikukwaniritsa zomwe mwagwirizana. Nthawi ikhoza kukhala chinthu chofunikira kwambiri cholola ubale wanu kukula ndikukumbukiranso, kuti zinthu izi sizingachitike mwadzidzidzi.